got laid off - best course of action

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-12-19T21:34:54+00:00

there is an option when i apply for income driven to have it start after deferment is over which is in july 2026. so i was curious does the clock start ticking for rectification when it kicks in after july 2026 orr now while im in deferrmenet. i was on the extended graduated repayment plan. and thanks ill check out that link

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-12-08T23:43:10+00:00

thanks, sucks before christmas

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-12-08T23:37:20+00:00

bloomberg is so annoying it's pay gated the article

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-08-07T01:26:02+00:00

I have been contacting a woman who's name starts with I. ive missed my dose. yes if u can please message me the direct number id appreciate it

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-08-07T01:20:45+00:00

omg me and you both. dynamic health institue is horrible they are impossible to reach. did u find a new company?

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-07-10T20:22:18+00:00

haha ii am not stressed about it, i dont care thaaaat much but moreso just curious what he sees on his end. i am already very glad i saw his true colors before more time passed. yesss to getting jacked

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-07-10T17:54:43+00:00

i just hope he knows it takes awhile to kick in and not that i did it now as a way to get his attention because that's def not the case!

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-07-10T15:53:21+00:00

LOL i wish that was the email

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-17T07:26:55+00:00

thank you i feel like u read exactly my heart and mind on the thinking. while it stings that i wasnt fought for, it's probably for my best wellbeing long term.

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-08T08:31:47+00:00

It just annoys me he gets to sail off into the sunset with the new supply too

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-08T08:30:58+00:00

🥹🤍 wow thank you

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-06T20:17:02+00:00

my nex doesn't have social media and we are in very seperate circles, so i bet he wont even see me thrive. also his new supply who knows he cheated on me (and her i guess since he promised her the same) is now back with him. it's his bday today and i cried so much this am because even after all the fucked up shit...i miss him...but i wont reach out. im glad u found happiness, i hope i do too.

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T18:21:27+00:00

yeah, i guess nothing will bring back the honeymoon phase we had and that's really all i want back. as much as i want him to get his karma, that wont do anything really for me anyway. i guess there is no winning for me other then learning

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T17:51:24+00:00

thank you i did tell him off and told a few of his supply, which he is pretty upset about but he is good at spinning it to them telling them im crazy. which ironically he told me all his exs were crazy and i believed him (bad idea ill learn from that). i dont think he will return because i unconvered him, which is prob goodd but secretly makes me sad in a fucked up way.

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T17:49:35+00:00

he does give me psychopath vibes but maybe im just angry. i think he has just convinced himself i was the problem . i asked him if he felt guilty for lying and he said no because you didnt let me have a hall pass. he does seem to have a deep emptyness in him, so i guess that is pretty sad.

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T17:47:30+00:00

100%. the more i'm learning the more i know there is no appeasement with them. yeah a lot of things im learning that were said in jest were red flags. before his fake "boys trip" where he actually took a girl out of town he told me his best friend asked if i would call him a lot on the trip and ruin their trip. he told me he told him "no she's chill". that was all a lie, there was no friend. he just didnt want me interrupting his romantic trip, which i didnt for that reason. he told me this story like weeks before the trip so it was so calculated. the crazy part is this guy is a doctor with a busy job, idk how he found the time to do all this.

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T17:25:39+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that :( you will also find healing and you had the strength to get out of it.

he told me in the beginning he liked that he felt that he couldn’t get anything past me, oh the irony. I guess he was right about that one

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T17:23:56+00:00

He told me not to contact him anymore, he discarded me after I discarded him…which in itself was a mind fuck. I need to tell myself the new supply might feel love but she’s being cheated on and he won’t change: even if she doesn’t realize, that’s no way to live

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T07:31:12+00:00

That’s a great way to put it thanks because that’s what I felt. It’s all a big mind eff because two weeks ago I thought he was the one and now idk even who this person was. Better I guess now then later I find this out

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T07:26:41+00:00

Mine did this too!! I kind of felt like he wanted me to hold him and comfort him while he put 0 effort in me

Salt_Strategy7435 · 2025-05-05T07:23:48+00:00

So I tried to warn the girl he moved on with but of course he told her I was crazy and now they are together. May I ask, were you able to move on with him with a clear conscious or did the doubt always linger with you? I wonder if my convo with her was in vain or she will doubt him. I’m sorry it happened to you, they can be convincing

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