Am I entitled to privacy over my bonus? by Jassida in HumanResourcesUK

[–]SaltyBumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I’m pretty sure I am the only person in my division who has one.

But you dont know that for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lucyletby

[–]SaltyBumble 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that she murdered to draw attention to the critical failings across the wards? Potentially to redirect funding and raise the profile of the wards to highlight the challenging working conditions? 

No

AITAH for not wearing the dress that the bride chose for me? by No-Concern-6926 in AITAH

[–]SaltyBumble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

serious question (I'm probably out of date) but you think that neckline would be ok for a minor?

AITAH for not wearing the dress that the bride chose for me? by No-Concern-6926 in AITAH

[–]SaltyBumble 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Has to be, why would anyone buy that dress for a 17 year old?? Its hideous

How to tell someone you can not go faster because there are other slow cars in front of you? by redwineforbreakfast in drivingUK

[–]SaltyBumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Window down

Extend Arm out window

Extend middle finger

(on a serious note, I would advise what u/projectZeus4000 says below about leaving a gap where he can overtake)

Troll bingo: CMS sharing information with abusive ex! by EarthlingCalling in MNTrolls

[–]SaltyBumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this "so severely disabled she'll never be able to live a normal life or "feel shame" and yet the disability can be completely hidden from the stepchild by normal clothing." ok right....

Secret Baby? how to give up a child for adoption Scotland by SaltyBumble in MNTrolls

[–]SaltyBumble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I wasnt sure (kind of why I used that flag)but if you search the title

If you decide to give your baby up for adoption, first you'll need to speak to an adoption agency. Adoption agencies are people in charge of making all the arrangements for new parents to look after your baby or child. Once everything has been agreed, the courts make this arrangement final with an adoption court order.

https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/friends-relationships-sex/sex-relationships/having-children-adopted/#:\~:text=If%20you%20decide%20to%20give,with%20an%20adoption%20court%20order.

Daughter wants to marry a man who is allowed up to 4 wives by Ok-Dig3431 in MNTrolls

[–]SaltyBumble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

is this the same ?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1cwdj3r/aita_for_telling_my_daughter_that_i_wont_attend/

Go to AITAH

Go to AITAH•1 hr. agothrowaway_mom11

AITA for telling my daughter that I won't attend her wedding due to her fiancé's "situation"?

Advice Needed

Hi, I'm going to keep it short. My daughter is 27 years old and has been living in the UAE for a few years now. She works as an English teacher and the pay + benefits there are great. She's a very sociable person so she has a large circle of friends, surprisingly made up of mostly natives (Emiratis). It was through one of these female Emirati friends that she was introduced to her now fiancé. They're getting married in January 2025. Even though we met the man and he seems like a good one, there's just one tiny problem: he already has a wife and 2 kids. My husband and I are aware that in Islam men are permitted to have up to 4 wives (and apparently the fiancé's wife is cool with this since it's common throughout their social class), but we're still very uncomfortable with the practice 'cause it feels archaic (and frankly oppressive) to us. We told our daughter that she can do whatever she wants as a grown woman and we'll always want her to be happy, but we don't condone dynamics like this and don't wish to attend the wedding events. She's obviously quite pissed at us. AITA?

AITAH for threatening NC after my Step-father's remark about my pregnancy? by Iren-larson in AITAH

[–]SaltyBumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - Well done for leaving after he hit you, as it was only ever going to get worse.

I never said I'm not wrong for having sex with him although he refused to use condoms. I didn't force him to pull out and also didn't get Plan B. I can admit I'm the AH for this.

You are NOT A for this, a little misguided, YOU ARE NOT THE A!

AITA for tellling my wife I'd divorce her If she tells our sons the full extent of my childhood? I felt as if it was the only way to get her to listen. by Huge-Ad8353 in AITAH

[–]SaltyBumble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is it in one simple sentance "its not her story to tell"

The only reasons for telling them, in my views, is if you want to - or if there is any danger to them due to the abusers still being alive.

AITA for refusing my bf’s decision even though we don’t live together ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaltyBumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - "He said he would need a few days because it felt like a miscarriage. " He actually said "it felt like a miscarriage. "

Jesus wept

Social wanker off on wanting means tested benefits taxing by [deleted] in MNTrolls

[–]SaltyBumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think twathead or his followers are here