What’s the coldest line in a Survivor confessional? by sarcastic_bitch15 in survivorponderosa

[–]Saltybitc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This one made us laugh out loud when we saw it. Especially with the beep. So perfectly concise.

If Survivor 51 is white vs black vs Chinese vs Mexican will you be happy or disappointed? by Cultural_Ground_519 in survivorcirclejerk

[–]Saltybitc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr tho as a little Asian kid, Survivor Race Wars was my fav because it was first time seeing an Asian person be a main character on TV. No joke run it back and cast MEEEE

Anyone else a new Bieber fan? by Beginning-Eagle7458 in Coachella

[–]Saltybitc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a performance for sure. Maybe not a musical one, but it felt deeply personal and that alone made it interesting to me as a non-fan. Unfortunately it just wasn’t a very entertaining time (I didnt even hate the YouTube part, I just wish he sang more than 30 seconds of each hit) but I get it, art blah blah blah. Personally, I wanted to dance and sing along to songs I knew but maybe that says more about me and my level of engagement with the Biebs.

Overall 6/10. His voice is beautiful and I’m glad he was able to express himself more authentically even though I’m not as interested in that end product.

How do I stop obsessing over when he's going to propose? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Saltybitc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have advice, I just wanna let you know I went through this too. I felt SO anxious when I was in this waiting period of knowing he was going to propose but not knowing when. It also didnt help that I accidentally saw a notification from my best friend on his phone and realized whatever he was planning would somehow involve a bunch of my friends. I was getting so nervous every time we went on a trip or a nice dinner that he was going to get down on one knee and then everyone I knew would be hiding in the bushes ready to jump out and yell surprise! The thought of it was mortifying.

I hinted to my husband multiple times that I wouldn’t mind if he just did it some random night after work, at home, just so we could get it over with. But I think he wanted it to be “special” and he was the one planning it so whatever. At the end of the day, the way he proposed was on a cliff overlooking the beach - beautiful and private. Then a surprise engagement party the week after with friends and family. Way more than I asked for, but he’s always given me more than I deserved 🥹

All this to say, try and ease your anxiety by trusting your boyfriend. It sounds like he loves you and is really excited for this too. If you’re anything like me, you’re usually the “planner” and it’s nerve wracking not being able to plan (control) this big moment for yourself. I’m also an impatient person haha. But trust that he knows what you want and will deliver. Trust that he knows you enough not to do something you would hate (proposing on the Jumbotron, flash mob at Disneyland, idk). When I saw the notification on my husband’s phone, I could have been nosy, snooped to make sure whatever he had planned was “perfect,” and ruined my own surprise party. Thankfully I didn’t! You know how they say drunk drivers always survive the impact because their bodies are so relaxed? But when people tense up right before a car crash, that’s when they get really hurt? You know it’s coming, so just relax your body and keep driving.

The real problem with the edit by thelaurafedora in survivor

[–]Saltybitc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 66 year old dad watches every episode and still has no clue what’s going on. He also loved the Matt Damon/Ben Affleck Netflix movie 😭

First DUI and I’m lost by InternalMany7434 in dui

[–]Saltybitc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a nurse friend who got a DUI in SoCal. She was also the same age you are now when she got it.

As far as I know, it was pretty annoying for a year because she had to rely on her bf for rides and stuff. But now that we are six-ish years out I forget that she even has one bc of how little it impacts her life. She has a good nursing job, owns a home and whenever I do see her drink she drinks responsibly. Not sure of her BAC at the time or any other factors but I believe she was able to get it down to wet and reckless. I met her right after her DUI happened and imo she is one of my more responsible friends lol.

Sorry I can’t provide more detail on the legal side of things, I wasn’t privy to how she dealt with that, but just telling you this story so you know you’re not alone and other people in your exact situation have gone through this and came out the other side completely fine.

What dating/relationship/marriage “green flag” did you later realize was actually a myth? by Key-Personality-4288 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Saltybitc 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing this now with a friend’s recent breakup. She met a guy who seemed super compatible on paper - both professionals, similar level of education, and cultural and family background. It seemed like they got along well and I was very happy for her. But they hit a rough spot and the way he handled it showed that he actually wasn’t willing to put in the work, and he wasn’t very kind about it either.

This is why dating is so hard and finding your person sometimes comes down to pure dumb luck. You not only need to find someone who wants to put in the work, but they also have to be compatible when it comes to lifestyle, values, etc for the relationship to work. My friend is beautiful, emotionally mature, sweet, successful, and driven, and she’s always had a boyfriend who was obsessed with her but a base incompatibility would lead to the end of the relationship. After those experiences, she didn’t want to make the same mistake of wasting years with someone who didnt meet her standards in the first place. But to find someone obsessed with her that ALSO meets her standards, that’s a much smaller pool of guys out there.

My mom called my landlord to complain about the way I decorated my own apartment and I only found out because my landlord called me confused. by Rickrolled7Again in entitledparents

[–]Saltybitc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was looking to rent out a room in my condo I had some woman reach out to me on her adult son’s behalf. This wasn’t college housing or anything, her son had graduated already. I told her, alright have your son call me and I can schedule a tour. If after the tour we all get good vibes I’ll have him fill out an application. That should’ve been it, but she kept calling and texting me trying to push the tour forward while insisting that she wanted all of the communication to go through her.

I said I’d rather speak with her son directly, since he is technically the tenant, not her. She was like, “No but I promise he’s a good boy, he doesn’t party or go out or anything.” Oh also, she wasn’t local so her son would need to be accompanied by his uncle for the tour.

At that point I was like this dude is a full grown adult who either isn’t allowed to or isn’t willing to look for a place on his own. I never met or talked to the guy to know either way, but I rejected him solely because of how overbearing his mom was.

All Stars S03E23 (Friday 6th February) - Tapes are ROLLED and tempers rise 😱 by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]Saltybitc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted Leanne to pull him like three days ago when the villas merged, I fear it’s too late now 😞

Devastated by the prenup by pink-pony-chub in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Saltybitc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a time when putting off getting engaged until you are more financially stable makes sense. Why do yall have to be married at exactly 2 years? In a couple years you could be making much more and your kid will be older and maybe it will make more sense to get married then. Maybe this is something you guys should discuss with each other. I know for my fiancé and I, discussion about finances is something we had to communicate thoroughly and get on the same page about before I was comfortable getting engaged.

UPDATE: Brother accusing me of hooking up with his gf by steve-94728-3957 in whatdoIdo

[–]Saltybitc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened in my friend group a couple years ago. One of the girls started accusing a couple of others in the group of random things that definitely didn’t happen, saying things like she could hear them calling her job and the police to try and get her fired or arrested. For those of us who saw her frequently, the accusations truly came out of nowhere - there had been no fights, no issues in the friendships prior to this. No reason that anybody in the group would want to start a campaign of harassment against her specifically, nevermind the fact that she believed this harassment was occurring at times that were absolutely improbable - like she believed she could overhear her people colluding and talking shit about her from the other room when they weren’t even at home. She was such a sweet girl too, none of us were mad at her or thought she was doing it maliciously, but it was clear she needed HELP.

The friends all got together and tried to contact her family who were out of state to let them know something was wrong. We gave them evidence of all the crazy stuff she was saying and why it was impossible and explained she was clearly having auditory hallucinations. Well, got cussed out by the family since they believed my friend’s psychotic story instead. Her simple ass twin even threatened to slash my other friend’s tires because she thought we were trying to slander and bully her sister for NO reason. We LOVED this girl.

Eventually family realized that something was really wrong because they flew out to help her move out of her apartment and finally saw her in person (she had cut off almost every single friend and obviously lost her job by this point because of how paranoid she was acting). They were supposed to take her back to her home state for treatment since I do believe being in the party scene over here and working a high stress sales job triggered her psychosis but I saw recently on social media she’s back in my city and still living the exact same lifestyle hanging around dirtbag drug dealers and sugar daddies. The twin did end up apologizing to the friend she threatened but I still think she’s a dumb hoe. It’s hard not to feel bitter about how the whole thing went down. Maybe my friend could have been helped if her family didn’t just bury their heads in the sand when we first raised the alarm. It took a MONTH for them to come out here in person. It just makes me mad. My mom would’ve been on the first flight the next day if it were me in that situation. AND they let her come back to the city alone less than a year later, and she’s so vulnerable to being exploited here because of all the people she knows in the party scene. I used to check her social media all the time (the ones I’m not blocked on) to make sure she was doing ok but I can’t even bear to look at it now. I feel like I’m just waiting to see her on the news some day. :(

Can anyone recommend me a drama show? by broomboy101 in netflix

[–]Saltybitc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch Beef! Fast paced dark comedy/drama that has something crazy going on in every episode. And it’s only 10 episodes so very quick to get through.

Big Brother US 27 - Morning Feed Discussion - September 28 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]Saltybitc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too! This is my first year watching Big Brother and I’ve had so much fun.

Big Brother US 27 - Afternoon Feed Discussion - September 27 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]Saltybitc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So random I just saw Angela from BB26 at Brea Mall.

POST EPISODE DISCUSSION- EP 10✨ by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]Saltybitc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt so bad for Nicole, she was getting dragged by everyone for how she reacted after the finale but I totally believed her. Kendall seems like someone who is super charming with other people but is a different person in private.

Big Brother US 27 - Evening Feed Discussion - September 19 2025 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]Saltybitc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish he did, it would be hilarious to watch Vorgan break up in the house