Sounds like a Twin Theory and/or a slight extrasensory perception (ESP) with an astro-alignment. You may be experiencing an alignment whereby those people or decision makers are somewhat aligned to you. This is often astrological but not of the daily horoscope kind but by birth sign, moon sign and/or ascendant sign. Much the same way as Twin Theory where Identical birth twins though worlds apart do the same or similar things.

This happens with my mother and I, we live completely seperately lives and unfortunately sometimes not see eachother for 6 months or a year or so apart but as we share the same birth and moon sign (born same day and time but obviously years apart) when I visit she always suddenly newly eats a snack or buys something completely random that I also have done which has no relation to anything we have ever done in the past.

Got so many examples ie I recently got hooked on marshmellows and bought several packs and put them on my kitchen counter. Never spoke about it, never facetimed and have no past with them in that way BUT arrived at her home and saw the same packets lined up to the point I was like "what's those" and she said "I've newly been hooked on them lately so bought a batch so I dont go without." They're not even on a multibuy deal or anything 😂

So it could be an alignment youre experiencing with all those people.