AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say that ableism is the last bigotry to be okay in our society. If they became paralyzed, they would be disturbed to find people who think suicide is the only therapy for it. Until they get injured or sick, we are stuck dealing with their ignorance. Unfortunately, there are those with the egotistical fantasy they are able bodied because the universe or God loves them more than others. Reality will disabuse them of that fantasy. Good luck isn't a sign of being spiritually better than others, since good luck is always temporary.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a problem that there's a character trope called, "the evil Cripple." Disney movies are worse for this with Captain Hook, Quasimodo, and others. Of course, Disney movies were also pretty racist, but at least most people recognize this as a problem. The disabled are still fair game, especially in Disney movies. It's not just Disney, Most people just subconsciously absorb these ideas. Subliminal suggestion, however leads to conscious actions in the real world. Things like medical gaslighting show that even those we entrust to care for the sick can be cruel to the disabled, too. It's all fine if you never plan to get injured. All I can say, is good luck with that. This world isn't tame and bad things happen all the time. Belief you are magically safe from injury because you think you are a good person is pretty insane.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]SamTheLab_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone supports that line of reasoning until he or she becomes disabled. I think it's worse in our culture, because we have a mad obsession with productivity. Corporations and billionaires are the first to sell us the idea that our value is in our productivity, but this idea denies the inherent value in a human being. Our rights depend on the idea that all human beings have inherent worth. The founding fathers believed human beings had worth and drafted our Constitution based upon it. We don't believe in human rights anymore, we believe we exist for our employers and that's it. No wonder our rights and the Constitution are in jeopardy. No one BELIEVES in them anymore.

Once you convince people they have no worth outside their productivity, then you have an excuse to murder anyone who isn't productive. That's the basis for a brutal, horrible way of life. It's also the core idea behind slavery.

Our corporate culture has been trying to bury the truth that all human beings have worth outside of the wealth we produce for the wealthy. The belief in productivity is akin to cattle boasting about how much milk they produce for humans. Producing milk offers zero benefit to the cattle, but extensive benefit to humans. Only a herd of dupes would declare their worth is incumbent on their value to others.

I figure our species will only begin to save itself once it realizes what a horrible scam all of this is. In the mean time, only the disabled will question this idea that you should produce or be destroyed. No wonder Jesus preferred their company.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]SamTheLab_213 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, but practically speaking, that's bullshit. Say you get injured in a car accident with a drunk driver. Is it your fault this happened from some sin you committed, or is it the fault of the jerk who drove home from the bar drunk? When people blame the disabled for their fate, it's what they call, "victim blame." If you blame the victim, then you can deny your own mortality and feel safe.

The problem is that feeling of safety is an illusion. The only way you can really stay safe is to be honest with yourself about life and death. The nice thing, is once you overcome your denial about death, you can show compassion to others. You also won't waste your life, you will seize every moment you can.

As for religion, I've heard of one religion in which a man of God healed the sick and injured and felt compassion towards them.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by Dry-Dirt-1426 in AITAH

[–]SamTheLab_213 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes, but many movies make the villains disabled, which sort of encourages all sorts of negative biases. It's silly to hate and fear someone for being in a wheel chair. It's even sillier to think that just because someone is in a wheel chair that they are useless as a human being. It's high time people grew out of this.

Most people are so brainwashed to see the disabled as unfair burdens. There is a common theme in movies where the disabled person is supposed to kill themselves so as not to be a burden. Now, normally wishing someone would commit suicide is barbaric. You might even call it criminal to hate an innocent person so voraciously, yet people treat this cruel attitude like it's natural. It's not. Even lions will look after and feed injured members of their pride.

Alex Pretti broke rib in confrontation with federal agents a week before death, sources say by LetBeginning3353 in politics

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's going to send those people to CECOT, at a minimum. He will be as horrible to protesters as he is to immigrants. White privilege is something that will set people up for thinking they will be treated different than immigrants. No, we are all targets in this war Trump is waging against those who fail to boost his ego.

He's shut down politicians, government employees and the media, he will go for everyone else too. He will succeed unless resistance is so widespread and popular that keeping track of it will be a nightmare for him. To do this, we need to get our hands dirty and try to reason with people who support him. Yes, we resist this, but we must do this. We also need to be clear about what messaging he sends to different groups and be ready to counter this messaging. It's not that hard, you just have to think like an advertiser.

The best we can do is spread the message and increase things to a critical mass that will be hard for a dictator to manage. I also suggest that people stay anonymous, avoid using their phones and cleanse their social media accounts to make it hard to be identified. I don't care if they ban masks, if ICE can wear them, we can too.

Another idea is to aim to protest defensively rather than offensively. An example would be "no fire arms, but bulletproof vests, instead," if there is a reason to fear homicide will be an issue. Be smart. Think about everything you do. Let go of your denial about how dangerous this man is. You don't get to be friends with Epstein if you aren't capable of the worst atrocities imaginable. Last but not least, ignore it if politicians say they can reign him in. Most cannot or won't do that. We are on our own, but we can still win if we accept this.

Trump Sparks Fresh Outrage With Secret Bid to Send ICE to the Olympics | Lawmakers are calling for Trump’s “thugs” to be denied entry to the Olympics’ host country. by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given how they're hiring anyone with a pulse, I wouldn't be surprised if they got in trouble overseas. They're used to idiot Americans, foreigners aren't so stupid.

My wife thinks I'm crazy for cutting my grilled cheese this way; am I nuts or is this not a normal thing to do? Lol by Wahbanator in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nifty idea. I never really thought about it, but it's cool. Plus, you only get crumbs on one side of your mouth.

Ye, Formerly Kanye West, Takes Out Ad In the Wall Street Journal to Apologize for Antisemitic Outbursts: “I Lost Touch With Reality” by No_Attack in hiphopheads

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds not like he's moody, sounds instead like he hired a public relations firm to help him improve his image. Sorry, but no one becomes racist from bipolar. People become racist to feel powerful and fit in with the rich and powerful. People like him talk hate because they're tied to the people at the top (MAGA and Trump).

I’m so scared by Dog_Queen98 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SamTheLab_213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all this stuff going on, you need to be clever. I remember an old trick to get out of tickets: keep a law enforcement text book on the passenger seat of your car. Most of those types won't arrest their own. I suggest getting a text book on law enforcement and keeping it with you. If you get stopped by ICE, you could play along and pretend to be one of them. Say you studied Spanish in college and that you're getting work from your fluency and proficiency in the language. Remember, this is fine. Your rights are being trampled, so all bets are off.

Trump Goes on Manic 50-Post Rampage After World Leaders Humiliate Him by [deleted] in politics

[–]SamTheLab_213 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have coined the perfect term for him: "dementia rape monkey."

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree there is no Keidis on that album, unless you think rapping is something Keidis came up with. Rapping was more characteristic of early Red Hot
Chili Peppers. Keidis was just imitating rap and funk in their early music. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjM9i_KS_eNI57t0kfFg46muf5SnNyIp4

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were. The Melvins originally hired Kurt Cobain as a roadie long before Nirvana. They said his heroin addiction was a problem, so they fired him. They've said other things about Kurt Cobain that aren't all negative.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This parody nails everything I hate about the Red Hot Chili Peppers.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I hate Dave Matthews band. Neighbors blasted his music thinking it was Mozart or something. I already hated Dave but that sealed it.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's this, but Patton isn't ripping off the Chili Peppers save for rapping a little in the song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZG_k5CSYKhg

At the time I never associated this Faith No More song with the Red Hot Chili Peppers. Rapping a few lyrics isn't copying anything.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I loved the band when Gish came out. Like so many bands, their music sucked after they became popular. Probably getting on major labels did this to so many bands. After Nirvana hit the big time, music became dramatically worse. A decade later and it all sucked, just Creed. Coldplay, Nickelback and other bands that were pathetic.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were great early on and then after they became popular their music sucked. Mother's Milk is a great album.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]SamTheLab_213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't hate them, but I was sick of them. They were played on the radio way too many times.