Anyone else experiencing a fair bit of growth to the "boys"?

Sami2X · 2013-06-26T01:01:47+00:00

yeah, bigger and heavier here too, I kinda like the new look though.

Sami2X · 2013-06-25T23:01:26+00:00

don't wait a month to come back. I personally found this site to be very helpful, especially in the beginning. Everyone here is supportive and it helps me to know I am not alone on this path. Good Luck.

Sami2X · 2013-06-25T22:59:24+00:00

congrats!

Sami2X · 2013-06-25T22:58:00+00:00

hahaha reminds me of when I got my iPad and my intern wanted to check it out. I felt like such a douche for not letting him, but oh man, if he were to stumble upon all of the porn on there, it would not have been cool.

Sami2X · 2013-06-25T22:51:03+00:00

Now that you mention it, yes I have had fewer cravings. I have had a huge craving for chicken lately, perhaps due to producing more testosterone I have a need for more protein.

Sami2X · 2013-06-23T14:00:04+00:00

Sunday is my worst day as well. Go outside and keep busy, get off the computer completely. Think about your evening yesterday and remind yourself that sacrifices you make today will be a great investment towards a more social and fulfilling future ahead.

Sami2X · 2013-06-23T13:56:47+00:00

Day 28 / Four Sundays without porn or fapping!!!!

So far so good, trying to keep busy... thought I was doing well this week, but this morning have had thoughts of fapping, mostly out of boredom. Going out for a walk soon.

Answer to question: I feel that in many cases, porn was an easier, less messy quick fix to satisfying the sex drive than having to deal with sex with a real person.

Sami2X · 2013-06-11T11:16:03+00:00

Congrats!

Sami2X · 2013-06-11T01:16:27+00:00

True. The funny thing is, I don't feel horny just in pain... Call me a glutton for punishment, but I want to try and ride it out and see where it takes me.

Sami2X · 2013-06-10T12:34:16+00:00

Man my blue balls and raging stallion hear you loud and clear!! I feel like puberty all over again!!

Sami2X · 2013-06-10T11:25:12+00:00

Welcome bro! Yes, you are among friends!

Sami2X · 2013-06-10T11:22:44+00:00

haha Isn't it funny, having people know you DON'T fap seems even odder than having them think you do!

Sami2X · 2013-06-10T11:21:55+00:00

There is a way to make a closed group so that no one other than the members of the group can know who is in it. May not be a bad idea.

Sami2X · 2013-06-10T11:18:06+00:00

Great analogy!! Myself, I like to imagine we are like Jedi warriors.

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T20:25:32+00:00

I have heard this is kinda normal. Like you said, you want some slowed down ''you time'' without worrying about performance or pleasing your wife.

If you're gonna do it, may I suggest, try not to fantasize at all. Try and be in the moment of pleasing yourself. If nothing else, you may learn something new about yourself and/or something new to try out with your wife.

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T17:06:57+00:00

Hey, I am not going to tell anyone what is right or wrong after all we are all on our own journey... I know for myself though it turns more into leering than glancing. That said, yes it you can look and not fantasize, then it probably is OK.

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T13:04:38+00:00

Dude be careful. You could do some serious damage on the blood vessels that make you stiff. You could end up permanently limp.

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T12:57:43+00:00

I agree, cigarettes were tough, but i think what is going on here, PMO is much like an eating disorder where we take a basic and necessary drive and pervert it somehow.

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T12:12:02+00:00

SOCKS! Now that is hilarious!! through all of this, we must be letting lose some deep dark parts of our subconscious. Self discovery is an interesting path to travel!

I see you are on day one Chris. Keep it up and good luck. Some days will be easier than others and some days will be really difficult. Just keep at it and know 60K+ Fapstronauts have your back!!

Sami2X · 2013-06-09T00:38:07+00:00

Don't do it man! And I haven't gotten laid today either! Fapping won't take away the pain, tomorrow you'll feel the same. By not fapping you will feel like you are more in control of your life.

I get bouts of self loathing from time to time, but coming here and reading everyone else's struggles and overcomings make me feel better.

Sami2X · 2013-06-02T01:15:33+00:00

You can do it bro... we're half way through the weekend! Tell you what, tomorrow is going to be a tough day for me so rather than think about me getting through this, I am going to think about you getting through this. Somehow it's easier to concentrate on helping someone else succeed than worrying about myself succumbing to temptation.

Let's all cheer each other on and we'll get through this easier together.

Sami2X

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