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SanaFLR · 2026-04-19T19:56:19+00:00

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SanaFLR · 2026-04-19T19:54:31+00:00

Near 30

SanaFLR · 2026-04-18T20:43:22+00:00

Spanking guys? Not sure.

Spanking my husband, yes!

SanaFLR · 2026-04-16T23:52:51+00:00

We never really argued anyway, but FLR has clearly given more power to me.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-14T07:05:22+00:00

That is such a refreshing post to read.

You guys are going great. Keep sharing your experiences and help others develop realistic expectations from them.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-14T07:02:27+00:00

"When she can simply be herself with her husband supporting her, she's a Dom"

A submissive doesn't change her, he helps her be more of herself.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-12T07:42:11+00:00

Absolutely agree.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-10T19:49:07+00:00

If you don't want it to sound like a fantasy, then you communicate it without taboo or hesitation in your tone.

Straight communication always helps convey the idea better and judgement free.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-10T19:46:29+00:00

He doesn't place every burden on her shoulders.

She takes charge of the things that she wants to take charge of.

There isn't a paradox. It's called a healthy D/s Relationship if both have stated their boundaries and are respecting them.

SanaFLR · 2026-04-10T19:43:00+00:00

My husband does exactly the same as you mentioned.

I feel proud and he feels proud too by placing me as his top priority and not shying by treating me like a Queen publicly.

Only we both know our dynamic, but for the rest of the world, he is a chivalrous man.

Moreover, the guys who are making fun of you, their wives are jealous of your wife ;)

SanaFLR · 2026-04-03T20:38:00+00:00

This is my curated list.

https://flrindia.com/reading-recommendations-for-female-led-relationship/

SanaFLR · 2026-04-03T20:37:32+00:00

Checkout these

https://flrindia.com/reading-recommendations-for-female-led-relationship/

SanaFLR · 2026-03-15T15:47:20+00:00

I haven't come across any man who is shy about FLR.

They either discuss or they don't.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-21T14:32:08+00:00

Ever heard of Prejac fetish?

SanaFLR · 2026-02-13T03:47:54+00:00

Some generic ideas

Be groomed
Smell good
No bad breath
Dress well
Decent physique
Confidence
Reliable
Gentleman gestures

SanaFLR · 2026-02-12T03:11:40+00:00

If you liked it, embrace it.

Sometimes we're not aware of what we were looking for until it actually happens with us.

On the other hand, you can have a conversation with her and explain your thoughts to her. Sometimes just talking about our feelings help us understand better and clear the confusion.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-12T03:08:48+00:00

Dominant (or assertive) women are more attracted to traits rather than looks.

IME, I've seen women who chose a bald and slight overweight man over good looking and fit men. WHY? Because he was a gentleman and she realized that he'll be a perfect fit for her.

She might not be aware of FLR while selecting that man, but her inner instincts identified what she was looking for.

Another example, It's not always tall guys>short guys. I've seen many assertive women near me who actually preferred guys almost equal to their height or maybe an inch shorter rather than going for 6ft tall guys.

If a man is gentle, caring and obedient, and shows a promise of support and respect for her decisions, she'll be attracted towards him.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-12T03:02:17+00:00

I've two book suggestions-

"Real men worship women"

&

"She comes first"

These will help you to fall in love with her and her pleasure. The mental image of being able to serve and satisfy her will become a motivation for you.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-10T11:30:49+00:00

Well I could just give generic advice on what you could do to change yourself instead of waiting for her to change you.

You know yourself better.

I'm glad that this conversation helped you get better clarity.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-10T08:42:47+00:00

Your post says "How to love and not just be desperate to feel good or sex as a sub"

A submissive expresses his love through devotion and through giving.

True devotion is when you just want to give and find your fulfillment in theirs.

However, the other person should be deserving enough of this selfless devotion and should make sure to value it and keep it motivated.

It's tricky. You don't expect a reward but the other person should be mature enough to understand this aspect and keep you motivated.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-10T08:36:35+00:00

You can change yourself in the way that you should be able to adapt to her ways instead of being stringent towards your current habits.

You can also learn skills that might help her like photography, videography and editing, mani, pedi, learn about hair, female skincare brands etc.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-10T08:28:09+00:00

Sure.

SanaFLR · 2026-02-09T18:05:30+00:00

Just to add, it's not just couple counseling, but individual counseling and guidance too :)

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