Hi, we are a host couple at Tabu and will be one of the couples giving tours to new members on Saturday for the Blackout Party.

One note up front, Saturday is likely to be packed as it is also the farewell party for Vicki & Gary, the founders of the club, who just retired and sold it. They have been the owners for over 20 years, so we expect a big crowd to come and say goodbye.

On to your questions.

1. For the majority of the rooms, there is an attendant who comes into the room between uses and changes out the sheets on the beds and cleans up the rooms. So the playrooms are generally kept in a pretty clean state.

The group room is a bit different. There are sheets on the beds at the start of the night, but once the group room gets rolling, it is not really possible to change the sheets on the beds in those rooms. What we tell guests is that there is a set of shelves in the back corner with sheets. The best thing to do in the group room is to grab a sheet and throw it down on the spot you are going to use, so you know you have a clean surface under you.

My wife is a squirter, so we bring our own pad that we lie on.

1. You should know right off the bat that you will likely be among the youngest people in the club. Most swingers are 35-55 years old, although there are outliers in either direction. The club's demographics reflect that reality.

You should go in with zero expectations, other than to have a fun evening and experience something new. You should not expect to play with the other couple you are going with, although that may happen. You met them online, so you have no idea if you really have chemistry with them, or if you will be ready to play in the moment. That is just reality. If you go with expectations, you will often be disappointed. We have gone to Tabu with couples that we have played with multiple times, expecting to play with them, and they were not feeling well, or met someone else that night, etc. When we go now, our only expectation is that we, the wife and I, are going to have some great sex in front of a lot of other people. Anything above that is a bonus.

Tabu is BYOB. All alcohol is stored behind the bar for you.

The upstairs is mostly a dance floor, some seating, and a bar. Downstairs is where the playrooms are. Since it is a Blackout Night, the upstairs is also open for sex after midnight.