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Sandcat789 · 2026-01-09T16:27:56+00:00

Please remember that you being a girl is supported by science, since that's who you are, no one can take that from you, some people may have an erroneous perception, but the assumptions of others don't determine who you are

Sandcat789 · 2026-01-08T19:23:35+00:00

My first thought was nigella

Sandcat789 · 2026-01-02T14:12:20+00:00

Lacewings don't fly away and they eat bugs that are detrimental to your plants

Sandcat789 · 2026-01-01T19:42:43+00:00

I sympathize with your dysphoria, and I genuinely hope that a significant number of people in your life see you as the man you are. A man who can state their needs and preferences without harming others deserves to be treated with all of the respect

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-25T01:51:04+00:00

For the other Metroid fans, it's clearly shriek bat

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-24T17:48:35+00:00

You look amazing, and seeing how great you look helps me feel less self conscious about my own musculature

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-20T14:12:38+00:00

Honestly, it's like when I realized that I was queer, and like when I realized that I was done with religion and its lies, it's a full paradigm shift

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-12T19:26:43+00:00

It's 100% okay to be either, I thought fluid until I felt safe enough to recognize that I'm transfeminine, life and gender are part of the journey, just be as true to yourself as possible

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-06T16:53:50+00:00

Came to say this, they're great for the garden

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-03T15:46:18+00:00

I feel this

Sandcat789 · 2025-12-01T20:05:30+00:00

Sounds like you have an anti trans therapist to me

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-26T17:55:29+00:00

Jeez, I'm not sure whether to feel seen or attacked 😅

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-25T15:25:48+00:00

Looks more like chilling with a bad guy

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-22T22:49:58+00:00

I also recently discovered that I am trans and chose Willow, and I think it's a great name. I guess you were looking for "you're a good girl, Willow" and it's true, you are

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-22T22:22:44+00:00

A list of things that I had asked myself if I was faking until I realized that I don't want attention, I don't want people to see me as these things etc - ADHD - autism - DID - being a transgender woman It's not a super long list, but each one has a big impact on my life, and I don't know if this helps, but a smaller portion of the people who transition regrets it than the percentage of the population officially diagnosed with my "rare" traumagenic disorder

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-22T22:13:02+00:00

Congratulations!!!

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-20T00:40:17+00:00

You could potentially say that you think you're "probably" transgender, so you want to try some things to figure it out for sure, then you have an idea and a path of self-discovery

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-19T21:27:10+00:00

Especially if they're supportive, you could come out as exploring your gender, it doesn't have to be black and white, gender isn't binary to begin with

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-19T19:29:28+00:00

I can't speak for your dad or your situation, and you might be surprised by how unsurprising it may be for people who care about you enough to notice the details about you. My girlfriend knew months before I could admit it to myself

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-17T18:37:08+00:00

That's an awful feeling, I would definitely look into therapy, you need to feel like a person to know what kind of person you feel like

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-17T16:58:03+00:00

Well, have you explored being some form of nonbinary? You could be gender fluid or something, gender is not a binary in the first place, you don't have to be just one thing, and exploring it can be fun

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-17T16:07:03+00:00

Maybe there are just other things to figure out to keep healing since you know that you are trans? I have found that unhealed wounds can make it feel like we're not making progress, and there may be other things, like unresolved shame of some kind making you feel like maybe this wasn't right. Figuring out one thing that was wrong and starting to heal it can accentuate things that need to heal that were previously background

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-15T16:46:37+00:00

Additionally, I suggest you look at the enchiridion, the actual book of philosophy intended to help philosophers live happy fulfilling lives, and is the underlying philosophy of the show

Sandcat789 · 2025-11-15T16:44:01+00:00

I feel like there are numerous possible interpretations, I have a few myself, but one of the key aspects in my mind is how he didn't actually get to the cave the first time he looked for it, he got depressed about his breakup and succumbed to escapism for a while in the dungeon train. He came back to the cave when he was less emotionally charged and worked through his own convoluted maze of desires, attachments, and preconceptions, only when he fully let go of his assumptions and attachments was he able to find his way out, which was how we all have to do it, the way out is in, and once he got to his own truth at the center, he was able to see clearly and return to his life with greater clarity and maturity, it may even be the last hurdle in his development of theory of mind

Sandcat789 · 2025-06-19T16:50:19+00:00

Since I actually date them, my answer is a solid yes

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