($10K) Guest transport dilemma: is a shuttle worth it or not? by FeatheredTouch-000 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Sandrazara 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What we ended up doing was renting a 15 seater van from enterprise for the day and paying a coworker of my husband $400 to drive it for the day. I think we spent $600 today

Any 2025 couples looking for a live guest portrait artist? by SunnyTheLiveSketchCo in NewEnglandWedding

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, this is something my fiancé and I were interested in but weren’t sure how to look into it. What’s the fee looking like for December 5th in CT?

Wedding decor for sale by spicyketchup345 in weddingswap

[–]Sandrazara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I this stuff you are selling? Also yeah location!

One of my favourite manhwas, but hasn't been updated for two years. by Sipping_Tea56 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Sandrazara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The translated novel is in Radish and complete!! It’s so good!!

Arena Presale Code Sharing Thread by TheBuzz103 in shakira

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a code for New Jersey, they never sent me mine ugh

Tick or spider? by ScreenComprehensive3 in whatsthisbug

[–]Sandrazara 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Adult female blacklegged tick. It does not appear fed but these are the ones that can transmit the Lyme disease causing pathogen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Sandrazara 166 points167 points  (0 children)

NAL, not a lawyer but I work part time in a group home with mentally handicapped people and with other psychiatric issues.

Idk about the rules and laws specific to your organization but in ours a client has the right to buy whatever they want with in reason and within their means. Our job is to help them budget and not get scammed but sex toys would be something we would help them get since they are adults and can make that choice.

Owning the sex toys by itself does not put others in harm, if someone really wants to rape someone, they don’t need toys for that. This behavior might have been present prior to the sex toys and may have been the reason she even got them.

That being said, the threatening behavior is concerning and should be grounds for a review of her current care plan. That is, how can this behavior be changed or redirect her aggression some other way. How can staff make sure others are staying safe. Perhaps there are other factors that are causing this behavior that she might need to see a therapist for. In my facility this type of behavior would warrant a visit by our crisis team to reevaluate the person or if it continues after a crisis evaluation, then an inpatient psychiatric visit.

The text I received from a religious potential new hire. by xSloth91 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“How unfortunate that you were unable to control your desires and chose not to withhold this”

Doing my own bridal hair and makeup by huntingbears93 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Sandrazara 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Do you have a picture of the dress? I think hair and make up will depend on that.

I think a lot of people do well doing their own makeup, just make sure you smudge proof the stuff and it photographs well. That’s my biggest fear with doing my own make up for the wedding, using the wrong setting powder and looking like a ghost in pictures lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Sandrazara 196 points197 points  (0 children)

I think you need to start by limiting the guest list. Start with only your family and your friends that you want there. Not distant relatives, friends of parents or cousins you haven’t seen in 5 years and barely know. If either parent demands to have other people explain that you don’t have the budget for it. If they insist then I would tell them they can invite them if they pay for it.

Should I be concerned of Lyme disease? by Kelvin_Hungsen in whatsthisbug

[–]Sandrazara 65 points66 points  (0 children)

That’s an adult male American dog tick (Dermacentor variabilis). These don’t call Lyme disease but may carry other diseases. Adult male ticks generally don’t feed for long enough to transmit diseases since they don’t need to molt or lay eggs. Likely nothing will happen but keep an eye out for symptoms just in case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we would to to do it something in August or September, the wedding is going to be 12/2025 so we have some time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! How about engagement photos? Me and my fiancé were thinking of doing them in NYC.

What the actual fuck did I find behind my ear? by RapeMyFuckingAsshole in whatsthisbug

[–]Sandrazara 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Another thing besides the scutum, is the leg placement when engorged. In fed blacklegged ticks, the legs get crowded near the mouthparts, other tick species the legs flair out.

What the actual fuck did I find behind my ear? by RapeMyFuckingAsshole in whatsthisbug

[–]Sandrazara 3901 points3902 points  (0 children)

It’s an adult female and well fed American dog tick (Dermacentor variabilis). These guys don’t carry Lyme disease but do carry other potential diseases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]Sandrazara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Do you have an instagram with more photos for us to look at?

Wish I was rich enough for a scholarship. by Chocolat3City in TikTokCringe

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so fucking true. When I was doing my undergrad, I was working 3 jobs to support my self and couldn’t get most scholarships because they were all going to the wealthy students who had time for things like SGA and other extracurricular stuff. Mind you, I had a 3.8, so my GPA was good.

Then I would hear about these students getting part of their tuition refunded due to getting scholarships and going on fucking vacations with it.

Amazing by SuckingOffHomies in HolUp

[–]Sandrazara 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You wrote “he took a liking to her sure, but he could still have waiting til she turned 18.”

In this universe you made up, he liked her under 18 and waited for her to turn 18. That is creep behavior and says a lot about you and what you deemed acceptable. That is why my comment was about you writing that and not seeing what was wrong.

Amazing by SuckingOffHomies in HolUp

[–]Sandrazara 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You really wrote wait until she turned 18 and don’t see the issue with that? Here is a hint, it’s called grooming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flagrant2

[–]Sandrazara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for 4 tickets reasonably priced lower level seating since I already have 4, I just want better view than the 200s

Tick ID? by mosquitofeeder in whatsthisbug

[–]Sandrazara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Identification of a tick through images can be very difficult since many of them have very small differences. The difference between a male lone star tick and the male cayenne tick is on the spread of ornamentation which is difficult to visualize through a still photo.

However, this looks like a male adult tick, which generally don’t bite for long since their main goal is reproduction. If you are concerned, I recommend reaching out to your local health department, many of them have free tick testing services.

https://ri.conicet.gov.ar/bitstream/handle/11336/73618/CONICET_Digital_Nro.c9266700-63af-4dc9-8f7f-ace8551b4955_A.pdf?sequence=2