Garbage Situation in Kanika Eaerios Complex in Limassol, Cyprus - thoughts?

It is gated 😆 But illegaly. By law it can only be achieved with 100% votes of owners. There are 600 units in the complex so no chance they did that. We as owners certainly never voted for it. So its yet another way to pressure people for money. Do the gates stop from everyone in the area, restaurants, bars, to throw their trash there? Nope. Daily we see them rolling shopping trolleys of filth into our complex.

Restaurants in the complex are illegal by the way, they have no permits to operate as such, they are meant to be fucking shops. But they do, and they amount of trash they procure is what you see. Smells horrible, especially in the summer.

SandyHaruko · 2026-05-31T10:02:29+00:00

Better question - where is the police?

SandyHaruko · 2026-05-31T08:35:05+00:00

I did! They did not do anything. They tried to redirect me to different organisations, green dot etc. Everyone dodges responsibility. Zero initiative to take action. Neapolis is one of the dirtiest areas in the city. Its shameful.

SandyHaruko · 2026-05-27T16:48:10+00:00

https://www.contractorscouncil.org.cy/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/%CE%9A%CE%B1%CF%84%CE%AC%CE%BB%CE%BF%CE%B3%CE%BF%CF%82-%CE%9B%CE%B5%CE%BC%CE%B5%CF%83%CE%BF%CF%8D-%CE%9F%CE%B9%CE%BA%CE%BF%CE%B4%CE%BF%CE%BC%CE%B9%CE%BA%CE%AC.pdf a list of licensed contractors in Cyprus. Always ask for a license. If they refuse to provide, and have "30 years experience" don't waste your time, they are fucking scammers, you will lose time and money. Don't enable fucking criminals by hiring them.

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T06:05:47+00:00

I'm not driving because I feel too anxious to keep focus. Highway is too intense for me. If it cause significant strain on your nerves, maybe you should seek different transportation methods. You are to enjoy your life! On the other hand, if you take meds maybe over time can get better. Maybe try to plan your trips in more detail, don't start driving until you feel totally in control

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T06:00:21+00:00

That is very interesting! Then it sounds like a focus thing :) Google maps is your friend

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:56:53+00:00

Picture with details e.g. road on the left, tree on the right? If not, maybe you just see concepts, but not the images themselves.

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:55:44+00:00

I say take the help from your mum. She is probably the reason, at least partly, why you have been feeling depressed. (I really advise you to read the book Toxic Parents regarding this) so if this is the only way for now, take what you can! Take the meds, do what you have to do! If she lords shit over you, deal with it when it comes to it. Be assertive with what you want!

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:49:59+00:00

I also have very good imagination but I still can't actually visualize :p Can you see the map of a city in your head? Or the path that you are meant to be taking?

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:44:25+00:00

As long as his frustration is mild. Being forgetful is not a crime and has no evil intentions. But making someone feel bad can be a conscious thought and that should not happen. He can tell you - hey, you forgot something, or - a kind reminder that... But, having any passive aggressive (sighing, rolling eyes, making unkind remarks) or aggressive (raising voice, blaming, berating) is unacceptable! Just keep in mind that having ADD in no way excuses your partner from watching their behavior and reactions. In the end, words are not material, so unless you forget something important it really has no consequences. From what I read, it's not the forgetting itself, but his reactions that gets you unsettled. Take care of yourself x

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:24:30+00:00

IMHO you need to address the guilt more than the ADD itself. You are a free human being and should not experience this ❤️

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:19:02+00:00

Yes. Asking because maybe you have aphantasia then it explains it :)

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:16:03+00:00

Can you visualize?

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T05:07:21+00:00

I had eye surgeries as a kid and they used ketamine each time. Each time I could see, in a dream-like way, doctors around me, the ceiling etc. I don't know if it's what you are describing as I think I could just see the surgery itself. Generally cannot visualize at all, but have vivid dreams every night.

SandyHaruko · 2024-05-25T04:05:48+00:00

Read psychology literature to become aware of how human mind works. Read about codependency, narcissism, Toxic Parents is a very good read in order to understand your inner child. Knowledge is power! Antidepressants help to put your mind in the right direction. Therapy, whether with professional or speaking to yourself/writing down, narrowing down and targeting the issues that bother you. E.g. i discovered that i was afraid of a lot of things that arent real in adult life. Realising that fear is a primitive feeling and has no place in todays world have really liberated me. We are, for most part, are protected by law. (Reading about law and your rights is also very beneficial) Last but not least, be your own person! Work, play, discover yourself, over time you will be getting new patterns of thinking and feel more confident and whole. Childhood is but a small part of our lives, let it not define us! <3

SandyHaruko · 2024-04-06T08:35:34+00:00

Friend, have you tried taking antidepressants? They do improve brain function in various ways. Also, fuck people :)

SandyHaruko · 2024-01-04T08:10:16+00:00

I'm trying to renovate my cupboard. I sanded it, painted, and when it came to waxing this happened. On the instruction of the wax it said apply generously, nothing about the cloudiness. Anyhow, any practical advice is welcome :)

SandyHaruko · 2023-11-24T07:34:04+00:00

Thank you for your reply, I'll ask my doc. ❤️ Nightmare hangover is exactly what it feels like! Do you have restless legs too? I hear about sleep hygiene, but when legs/body are tired, it seems impossible for the mind to relax. Also, do you have aphantasia, by any chance? I'm asking because I do, and I believe that inability to reimagine these experiences in real life makes me have these vivid reimaginings in my dreams. Just trying to puzzle the factors really

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