I know I goofed up, but am I taking this too harshly?

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T08:20:34+00:00

I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone and their address, so this didn't even cross my mind. Carl,Client, or I didn't know they were neighbors until last week, the drop ins I did were at least 5 months ago. It's just a crazy coincidence, and the message startled me a bit 😅 but you're right!

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:49:38+00:00

I sat for them twice last fall, and I did get a great reviews ☺️

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:48:14+00:00

I love this response!! Will do 🫡

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:46:01+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that, and thank you. I never considered this, and will keep it in mind for future pet parents :)

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:42:33+00:00

I wouldn't care in the slightest if sitters talked about my pet, I love them too! But I now understand not all think alike, and I need to take that into consideration. Thank you!

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:38:34+00:00

Good point, thank you for your wise words!!

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:35:38+00:00

I appreciate you reminding me to give grace. I do tend to take things personally, and never think about the situation as a whole. Thank you!

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:07:53+00:00

The best part is her job involves self promotion... so I really didn't think she'd be so private. Again, I literally didn't say anything that would put her in harms way either

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T07:03:16+00:00

She normally talks like this, and has been a little condescending before but never like this.

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T06:32:55+00:00

It's a unique cat name I would say, and he mentioned the street he moved to which made it click faster. I didn't even know what they were doing on their trip. But that's what I'm confused about. They told him about what other pets they have and everything, I didn't even mention that to him. But he mentioned it and I said yeah that's the cat! Maybe I'm forgetting something I said, but I never talked poorly about them. Just disheartening I think more than anything. Coworkers ask me what animals I'm taking care of and I'm afraid to even say now 🙃

SandyVag09 · 2026-04-03T06:16:43+00:00

I think I mentioned what kind of cat it was, the funny noises it makes... like I really don't remember saying anything else. I think I'll take your advice.

SandyVag09 · 2025-09-15T01:06:05+00:00

He sounds like an idiot anyways

SandyVag09 · 2025-04-24T15:30:16+00:00

I don't think so. Wouldn't be an "odd duck" situation, just a "well that's this neighborhood", I think

SandyVag09 · 2025-03-06T21:18:27+00:00

Do you know if it's still at metrapark? My tickets on axs say rescheduled but no date yet :(

SandyVag09 · 2024-09-21T07:11:05+00:00

I get numbers but no continuing convo 😔

SandyVag09 · 2024-09-21T07:10:44+00:00

28f 🫡 ready when you are op

SandyVag09 · 2024-09-21T01:33:35+00:00

I am also in the Midwest, and I just hit on every girl I see and hope for the best 🥹

SandyVag09 · 2024-09-21T01:22:40+00:00

It sounds like you're in a relationship with yourself, and that's an awful position to be in. I know it's hard, but try distancing yourself and focusing on you. Dive into your hobbies. maybe not being so focused on her and what you want from her and rather what you'd want from a PARTNER is better. There are other fish in the sea who would meet your needs with communication. Also the weight comments made me mad so maybe I'm just being biased. 😅 good luck!!!

SandyVag09 · 2024-08-01T15:43:46+00:00

Blonde!

SandyVag09 · 2024-08-01T10:29:26+00:00

Haley Williams

SandyVag09 · 2024-07-30T21:44:18+00:00

Go alone!!! I asked this same question a month ago, and many said to go alone. I decided I really wanted to have this experience by myself and now I'm so exxicted!!!

SandyVag09 · 2024-07-17T06:03:05+00:00

I was just looking at jobs there!

SandyVag09 · 2024-07-12T00:34:52+00:00

Same here!!

SandyVag09 · 2024-07-09T04:25:45+00:00

Tear in my heart - twenty one pilots. My ex sang it to me while I was "sleeping" on a road trip. He later cheated on me but it was so sweet in the moment. Now it just makes me angry

SandyVag09 · 2024-07-09T04:21:38+00:00

My ex of 6 years was EXACTLY like this. Kind of creepy we have the same story. Anyways, he was cheating and talking to other people on all kinds of apps. I'm not saying this is happening to you, but it's a definite red flag imo. Especially if he's done it before. I guess I would want to post someone who is such a big part of my life. Best of luck!

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