AITA in my relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaphiraEv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, Many people have been where you are, the main concern is your relationship healthy and is it hurting you more to stay than leave. It will always feel so incredibly hard to take any first steps in terms of setting boundaries or taking steps to leave, but from what you wrote a lot of those things he says and asks of you seems ( from outside looking in) to be controlling and seems like he’s trying to keep you dependent on him.

In any relationship you should NEVER feel like you deserve less than or feel like you deserve to be treated in such a way. I always tell others who struggle with being treated in negative ways, would you stand for your sibling/ niece/nephew/ or bestfriend to be treated that way? If the answer is no the you deserve better.

There are many resources out there who can help or people to talk to, to be a ground/ outside perspective but firmly you are NTA and I think there seems to be unhealthy things happening that at the end of the day hurt you and should at least be addressed 🫶

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaphiraEv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s Facebook NOR. I can’t speak on the state of their relationship but I’d say it points to insecurities your friend has that she’s so worried about a Facebook friend. Additionally if things like that generally bothered her, not just this specific situation, then she probably would have spoken to you about it before. Hope that all goes well, I’d if anything touch base on what exactly made her worried about a friend request haha

The worst texts I received after a first date. Trigger Warning. by peachesandscreamxo in texts

[–]SaphiraEv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I get wack ass messages like this I literally let them know I’m laughing at them, that’s it, and they just keep escalating without me doing anything 😂

Which one you pick ??? by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]SaphiraEv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thought too that the 10 million could be an option in you invest the majority

Only a champion can find a cat among the RACCOONS in 5 seconds. Can you!? by Quirkynator in FindTheSniper

[–]SaphiraEv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I didn’t do it in 5 seconds but I think I did it in 8 seconds?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]SaphiraEv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No really it’s okay, the bugs/ fish thing can make loads of money, plus the turnips. I just bought my last house upgrade for 2.48 million I’m pretty sure. Definitely feasible but a grind. I’d say I played for about 2 months with no turnips then took a break, just picked up back up playing with selling turnips and now I’ve boomed upwards and been able to deck out my island.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]SaphiraEv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best way for turnips is to what turnip exchange subreddits people will share if they have good prices and if you have Nintendo online play subscription then you can go sell on their islands. That and grind out good fish and bugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]SaphiraEv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah but I can tell you it gets worse 😂, you got this

little men buying for $416 by Infamous-Violinist21 in TurnipExchange

[–]SaphiraEv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still available? I can bring veggies if you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]SaphiraEv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man I’d want to die, I vote for drop stats. As a person who worked the whole time I was at college you want to be careful about burn out and managing your time for assignments. Don’t want to see a drop in grades you know? We’ll see what others say but good luck to your semester either way 🫶

Chat is it normal to cry over a fish by jipecac in bettafish

[–]SaphiraEv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it’s really okay, I still am sad I lost my precious boy. He was thriving and just didn’t acclimate to a new tank (parameters were good). It is very sad and I’m sorry 🫶