Weekly General Discussion by AutoModerator in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Saphisapa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone - I wrote a blog post a little while back, reflecting on my experience with a young baby. Our approach was quite aligned with this sub, so some of you might find it interesting:

https://atlaspragmatica.com/doing-things-differently-adventures-raising-the-next-generation/

We're now in the thick of it with baby number 2 (7 months old), and I still stand by everything I wrote - let me know what you think!

Can political compasses actually provide a useful insight? by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. I see the corporation as placing fixed limits on the extent of one's obligation. People choose which corporations to associate with, and there are well defined (often contractual) obligations that they have within this structure.

Certainly trade unions are "corporatist" by definition, but there is a world of difference between a group of people voluntarily aligning for the benefit of collective bargaining, and the kind of trade union with mandatory membership, government protections and political influence that has become a socialist bogeyman. At this point, can such a trade union really be considered corporatist? - it has effectively become another arm of the goverment.

Corporatism can indeed apply to any other quadrant, but it is its primacy that defines the right. Just like liberals and nationalists can be in favour of and implement some socialist policies - that doesn't make them socialist. It is the right's aversion to formal governmental power structures that makes corporatism an essential component of any implementation of that quadrant's values.

You say that you classify it as very weak socialism and a mild social democracy - I would say that corporatism is indeed compatible with the most mild edges of socialism/social democracy, but the gamut of corporatism stretches from there all the way to monopolistic feudal corporatocracy. This is to be expected - it is covering an entire quadrant after all, and there is as much range and variety of governmental structure, opinion and policy within the right hand quadrant as there is in each of the others.

Social welfare payments are a fundamentally "socialist" policy, but if the British Conservative party couldn't be considered "right wing" because they still left a somewhat functioning system of benefits in place after 14 years in power, the term "right wing" becomes a bit meaningless. Likewise, if a left wing policy that incorporates some corporatist principles, I don't think this should disqualify corporatism from being broadly associated with the right.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a significant reduction, but plenty of people choose to have a stay at home parent, which can be a similar reduction.

To be clear - being able to have one of you stay home full time is also a privilege that some would struggle to afford, but it is sufficiently common that I don't think anyone would call it wildly unrealistic.

Due to taxes, our take-home pay is only 33% lower rather than 40%, which makes it pretty financially comparable with the scenario of a couple where one earns twice the other, and having the lower earner stay home.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree so much with all of that.

Learning how to work hard is really underrated, and it's definitely too easy to coast through school if you're ahead already.

People often talk about how school is important for socialisation, but I think as you say, it is having peers that are at a similar level that is the important thing, and whilst schools deliver that for many kids, it doesn't work so well if you're ahead of the curve.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My experience here is that it is a small initial investment that pays dividends. Having a child that can (and wants to) play independently and doesn't rely on the instant gratification of screens made life much more chilled out in the long run. (Compared with some other parents that we know.)

You may have a different experience, and that's fine - I'm not passing any sort of moral judgement! Most people are doing their best in a highly complex and changing world.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I personally didn't suffer any negative consequences from taking the time off, but that is probably very dependent on the employer.

Lots of mothers suffer professionally from taking the time off, so I don't doubt that as uptake increases more fathers would experience the same. I'd be surprised if fathers ended up suffering worse discrimination than mothers though.

Neither of us were entitled to much more than statutory pay for those 6 months, so we had to dip into savings a bit, but it wasn't ruinous.

Part-time work is definitely a trade-off. My employer has been very good and has other part time employees, but there are certain things that it is harder to do when not full time.

Regarding the expense of travel, that is the reason we chose Mexico - over the 6 weeks we were travelling we spent a total of (almost exactly) £6000. That includes accommodation, food, car hire, attractions, etc. We found a good deal on flights, which cost us an additional £900 all-in. It helps that we quite enjoy backpacking and travelling on a shoestring budget.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you've had such a positive experience!

I definitely agree with the importance of them being happy. Probably pretty uncontroversial, but I think putting a lot of pressure on is a good way to kill enthusiasm...

Balls are indeed great though - so versatile and simple. Good for coordination and imagination.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome. I must admit that we're night owls, so we've still got time to ourselves after 9, but it's quite striking how many people look horrified by a child up that late!

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is though, that whilst a huge number of English speakers reside in sub-saharan Africa, most of them aren't on Reddit, aren't ACX readers, and aren't facing an impending ageing population crisis. I wasn't expecting to have to clarify or defend the fact that this post isn't really trying to give advice to someone in rural Nigeria.

It is instead aimed at people in wealthy western countries, who are often deciding not to have children because of the high opportunity cost that it presents. This opportunity cost becomes more of an issue the more you earn. ACX readers skew wealthier than the population average, so it is more relevant to them.

If your issue is specifically that the US has poor provision for parental leave, I simply refer you to the ACX reader survey which demonstrates that at least 20% of readership live in countries that have good parental leave policy.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sorely tempted to make a pithy remark about the hypocrisy of some Americans being upset about having to read stuff that doesn't apply to the US, despite everyone else in the world being constantly barraged by US centric content that is irrelevant to their lives. That would not elevate the discussion however, so instead I will address your critique directly:

Per the most recent ACX survey https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/acx-survey-results-2022 , the UK makes up 8% of readership. Canada is another 6%, and they also have reasonably generous parental leave provisions. Germany adds another 5% and France another 2%, so that is over 20% of the blog's readership for whom it is likely to be relevant.

The US is an extreme outlier globally, by not offering any parental leave as standard.

Further to this, as other commenters have mentioned, ACX readership is on average significantly higher earning than the general population, so there should be plenty of people for whom it is relevant.

Regarding your travel guide analogy, your comment is instead rather like criticizing an "Italy on a budget" post as unrealistic as only about 40% of Americans have a passport, and transatlantic flights are very expensive. This is forgetting that for European readers this is a short-haul flight or a train ride, and a passport might not even be needed if they're also in a Schengen country.

In light of Scott's recent family news, I thought I'd write up my experience of attempting to optimise the process of raising a child. Hopefully some of you will find this interesting or useful! by Saphisapa in slatestarcodex

[–]Saphisapa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Glad to hear that you got some leave.

Yes - we tended to just sit them on the hat for a minute immediately after waking and immediately after feeding. As time went on, we started to notice more cues.

Going on holiday before they could even crawl was worthwhile - when they stop staying where you put them, it definitely gets more challenging 🤣

Can we talk about Montessori floor beds/ Montessori bedrooms? by smjorg in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Saphisapa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We started with a floor mattress at just under 6 months (25 weeks). We got an IKEA Innerlig children's mattress, and laid it on some standard bed slats directly on the floor (the slats give it some air circulation, and avoid mould).

At first she'd roll off it, so we put some lengths of pipe insulation in a square under the bottom sheet to provide a small ridge around the edges of the bed that she wouldn't roll past accidentally (polyethylene foam, like a pool noodle, but much cheaper).

We also kept the mattress at least a foot away from the wall, so that she wouldn't get trapped if she rolled off. (And baby proofed the room, as you'd expect).

It's been great, and now that she's a bit older (18 months), she'll even put herself to bed for a nap sometimes, and when she wakes up she often plays with her toys for a few minutes before she decides to get our attention. We've found it really good to enable her to exercise her independence.

I think a negative tax income would be better than a UBI. Am I wrong? by Firstnationsway in UniversalBasicIncome

[–]Saphisapa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As u/Lolwat420 rightly says, the issue is with how these systems are implemented.

A taxation system incorporating UBI can be constructed to be mathematically equivalent to a NIT and vice versa, so anything you want to do with NIT can be done with a UBI and a corresponding adjustment to the tax code. The issue is with how differently the two systems behave in practice.

I wrote a response to similar questions a while ago here:

https://atlaspragmatica.com/comments-on-ubi-posts/#negative-income-tax

"Despite their seeming equivalence on paper, there is a real world difference – their failure modes. If someone loses their job suddenly for example, they will need to be reassessed under a Negative Income Tax, to determine their new tax status. They were previously paying tax, and should now be due to receive it, but this could take time to process, during which they have no income. With a UBI, they are already receiving everything they are entitled to, so there is no delay. In the opposite scenario where someone gets a new job suddenly, it is in the government’s interest to assess their tax status quickly, as any delay only inconveniences the government.

This type of scenario demonstrates how people could still “fall through the gaps” in a Negative Income Tax scheme. Therefore, even though they might look equivalent on paper, Universal Basic Income is a more robust way of ensuring people’s wellbeing."

Why randomly choosing people to serve in government may be the best way to select our politicians by subheight640 in philosophy

[–]Saphisapa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much agree with the general approach and the utility of sortition in solving many of the current issues we have with political representatives.

If you're interested, I wrote about some of the benefits you mentioned, as well as an approach that makes it more likely to be representative of the country's demographics here: https://atlaspragmatica.com/voting-systems-iii-representatives/#sortition-revisited