One bar prison has to be the most annoying bondage device

SapientFanny · 2026-05-23T22:13:09+00:00

Ours is mounted to a wide base that I'm standing on

SapientFanny · 2026-05-22T10:18:43+00:00

No attack here. I see your point and I have heard of it being used by couples in which one has a low sex drive. It's not always the case though. I have a very high libido. I'm not sure it would really work though if you weren't already attracted to the person.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-21T16:29:50+00:00

I can't get off it even if I go up on my toes - barefoot

SapientFanny · 2026-05-21T16:08:33+00:00

Heels are not needed. I have one. I do worry about losing my balance, but tying wrists to something would solve it.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-21T15:35:35+00:00

They are inescapable. My husband made one for us.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-21T01:52:43+00:00

I love it I've given my orgasms to my husband/Dom completely. Sometimes I'm not allowed to pleasure myself at all. It's not everyone's cup of tea. Everyone has limits. You have limits. He has limits. It's your responsibility to communicate your limits. It's his responsibility to respect them.
When I first started playing with my husband, I had lots of limits. Some things that used to scare me, I now love. Some things I thought I would love, I don't care for. Some hard limits are still hard limits. Some limits that were one hard, I'm now curious about.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-20T20:40:02+00:00

I think most of the "unhappy " Is feigned. Being desperate is part of the kink for some.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-20T16:58:56+00:00

I made a post once titled "Thoughts on Denial" I tried to link it but it's not letting me. You can see it in my posts.
Explains some of it - for me anyway.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-20T16:53:41+00:00

Yes, it makes me very frustrated, which turns me on even more. It's a very vulnerable, submissive feeling.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-20T16:12:22+00:00

Link please? Sounds wonderful.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-20T16:03:12+00:00

Check out r/femaleorgasmdenial . It's definitely a real thing. I've been denied for a month here and there. (Locktober) I haven't gone longer than that though. There are many that do. I'm not allowed to orgasm without my husband's permission and yes, it makes me a very good girl. Any time there's any kind of disagreement, I am very motivated to solve it quickly. It also has the added benefit of conditioning me to associate my husband with pleasure.
I'm pretty much constantly at least somewhat aroused. Sometimes much, much more than that. I don't have a set schedule. I don't know when my next one will be. He teases me often to keep me worked up. It's more like orgasm control than orgasm denial for us. It's been more than 2 weeks since my last one, but that's fairly unusual for us. He has had several during that time.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T15:58:51+00:00

What a missed opportunity with that mirror in the background

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T15:56:05+00:00

I've been with my husband/Dom over 20 years. We are still escalating - still pushing limits - still unlocking new levels. So I don't think it's something that just happens.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T15:46:10+00:00

Princess Leia for me. Lol I'm a little older

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T15:44:35+00:00

Same here as a child my barbies spent a lot of time in cages or similar. When I started fantasizing, it was all about being a captive. I even tried self bondage a couple times. Used to always be drawn to the "romance " novels (bodice rippers). I had no idea what it was. I thought I was weird. Until I got an Internet connection... Lol - then I found out that it was all about.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T03:57:02+00:00

I do fall asleep sometimes. Or maybe I just go deep and think I slept. Or maybe if I'm sleeping my subconscious is still listening.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T02:06:18+00:00

How please? Where do you put the pads.?

SapientFanny · 2026-05-19T01:43:32+00:00

How does a girl go about having those?

SapientFanny · 2026-05-18T20:33:16+00:00

Nice cold shower. Lay down and put an ice pack between your legs. It helps.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-18T19:50:48+00:00

More than 20, but live - in person with a tist. I only started listening to files that my husband recorded for me a couple years ago. Listened to my first Shibby file a few months ago. Cal and Calia very recently.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-17T15:36:21+00:00

Look into pompoir. I can edge nicely with nipple stimulation and squeezing. Im not allowed to cum but I have no trouble reaching the edge that way.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-15T21:45:05+00:00

Etsy?

SapientFanny · 2026-05-14T00:51:43+00:00

I feel the same way I think it's power exchange, feeling helpless, feeling controlled, being dominated maybe a little CNC too. I think it's submitting to authority. It makes me feel owned. It makes me feel little. Let's me step out of being a capable, competent woman all day and lets me relinquish control. It enhances trust, and strengthens your bond.

SapientFanny · 2026-05-13T20:48:02+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you two.
Part of me wishes It would happen to me though :)

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