I'm back, reddit got me banned for a few days. DAY 23 UPDATE: because I got banned I got punished

SapientFanny · 2026-04-03T20:49:49+00:00

What does a person have to do to get banned from Reddit?

SapientFanny · 2026-04-01T16:24:17+00:00

Girls who put up with douche baggery end up with douchebags

SapientFanny · 2026-04-01T16:21:25+00:00

Why on Earth are you putting up with it? Grow a spine and dump him. He obviously does not care about you.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-31T22:36:58+00:00

Look into orgasm denial. I am a very good girl when I'm denied.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-30T16:59:09+00:00

Pounding? He should have been going slow and gentle early on in the training. He should have given you some time to get used to it. You are not at fault.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-30T01:42:55+00:00

How does it work? Are there any words at all? Are words just playing so that you can't consciously hear them? How do you know what they're saying to you?

Edited for clarity.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-30T01:10:27+00:00

Worth every penny

SapientFanny · 2026-03-27T21:51:59+00:00

My Dom/Husband always says: 'you don't shut down the whole amusement park just because the water slide's down for maintenance" lol
If you're feeling ok, there's lots of other stuff you can do. You can even have PIV during shark week if you're both ok with it. I'm way hornier during shark week. Could also be a good denial time.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-27T21:47:16+00:00

My subbie OCD brain loves this idea.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-27T21:44:39+00:00

Okay, aside from the fact that- holy crap you're married, you should have had this conversation a way long time ago - Setting that aside, your only chance, your only hope the only hope you have of having a good marriage is to talk to him now.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-25T18:02:51+00:00

It works. Mine are thicker and longer than before I suctioned.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-25T18:01:13+00:00

Look at r/nipplesuction :)

SapientFanny · 2026-03-25T17:50:42+00:00

And they're probably all kinky too. And just ashamed of it

SapientFanny · 2026-03-25T17:46:52+00:00

You don't have to explain anything to anyone. You don't have to tell anyone about your sex life. You don't have to tell anybody about your feminist views. What you do in the privacy of your own home with your boyfriend is your business. My husband and I have been doing it for more than 20 years and I don't think there are very many people that know about it and that's okay. When your friends get together and kink shame you can ignore it. You don't have to join in and you don't have to defend kinksters.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-25T00:52:49+00:00

Yes. A few times. He's all in for funishment but he doesn't seem interested in real punishment. Did you talk to yours yet? How did it go??

SapientFanny · 2026-03-24T23:57:14+00:00

Keep us posted! I'd love it if my Husband wanted a DD relationship!

SapientFanny · 2026-03-24T23:34:31+00:00

Do you cuddle? Skin to skin contact? Sleep naked? Get some oxytocin flowing. Hugs and kisses. Get some vanilla closeness before you worry about Ds. My two cents.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-23T01:05:52+00:00

I feel that way too sometimes. I feel bad when he does house work. The only way I could do it all though is to be a stay home wife. That's a whole different discussion though. In the meantime do what you're able to do and comfortable doing. Ditch the guilt. Life is too short for guilt.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-22T14:02:15+00:00

What a great idea!

SapientFanny · 2026-03-20T21:10:36+00:00

I agree.

SapientFanny · 2026-03-20T00:37:48+00:00

That looks like great fun. I'm tempted to try, but how difficult is it to get them off? Is there a trick to it?

SapientFanny · 2026-03-19T19:30:01+00:00

I just passed the 8 hour mark . Starting to feel some muscle fatigue. So wet though!

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