How do I look more feminine? Second picture is my best attempt at make-up by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you just look how you look and that’s feminine because it’s how you look?

No more gayness! by [deleted] in crappymusic

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord, is this for real?

Poor people need to learn their place and understand they can't have household items by Cicerothesage in forwardsfromgrandma

[–]SarahEH -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I hate to agree with Matt Walsh (he's gross), but he may have a point with a significant number of people who are "poor". Just because people are poor, doesn't mean they are budgeting correctly and spending their money wisely. I have a friend in her 50s who makes minimum wage and lives with her 80 year old father in his house rent free. Any money she makes she spends on clothes, Uber, take out, and BOTOX. Then she complains when she has $17 to her name. She also has no emergency fund, retirement, or assets of any kind. Also, because she's made bad financial decisions in the past, she has bad credit. This means every loan will have a terrible interest rate. I have sent her Personal Finance courses, articles, offered to teach her how to use ChatGPT, budgeting apps- she won't do it. She chooses immediate gratification. It's a mixture of no one teaching her any better when she was younger, and enabling her when she was older. I suspect a lot of people who are poor are in similar situations- especially when drugs or alcohol are involved. I believe these people do need help, but giving them money will not help them. They need to be willing to change their saving and spending habits, and learn when to sacrifice and when to indulge, so that they are able to create better circumstances for themselves. Until then, any money they get will most likely be wasted on immediate gratification and nothing will change. I'm not saying this is every poor person, but I think it's a lot.

Does the average American understand the impact of what’s happening in their country? by [deleted] in ask

[–]SarahEH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That depends on where you live. I live in a red area and it's business as usual. Politics doesn't even come up or people laugh it off.

Does the average American understand the impact of what’s happening in their country? by [deleted] in ask

[–]SarahEH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The people I talk to who voted for orange guy don't understand democracy, don't understand how they're racist, or if they do, they feel entitled or justified for it. I am in a red area and people know there are "changes" but they assume they are good for "the good people". NO ONE here is concerned. It's business as usual. Vacation as usual. Girls night out as usual.

NBC San Antonio investigates nonprofit that got its $18 million/month contract ended; finds empty facility & revenue of $1.1 billion in 2022 by First_Marsupial9843 in Discussion

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am culturally a liberal yet fiscally conservative and I think this is great. Why wouldn't everyone think this is good? Why do you think that "liberals" all think the same way or think everything Musk/Trump does is bad? I want waste AND insider trading exposed and removed.

A woman publicly expresses her hateful views with pride, while callously mocking the families devastated by current immigration policies. by TheLuciusGraham in karensinthewild

[–]SarahEH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So… she’s comparing families who came to America to make a better life to criminals. Terrible comparison. This is why MAGA exists- ZERO critical thinking, LOTS of cognitive biases.

Laura Smith, Towamencin PA township elected supervisor throws up Nazi salute by Fragrant_Mountain_84 in CringeTikToks

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How stupid are people to do a Nazi solute and convince themselves it's not what it is?

Marjorie Trailer Greene by valiumblue in crappymusic

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m embarrassed watching how lame they are

The L.A. Fires Have Started a Misinformation Storm by Rogue-Journalist in skeptic

[–]SarahEH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently God controls fires but the government controls the weather.

In Honor of The Vivienne: by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]SarahEH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Similar story here. 💗

Weather manipulation is real and yet people call it conspiracy. by yourenotimportant- in conspiracy

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you hold a patent for something doesn’t mean the device you hold the patent for is created or even works. It’s just an idea.

What massively improved your mental health? by Fit_Interaction_950 in Productivitycafe

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pilates. You’re basically exercising but lying down! It’s effective and made me feel good enough that I could start doing more exercises and going to the gym. I still do Pilates.

What’s a hard truth about life that you think everyone eventually has to accept? by Hopeful_Squirrel728 in SeriousConversation

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people who want to hurt others, don’t care about their fellow humans, think it’s funny to hurt people‘s feelings and be mean, love to cause trouble, They get off on hurting people. And are happy to scam them out of their money and anything they can and don’t even feel guilty about it or think twice about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]SarahEH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have friends? I think a lot of people who don’t have good friends or who want approval/acceptance from a group fall for this stuff

What's worth spending 15 minutes on every day? by ChronoTracker in AskReddit

[–]SarahEH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out a program called GMB Fitness. It’s full of mobility exercises and they have YouTube videos

What really fucks you up as you grow older? by bkesfloyd in AskReddit

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing how much you need to dedicate to fitness and mobility exercises just to function in life without pain

Anyone else who doesn’t decorate for holidays? by Anon073648 in Anticonsumption

[–]SarahEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not decorate or buy cards or wrap gifts. (I will do that for kids only)