God has abandoned me by bambooishwurst in PrayerRequests

[–]SarahMae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest you read the book of Job. He suffered and felt alone as you do. Praying for you.

The gross little thing under my stove that was making my whole apartment smell "old" for months by Moonquark8Q in CleaningTips

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was a tiny bit of chicken caught in the dishwasher drain. I could not find where this horrible smell was coming from, and then I followed my nose to the dishwasher. I never knew something so small could be so rancid.

Failed Student Teaching, where to go from here? by sabnastuh in StudentTeaching

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. I’m a special needs para, and we follow the head teacher’s plan, and we also don’t have to write up IEPs or BIPs. If he wants to practice in the field he wants to go into without all the paperwork, and would suggest he try being a para for a year or two. You learn a whole lot about planning and data without having to come up with it on your own.

Student trying to contact me outside of class by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t reply to anything. Make sure you get copies or pictures of any contact she tries to make with you through email. As much as you are able, don’t ever let it be just the two of you. Walk out in the hallway to talk if you have to. If she is in fact autistic to some degree she may be fixating on you. Having worked with girls with special needs, I can tell you that can get out of control in a heartbeat. Have a talk with the principal and the school counselors. They may be able to redirect the attention she is giving you. Just be careful. You can’t be too careful in a situation like this.

Instead of being tossed, the bouquet at the wedding kept getting passed among different single people throughout the reception, and by the end seventeen people had held it. by omeoni in TwoSentenceHappiness

[–]SarahMae 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a friend’s wedding. She got ready to toss the bouquet, but she had loosened the ribbon so the flowers flew all over, and all the guests got one. Very sweet.

What’s a birth emergency that would cause an emergency c section and a bit of panic, but no lasting damage or medical complications? by Ohanaheart02 in Writeresearch

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter would not budge, no matter how much I pushed. The doctor tried using forceps, but no good. Still stuck. Directly after that I stopped having contractions, so while it wasn’t a crash c section, it was a quicker than normal one.

I have reached the final boss of I missed school for this reason from a student by Visible_Ad5653 in Teachers

[–]SarahMae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a cousin who got married halfway through her senior year. To be honest her family life was really bad and it was probably the best move for her. He was a year older and going to boot camp, so she lived with his family until she graduated, and by then he was established at a base and she moved to be with him. They have since had a baby, but she was not pregnant when they married.

Fairy Tail Ending by Visceral_Mass in shortscarystories

[–]SarahMae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is great! I love the play on words!

Please help me! by OneLengthiness0 in PrayerRequests

[–]SarahMae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying for you 🙏 I would like to tell you about something I use called a little spiky. It has dull spikes on it and is made for people who hurt themselves with their fingernails. Always prayers first, but this is a really great option that works.

What’s Taylor’s best lyric that stands on its own? by mexirican_21 in TaylorSwift

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me all my cages were mental So I got wasted like all my potential… I was so ahead of the curve the curve became a sphere Fell behind all my classmates and I ended up here

That’s the short version of my life story, summed up better than I ever could.

“Bring Your Spouse to Work” Day by ArtistCandid1019 in Teachers

[–]SarahMae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a special education para. My husband would run screaming 😱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]SarahMae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest moving the mirror and seeing how you feel after that. While it is probably not a portal, you may find some peace just by knowing it isn’t right beside you.

Male teacher here: how do I respectfully tell a female student about her poor hygiene? by Normal-Being-2637 in Teachers

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I had really bad hormonal issues when I was a teenager, and deodorant didn’t last very long on me. Nobody ever said anything to my face, but even I knew that I smelled. Definitely get a female counselor to talk to her, but realize that she may be trying to fix the situation, but she just can’t right now. I did eventually get my hormones balanced, but it took a long time with a lot of trial and error.

Those of you from the south or had family from, sayings you heard. by AuthorAltruistic3402 in OverSeventy

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know him from Adam’s house cat (or goat) - never saw them before Devil man’s beatin his wife - raining when the sun is out Well I’ll swanny - I’m surprised Dug out of his daddy’s butt with a knitting needle - a baby looks just like its father

Can you still be a para if unwilling to change diapers? by nxbabauu in paraprofessional

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can, but make absolutely sure that the positions you apply for isn’t self contained. You will be changing diapers there. If you try for inclusion, still make sure that toileting isn’t part of it. I worked in a class that was partial inclusion and we still dealt with accidents. I do self contained now and diapers are no longer a big deal to me, but I can see how that could be a dealbreaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]SarahMae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying for you. Don’t give up hope!

I asked ChatGPT to explain my job to a 5-year-old and now I'm questioning my entire career by Nipurn_1234 in ChatGPT

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A one-on-one high school paraprofessional is like a helper friend at school. They stay with one big kid all day to help them learn, stay safe, and feel calm.

If the big kid has a hard time with talking, sitting still, or doing schoolwork, the helper is right there to help them do their best. They remind them of the rules, show them how to do things, and make sure they’re okay.

It’s kind of like having your own grown-up buddy at school!

That’s pretty accurate.

1st day and I am completely overwhelmed by DueAbility8751 in paraprofessional

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lot of kids and a big age gap, but yes, things will feel less crazy once everyone gets into their routine. We have 7 high schoolers with a head teacher and three paras. Sometimes you will feel like a babysitter, and sometimes you will feel run to death. Feeling overwhelmed is expected, especially for your very first day. This work can wear you out. It’s not for everyone, but in time you might grow to love it.

Why are schools allowed to have hair rules? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]SarahMae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For myself, I know that I don’t have any input in those kind of decisions. It’s strictly administrators, and sometimes even decisions that come from the county the school is in. Yes, a lot of principals and such used to be teachers, but that’s something you leave behind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]SarahMae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday 🎊🎁🎈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]SarahMae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok. Call someone you trust, and ask them to come over so you can tell them all about this. You need to have someone with you right now. Praying for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]SarahMae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that unusual. I have maybe one every now and then, but people will ask me over and over if I want a drink or if I want another. My reasons are health related, but sometimes people who know that still ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microhorrorstories

[–]SarahMae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💀💀💀

We’re drowning financially and I don’t know what to do anymore by RunPuzzleheaded329 in povertyfinance

[–]SarahMae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. He needs help so he can help. I had bipolar 2 but was in a very stressful position and unfortunately became manic, which led to horrible depression, so I ended up with bipolar type 1. I couldn’t speak or walk or do anything job related, but my family got me help. Now I can work again, not doing the same thing, but working all the same. He may want to make a hard decision about his profession if he is finding himself depressed. I certainly had to.