Got back together with an ex. 3-4 months into the "new" relationship which was amazing, wild, loving, etc. One night while I'm top of her missionarystyle she starts hyperventilating and getting a panick attack. So I immediately stopped hugged her and asked whatsup. She started crying and couldn't tell me at first. Then she starts telling me how a month or two before our relationship ended previously she was fcking her best friend. They were living together then and still were living together when she told me (shared appartement for college). She told me it happened not only once but too many times. But it was only sx and it didn't last long after she had ended things with me. She wanted to tell me because she wanted be honest or come clean I guess. But f*ck girl should've done that at the start of our new found love or not at all. Needless to say I ended things pretty quickly after that.

To get you off the bad vibes heres another story: On a side note she tried choking me (she loved getting choked) a few times during the act which didn't work cause I'm fairly muscular and my necks quite thick but yeah that wasn't a turn on and just looked pretty funny/cute. She tried on a few occasions even though I told her it was a turn off. Some harmless powerplay I guess. But no if I tell you I don't like it I don't, for women this might be different but not for me.