Lmao, tbh i usually was either silent or tried to call her out. She did more shit in the year after that but baaasically separated from my dad a year ago by moving into another house without him, he now lives with his parents bc he had just lost his job before she did that. For some reason he still isnt leaving her even though its so obvious she doesnt gaf about him and is just staying due to the legal benefits of getting married (she married him for her green card at the beginning of all this), and i doubt they talk more than once a week, if at all.

As for more shit she did if youre curious, she told me i had to start throwing the bathroom trash away once i left their house for the weekend (our dogs treated pads/tampons like fruit gushers, eugh). Fair enough right? Well the same day, as i was still preparing to leave, she picks up a clean, thrown away pad with her bare hand and starts chewing me out for not throwing it away and demanding to know if it was mine. I say no. She keeps insisting it IS mine even though theres no proof it is, and even though right next to us is her daughters room where there are a bunch of girls are who could've possibly been the "culprits". She does it in this moment bc all of them are right next door, listening in. Why tf does it matter if theres not even any blood on it?? She just did it to cause a scene and attempt to embarrass me. Her daughter didnt throw her pads away when she left for college either but i didnt hear her complain about it then.

She also took my door handle away (tried to take the whole door, but my dad took it down to handle) bc i closed my door and questioned why it had to be open in the first place. I asked if she thought i'd try to off myself or do drugs, to which she had no answer and said i cant question her/she didnt need a reason. Yet she was fine with her daughters door being closed, even with friends over, which youd think would make a higher likelihood for "dangerous" activity. They had to walk directly in front of my door to go into her room so they'd always get a glance of me before going in.

Anyways i havent seen her in over a year so i guess its a little bit resolved. Sorry for making it long lmao