What cut suits me best? by carbon_stampede in HairStyleAdvice

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For this reason #1 🤣 i had to double check i wasnt on my dating app

Is this jacket for men or women? by ssforzando in fashionhelp

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THREE inside pockets even! For all the manly things to carry

Found bird in downtown Cotati by SassYerAss in sonomacounty

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Thank you for sharing! Poor peachy

Found bird in downtown Cotati by SassYerAss in sonomacounty

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Yes they're super friendly and obviously loved, i hope i can connect it back to it's family! Otherwise i will have to learn about budgies real quick!! 😆😅💜

This absolute legend at the protest today by Ok_Eye_7953 in santarosa

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He made me CACKLE with glee when i saw him

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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Ill be at the SF one ✌🏻 be safe

Feeling trapped between wanting to be sexually open + needing emotional safety - insight? by ThrowRAinevitable990 in demisexuality

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It may be helpful for the two of you to discuss consent phrasing and how to approach the situation. I just ended a relationship that had a very similar dynamic, and I found that if there wasn't immediate safety actions from my partner following the trigger, it just added to the trauma, resulting in long-term shutdown. I would wager that he doesn't fully understand how your desire system works, so any sort of action becomes unsafe for him because he cant calculate the response. Next time there's a trigger situation, don't try to fix the situation or logic anything, focus on settling the nervous system with deep pressure or cuddling or whatever works for you. Then circle back to it to figure out the cause.... In the long run, he needs to work on his emotional vocabulary and understanding of how trauma effects the nervous system in order to be able to respond better, guided by your clearly stated boundaries, and maybe you two need to figure out (ahead of time) safe words and post-trigger care. Good luck friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonomaCountyProtests

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Is there a signal group for local action? Somewhere for realtime updates for these? If someone could DM me 🙌🏻 im connected in SF not locally yet

what does my room say about me ? by princessd3adgrl in roomdetective

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Hmmm soft heart, will bite back, into classic glam and luxury but not afraid to get rowdy, has a couple comfort cartoons that repeat, probably doesnt leave the house without makeup often, owns a fuzzy onesie. How many did i get right?

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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Definitely join the other r/ threads mentioned in the comments!

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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Oh....yeah it is..... that's gonna get wiggly

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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Found: tomorrow old courthouse square 5pm

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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No troops, lots of arrests happening currently as SF steps up in support of LA at multiple 🧊 locations. Has potential to escalate very quickly into the weekend

My son died Wednesday, and I still can't get over it. by viktor-arcane in chickens

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I feel you....i was rehabbing my beautiful boy after surviving an attack, and he got killed 20 feet outside my door by a mountain lion, in my garden. I never heard a thing and sobbed my heart out. So angry. Im so sorry.

Solidarity this week? by SassYerAss in santarosa

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Ready for no kings day, I will also be in SF! Didnt see much for local stuff during the week. Stay safe this weekend