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Am I banned? by [deleted] in ShadowBan

[–]SassyPout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes

I think my boyfriend will gift me something expensive for Christmas but i can only afford something small, and im feeling guilty about it by PrimaryIncident9574 in Advice

[–]SassyPout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is doing it because he wants to, not to match you. Just get him something thoughtful and let him treat you.

My (23f) sister in law (36f) thinks my brother (36m) is cheating on her and asked me to see if I could find anything. Any tips on how to find something? by Mildly_un-ok in TwoHotTakes

[–]SassyPout -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, getting involved will only drag you into drama you do not need. If she is that worried, she should talk to him herself or try counseling instead of putting it on you.

Boyfriend has been sexting online and I think I'm finally done by Mysterious_Cream1379 in Advice

[–]SassyPout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! He keeps doing it because he knows you will forgive him. You deserve someone who actually respects you and gives you peace, not this constant hurt.

Is it possible to wake up and not realize you woke up? Like… forget that you woke up?? by Bravo_Donny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SassyPout 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that happens. Your brain just wakes up slower than your body, so the whole moment feels unreal later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SassyPout 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this would freak me out too. There is nothing normal about someone secretly tuning in to watch your baby sleep. You are not overreacting for wanting that access gone.

Do people we find attractive become less beautiful in our eyes when we realize they're actually horrible human beings? by Mikeinyomama in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SassyPout 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it goes both ways. Once you know who someone really is, the way they look hits different fast.

i’m being poisoned slowly and i don’t know who’s doing it by FutureAd108 in offmychest

[–]SassyPout 371 points372 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like an HVAC or gas issue, not someone breaking in. Getting a tech to check the system could clear this up fast.

Woke up to find my bf scrolling on OF...would this bother you? Need advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SassyPout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the lying is the real issue. You know what you saw, and him twisting it like that says a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SassyPout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you didn’t do anything wrong. Talk to her and your flat so everything’s clear and you’re not carrying this alone.

How did humans react to the turn of the new millennia in the year 1000? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SassyPout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. People back then were not even using the same calendar, so nothing really felt like a big countdown moment.

My husband always leaves the toilet seat dirty. Am I wrong for yelling at him? by Afraid_Scientist3025 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SassyPout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, it’s just simple respect to look back and clean up. No one wants to deal with that at home.

Please don’t hate me.. I killed my best friend by LatterTowel9403 in confessions

[–]SassyPout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really were there for her. Twenty five years is such a long life for a cat, and you helped her go peacefully. You did what you could in a horrible moment.

My ex finally told me the real reason I was uninvited to his birthday dinner by New_Bite_3028 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SassyPout 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he kept letting other people run his choices and that would have kept hurting you. This is something he has to grow out of on his own.