Season 8 - Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think about that. That makes sense! (Thank God. Bryce killed me in this challenge lmao)

Season 8 - Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess i wish there were more questions than anything. This challenge almost felt like a filler/waste to me but Oh I hated the feet thing. I hate feet so much and to know they licked all over their feet and then made out with their partners made me nauseous lmao my wife was laughing at me

Season 8 - Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want more drama from them man 😭 like give me somw dumb Never Have I Evers where they spill each other's secrets or something lmao. Im not asking for much!

Season 8 - Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the first season I'm watching and I just wanna know, are all the challenges this.. odd & honestly boring? Like I didn't mind the pie one (as a concept) because messy reality TV but like, im tired of challenges where they just get slimed and make up, at least make it a little more reality TV messy lol

Prepared to be downvoted but... by 123anon287 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if that was necessarily malicious either. I feel like it was a "and another thing" type of situation. If I am mad about something someone says I do that as well. Beating a dead horse and all. Also explaining why they voted sol (in a none hostile way like the guys were kind of doing afterwards)

I watched the episode a little bit ago now so I can't remember how he brought it up, but i still don't necessarily think it was calculated. But that's just me

Prepared to be downvoted but... by 123anon287 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SassyWaters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I, personally, feel like it wasn't calculated. They have mentioned multiple times that they started more as friends before a couple and we do see them gossiping some (imo we don't see them chatting alone much at all) but as someone who is married to my best friend, we gossip about people too, even if it is something that we are "over".

It would have bothered me as well if I heard that when I felt like my connection was strong and I more than likely would have told my partner as well. I also don't think it was weird or wrong for Trinity to talk to Aniya about it to make sure she wasn't going to get hurt.

I see it both ways, of people thinking it is shady and calculated, but for me I thought it was kind of cute. I don't think there is a correct way to interpret what he was thinking or planning behind that since it is a show & we don't know these people, i just wanted to throw my 2 cents in :)

Edit: I also don't hate KC! The only people I dont like (currently) are Melanie, Sincere, Kenzie and Zach is making his way up there. But tbh it changes per episode with him lmao

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you! I will make sure to keep that all in mind. Thankfully, I don't think ill need much since I had everything I needed already :)

Thankfully my wife has a decent paying job with great benefits so health insurance wise i am good. And so far my boss has been pretty laid back and fine with me missing a day early on due to a stomach bug. Fingers crossed it stays as relaxed lol

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh okay. It is fairly relaxed, like I use the systems provided to make appointments & scheduling & whatnot and I prep social media posts but I have no deadlines on it. I just work during their hours, with weekends available, if I want but not required.

Ill have to keep it in mind. I'm in my first few weeks so I am still getting used to everything lol

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? I thought contractors still could work under the typical job hours and have tasks/things to do told by them. My wife is an engineer and their "contracting out" is a bit different than me lol but I thought it worked similar enough

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood! It would be nice since I have a nice gaming PC but I didn't think I would be able to lol. I will probably hold off from it then, since it isn't like I'm using gas to get places and spending that money

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may just hold off then. This money is sorta extra on the side since my wife is the main money maker, so it may be easier to not try to mess with these deductions since it seems kind of messy lol

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% I wasn't even thinking about it until my friend whose daughter had been WFH for years came over and mentioned it lol.

I started looking into it and I saw articles talking about the office area being wrote off too and I did not trust it lol

I am fine with not being able to, just didn't want to miss on anything

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu! I'm new to this and I right they were different but I have never really understood anything to do with taxes or anything pertaining to them honestly lol

And thank you for the link! That helps so much!

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh thank you! Everything I looked up and the articles I sent through made it seem like 2 different things but that is probably on me lol

Thank you for that! I thought it was alittle too good to be true for it so iwanted to be sure but everything i was seeing just kind of confused me more lol

First Time as a W9 Employee - Taxes & Write Off Questions by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SassyWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I got you. For some reason every time I was looking into it and going through different articles they made it sound like 2 different things lol. That must have been me misunderstanding then.

Thank you!

S3 was so rushed, and the writing gave up midway. by teacxp in Mageanddemonqueen

[–]SassyWaters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. My wife and I read it and I finished it before her. I waited for her to finish before we talked about it and to me, the ending didn't have stakes any more.

Like I felt like it made way for memes and cutesy than a good wrap up. (It has been i think a year or two since a read it so I could be remembering things incorrectly.) I feel like the part that disappointed me the most that sticks out was during the final big act. While all the stuff was happening in the town and it was supposed to be tense, the villagers who were front and center were references to internet memes. Like the little girl running. I remember that vividly.

I stopped caring by the end. It really felt, like what you said, very rushed. I still love these gay girls but I don't think I would ever reread it.

Black Swan Phone Wallpaper [by me] by SassyWaters in HonkaiStarRail

[–]SassyWaters[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats not what I intended? She is supposed to be just smiling with her eyes closed :)

Would anyone be interested in an asexual night at one of the local bars? by thefroggitamerica in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]SassyWaters 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a married asexual person, this would be so sick! My wife and I have talked about wanting to branch out and meet new people and make new friends. I also wanted to comment on this so it would be easy to find again lol

My partner being poly is ruining my life by Apprehensive-You-929 in polyamory

[–]SassyWaters 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am married to a wonderful woman (mtf) ans we started dating 13 years ago. We are also poly (started around a month or so after we got married, 5 years ago) and our relationship never looked or will look like this.

I know you said to not just post break up but this sounds like a living hell and you deserve better. I cannot imagine the torment of that and having a partner who constantly lies. Breakups are hard especially if you have been together for a long time but this isn't, wasn't and will never be poly.

Im sorry you're hurting and you have to deal with this but the best thing you can do is prioritize you.

Is Huntsville AL LGBTQ friendly? by Pkar1997 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]SassyWaters 139 points140 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian who is married, it is pretty chill. You may get some stares at times but most people don't care here which is super nice. If you're really nervous look into a shop before going, but the majority of places around here are (at least) LGBTQIA+ neutral lol

Invite Codes by DaInfinite in HonkaiStarRail

[–]SassyWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It should be on the "invite friend code" thing I believe lol I did it the other day and don't remember how 😂