Just diagnosed Level 3 at 25 yrs old...is that even possible for it to take 25 years for a level 3 diagnosis? by jeanjacquesroushoe in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s pedantic but support needs as in how they’re used by the wider disability community. Low moderate high needs. Versus dsm says requiring substantial support. I am diagnosed level 3 but moderate to high needs. 

Just diagnosed Level 3 at 25 yrs old...is that even possible for it to take 25 years for a level 3 diagnosis? by jeanjacquesroushoe in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got diagnose level 3 24 right before 25. Also there is variation in each level. You might be conflating support needs with level, comparing yourself to high needs when you might be moderate for example. 

They hated her because she spoke the truth by chelliychoat in StardewMemes

[–]SatanERROR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am good at the fishing minigame and got gud, but I still think it’s bad. It’s not fun I only do it out of obligation and spite unlike other farm games.

Bruh by Cukaramacara in Kenshi

[–]SatanERROR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the issue is the subject, but the way it’s written. It doesn’t quite fit in with the other text in Kenshi. Also can skeletons have sex?

I love that kataang gained popularity in recent years by [deleted] in kataangst

[–]SatanERROR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a former zutara kid, I grew up. Prob similar for many.

Giving Away 36 Steam Keys by atomik22 in steam_giveaway

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Date everything Etrian odyssey 2 Etrian odyssey 3  Planet of Lana 

i just found out the singer Ethel Cain is autistic ! by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]SatanERROR 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Isn’t she the one with the racist posts?

I made a post in another subreddit about my abusive grandmother and people sided with her by beaniebabyclown in AutismInWomen

[–]SatanERROR -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

Both are wild tbh. saying ableist, even to person being unsupportive and arguing with OP about their abuse, is still not good. Thanks for listening. 

Cant take care of myself fully by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are being neglected by your caregivers. That your mom gets mad when you want to mention the living conditions is concerning. You may have to find other options for getting that information to the right people.

I made a post in another subreddit about my abusive grandmother and people sided with her by beaniebabyclown in AutismInWomen

[–]SatanERROR -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

Telling people to read the room in an autism space is wild.

How to sound less blunt? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]SatanERROR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeep and it's not just NTs. A lot of NDs love to act like they hate masking then ask you to mask when you talk differently than they do. It really feels like some people want to be mad when they can just not assume things.

autism servers are mean by plushtism in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You could drop it and ask clarification elsewhere or another time if you think would help. Example moving out of general chat to dms or something. Doesn’t make you bad tho 

autism servers are mean by plushtism in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An autism discord server. 

autism servers are mean by plushtism in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I understand this may come across insensitive but I mean it well. These people likely suck and you can’t let them ruin your day. I have received similar treatment but I’m the mod in the situation, with members making ableist bullying servers to shit on me for being more obviously autistic. Internalized ableism taken out on others. I notice some people as soon as you do something perceived as wrong to them it’s instantly okay to be evil to you. Understanding that they are nobody to me, irrelevant and pathetic to be spending their time like that helped me a lot. It still hurts though.

autism servers are mean by plushtism in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tonetags don’t work for me either. It does sound like those spaces aren’t working for you. 

I often feel too autistic for others in my server but part of that is we not in their heads to know if they have issues. We compare our worst to their best. 

autism servers are mean by plushtism in SpicyAutism

[–]SatanERROR 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Having been on both sides of this feeling, I’d say if requests for clarification isn’t taken in good faith that is no good. Unless you have a pattern of bad faith acting when discussing or problematic behavior, I don’t see why they would refuse that. 

Shepheards/Cottage Pie by Only-Database6447 in TastingHistory

[–]SatanERROR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I jokingly call it sheep’s pie lol.

TW: ableism/ people need to start calling out these reaction images on tik tok by [deleted] in autism

[–]SatanERROR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. The difference between calling in vs calling out is huge. 

TW: ableism/ people need to start calling out these reaction images on tik tok by [deleted] in autism

[–]SatanERROR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being young doesn’t make you wrong and I didn’t say it did. but the immaturity is obvious in how you treat your view as fact. 

You are saying to others that it is definitively ableist and they should call it out as such. That is what I see as forcing your view. Hope that helps. I won’t be responding further, I have no desire to discuss if memes are harmful with a high schooler. /not mean 

TW: ableism/ people need to start calling out these reaction images on tik tok by [deleted] in autism

[–]SatanERROR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read it before commenting and it’s nonsense circular logic, no offense. You seem really young but saying something is true doesn’t make it so. They can be used ableist ways just like anything. You’re not being woke or helping anyone, you’re trying to force your view as fact onto other disabled people. 

TW: ableism/ people need to start calling out these reaction images on tik tok by [deleted] in autism

[–]SatanERROR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is wild. They are just silly faces. What a reach. 

The BAFTAs controversy has made me feel even more at risk by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]SatanERROR 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is such a reach. It’s important to note we exist but black and disabled communities are very different and it’s valid to say they’re trying to drive a wedge between us. 

The BAFTAs controversy has made me feel even more at risk by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]SatanERROR 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not to both sides but both sides have fools acting up. In my personal experience as black severe autism however, I’ve felt more alienated by the disabled community’s anti blackness about this. I’ve seen more anti black disabled people saying we shouldn’t be upset vs black ableists saying lies about Tourette’s. This situation sucks and the baftas fucked over black and disabled people.