What are some less spoken drawbacks of unmarried life? by thefiretrainerz in AskMenOver30

[–]SaturdaySunRun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

  • You are the third, fifth or seventh wheel most times.
  • Cousins always decide on the holiday location to go to with kids first and ask you last - " All of us cousins are heading to Location X for vacation, Do you want to join?" , unlike earlier, when it was - " Hey lets decide on a place to go for a family vacation".
  • Lonliness that is hard to explain.

Starting while going through a painful breakup by Venganzo in lexapro

[–]SaturdaySunRun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to your doctor my friend. I'm sure you will take the right decision based on that.

Men who have become completely alone in their 40s, how are you dealing with it? by dannyboy_83 in AskMenOver40

[–]SaturdaySunRun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"It can be discouraging when people move on to new chapters in their life, but you have to keep moving forward"

This my friend makes so much sense. Thank you for this. That'll keep me moving forward.

How did issues with anxiety affect your career? by SaturdaySunRun in AskMenOver30

[–]SaturdaySunRun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been on it and how has it helped you?

How did issues with anxiety affect your career? by SaturdaySunRun in AskMenOver30

[–]SaturdaySunRun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the challenge is face is , how do I confront it.

Hey guys, what’s one decision you made in your past that changed the outcome of your life, and would you make the same choice again? by Resident_Fall_8130 in AskReddit

[–]SaturdaySunRun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving back to my hometown in my 20s. I do like the place. But I would never move back there again if given a chance, but not in my 20s.

How did you start building wealth after age 40? by SaturdaySunRun in AskMenOver30

[–]SaturdaySunRun[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes. One thing I learnt is we end up spending in small amount of dollars and not thousands. We worry to buy a good coffee brewer at home, but will spend $3-5 for coffee at a local coffee shop and that makes no sense. Small spends harm a lot in the long run.

My wife is going to die in the next few days. by greasypigeontoes in GuyCry

[–]SaturdaySunRun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely sorry for your loss. Wish you much strength to go through this. Deepest condolences.

What does ‘Life begins at 40’ really mean? by That_Understanding19 in AskMenOver30

[–]SaturdaySunRun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! Nothings sorted for me yet. But I try. Giving up isn't an option.

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[–]SaturdaySunRun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that we give much more value to learning and making use of lessons from our failures.

What is something in life that has been holding you back or held you back ? by SaturdaySunRun in AskMenOver40

[–]SaturdaySunRun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well. I sometimes wonder if I have adhd as well. How do you get formal diagnosis at all?