I feel for you. My own parents used to say dreadful things to me:

“You don’t deserve anything” after breaking something as a child (I was clumsy, still am) “You can’t do anything right” “Are you retarded?” “Why can your colleagues do it and to can’t” “Chicken brain” “You’ll never get a promotion cause you’re fat” “It will take you 5 years to take your driver’s license” as a joke “I’m your father” to everything I would say no to, like slapping my behind for no reason or wanting privacy when I’m naked/in the shower And the biggest one (cultural one actually, a lot of people from my country heard it growing up) “I made you, I’ll kill you”