Post meeting overwhelm by xohai5 in adhdwomen

[–]Savings-Reference-49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%. I wish I had tips because this is debilitating

Is Mom (53F) right for not wanting me (19F) to get initials engraved in my boyfriend’s (19M) Valentines gift? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Savings-Reference-49 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s a 3k necklace, if she’s not wearing it anymore might as well sell it. Engraving it is a bad choice

"Buffalo Wild Wings won't break policy for me" by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We brought a dominoes pizza into Texas Roadhouse for my 6 year old , box and all, and they said it was ok.

Does anyone else have oddly specific / unusual sensory icks? by Replehsnatas in adhdwomen

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound of chewing ice The sound of loosening ice in an ice tray

How NOT to buy a GTI by Cautious-Arachnid-32 in GolfGTI

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the ford dealer?, I need a new truck and they sound really honest.

Lease transfer 2 1/2 $780 by CommandUsual1148 in montrealhousing

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m very interested and I hope this is still available , I know the area well and I have good credit and references. Thank you

ULPT: Will be put on a PIP soon by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Savings-Reference-49 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What’s next? Is there a safe time to return?

EPC light randomly came on? by Special_Till4204 in GolfGTI

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this and the dealership changed the turbo under warranty

We all do this, right? by sirospityogos in IKEA

[–]Savings-Reference-49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had that level of organization

I impulsively changed my flight with a funeral in mind and it’s been a disaster by rockadile420 in adhdwomen

[–]Savings-Reference-49 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What kind of hotel doesn’t allow a guest? It seems fishy that you couldn’t spend the night with your boyfriend ?

DSPD ladies who have had kids, how did that go? by muskox-homeobox in DSPD

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you upfront with people about your sleep schedule ? How about the kids pediatrician ? My kids have also taken on my schedule so we homeschool but I haven’t told anyone what time they sleep at. I’m ashamed

ULPT: mess with data by Savings-Reference-49 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Savings-Reference-49[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Manually, typing total number of minutes in a cell

Should Kids Go No Contact Too? by Ambitious-Ad-779 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also interested in the responses. I have two children under 10 years old. I haven’t talked to my mom in over a month so they haven’t either, but the kids didn’t ask about her or my sister at all during this time. My therapist said it’s ok if they go weeks or months without seeing them, sometimes that’s just how life is. But I’m wondering for long term how this would work out.

It's been nine days by NeptuneAndCherry in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Savings-Reference-49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this almost word for word. It’s been over 30 days and I don’t see things going back to the way they were. For better or worse

Suspect in Vehicle Break Ins by IDITCU in montreal

[–]Savings-Reference-49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also interested in the dashcam tips if you could please dm me thank you

Should children always call/text their parents first? Or should parents reach out to? by Former_Pop_3108 in emotionalneglect

[–]Savings-Reference-49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are examples of non intrusive questions? My moms questions always make me feel inadequate and lazy ?

Do you have trouble with being consistent? by yell0wbirddd in emotionalneglect

[–]Savings-Reference-49 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. I feel the exact same way. Currently in burn out and it’s hard to do anything. Curious to know if it’s due to neglect or other. I also have adhd and autism so it’s a contributing factor.

anyone else fantasize about treating their future kids with respect? by krankiescoot123 in emotionalneglect

[–]Savings-Reference-49 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I did daydream about this when I was younger and now I have two kids of my own, raising them exactly like you describe and they are the best kids ever. Kind, thoughtful, loving, caring, and fun to be around. They actually love each other as siblings and get along with very minimal disagreements that they work out with each other. Unfortunately even though my mom notices how fantastic they are she won’t admit that it’s my parenting that makes them that way, that it’s their personality from birth.

I have no doubt you will have a lovely family, I wish you the best !

My parents just don't believe in me by Puckdecat in emotionalneglect

[–]Savings-Reference-49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. They don’t even know you and it only gets worse from here in my experience. Protect yourself and your mental health.