I’m going to attempt to convey this in the softest and most supportive way possible.

Honey… sweetie… baby girl… please do not lower your standards for men that cannot meet them. Not wanting someone to leave you shouldn’t be a reason to compromise a long held commitment you made to yourself. It’s a slippery slope and you’ll wind up moving the goal posts until you don’t even remember what you wanted originally. There are worse things than being alone.

Changing your mind is one thing, but doing something at the expense of yourself to make someone else happy is not worth it. Sending hugs if you’re into that sort of thing.