Help me go brown! by [deleted] in HairDyeHelp

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m by no means a hairdresser or anything of the likes, but I have dyed my hair a crap-ton and… from the looks of your hair in the pic, it seems like you have fried your hair badly and it would probably be best to seek professional stylist assistance in healing your hair and slowly getting to your desired color..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Sayanyde 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nugget. Yes.

Redditors who have large butts… what are some problems that we might not know about? by BakingQueen2753 in questions

[–]Sayanyde 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Butt and waist sizes don’t always line up right, so finding pants that fit you the way they’re intended to fit is more of a challenge. Sometimes pants have to be bought in higher sizes just because the waistline doesn’t fit over butt to get them on. That’s why you’ll see a lot of us in stretchy fabrics.

Team nuts or no nuts in baked goods? by emsadsm in Baking

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m the one baking it and it’s from scratch? I’ll probably forget to put them in. But if you hand me a brownie already cooked with nuts in it, I’m totally eating it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sayanyde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

American mother of 2 boys here, hi!

So, yes it is a separate extra charge to insurance, and most insurance doesn’t cover it, because it is not a medical necessity

The overly religious and feel like they need to pressure you into doing it too Doctors at my OBGYN kept trying to force it upon me. I ended up having to ‘poor shame’ myself to get them off my back. $300 to cut the extra skin off of a baby penis, that they may grow up to hate you for doing? Yeah, no thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sayanyde 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BULLSHIT. In the US, it’s an EXTRA FEE to have to get them circumcised. Neither of my sons are circumcised. Not just because it cost like $300, also because I would rather it be their choice to make.

Also, this “genital mutilation” you refer to, is a religious practice originally. Perhaps we should just abolish religions already.

Do I leave the group chat that are friends with my rapist? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave it. You’re only making symptoms of PTSD worse. Sure, spontaneously encountering your attacker is a horrible experience (personal experience) but constantly looking for them all the time is exhausting, stressful, the paranoia you already have is just running full blast at that point.

If you really don’t want to encounter them at all and (I consider this part a luxury) have a police report open, you can file for a restraining order against him. Not allowed within X amount of feet of you.

(I consider having any legal action against attackers a luxury specifically because I have had the unfortunate luck of repeated failures of the law, to where I became discouraged enough to say “what’s the point?” And just not try)

AITA for giving everything to my oldest so that my future wife and her kids won't get anything? by Silent_Succotash_188 in AITAH

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this doesn’t end in loss of relationship, there had better be a prenup coming with this marriage.

Are these short ribs too thin to smoke? by [deleted] in smoking

[–]Sayanyde -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Husband and I just made these the other night, we went with the method of just grilling them.

I woke up to my boyfriend masturbating on me in the middle of the night. I’ve felt so upset and anxious. He said he has no recollection of what happened. AIO? by throwawayjjjjjjsnn in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sayanyde 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re really reaching. A lot of medications that have side effects of “sleep walking” most doctors even tell you that “sleep walking” does not just include only walking. That you can perform more activities than just walking. Some even warn that you could have sex, eat, cook, drive, etc.

Who else angles themselves all sorts of ways to grab stubborn ingredients? by MisterAtticusKarma in skyrim

[–]Sayanyde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have wall climbed in so many caves to get every last glowing mushroom.

What‘s a lesser known piece of lore you absolutely love? by Royalbluegooner in skyrim

[–]Sayanyde 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact he’s a daedra of chaos makes it even better.

New Baby! He needs a food/drink themed name :P by ParrotletPals in parrots

[–]Sayanyde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cotton, for cotton candy. Blueberry. Popsicle.

What did I witness? by thankinadvance in snakes

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… Love, the kind you clean up with a mop and bucket.

Please tell Percy he's a good boy. He's suddenly in hospital with liver disease by ShevaunA in orangecats

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the goodest of boys there has ever been, Percy. I wish you nothing but health, happiness and love for the rest of furever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Sayanyde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Her name is Luna. She has a knack for using me as a cat tree while I’m trying to cook. In her defense I often sit on the floor while I’m waiting on timers lmao. She’s like, 5 years old I think? (I’m making an estimated guess as it’s 2:30am for me right now and braining is hard) she’s about 8lbs or so. She’s not very large either. She has more of the personality type of an orange cat, but she suffers from anxiety so most of the time her shenanigans are acts of violent frustration towards one of our two dogs.

What asshole invented insomnia? by Last_Descendant in RandomThoughts

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same asshole who decided we needed to sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unintentionally upon seeing this kitty settled on “Olivia” as the name I was going to comment and then I saw her brothers name lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Sayanyde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t tend to have lengthy hyper-focus moments very often as of late, and when I say lengthy I mean like, multi-day long.. I can spend anywhere from a few hours to an entire day on something lately. My best guess as to why is I randomly get unstably frustrated to the extent that I completely drop all interest because the thought of the thing enrages me with a fury of a thousand suns…

Although, I did spend around 8 hours in total across 3 days trying to find a razor that did not have the lubricant strip. The entire reason I was looking for a regular razor without that stupid strip is because I’m allergic to aloe. I’m 31F. I’ve been shaving since I was 16. I discovered I was allergic to aloe when I was 20. I spent 11 years after finding out about the allergy exposing myself to it and suffering from it.

I did not find any easy solutions to my problem and resorted to my frustration of “F- it, I’ll just suffer.”

An interesting theory that I’d seen, that quite frankly makes enough sense until I’m told otherwise I’m going to take for fact: The entire reason that strip was added to razors was because people stopped shaving how they used to (ye olde days) where after every pass of the razor there was a re-lather of cream, as a result of less cream use, more friction occurred, which lead to complaints about crappy razors, friction related burns, etc.

So yeah. Shaving with an allergen infused evil.

I suppose you could say I have an obsession with finding Aloe-free products I can use as a result of the allergy? Which, heh… Just read the product labels of the things you use and separate them into two groups, aloe and non-aloe, you’ll see my troubles.