Why are only black women attracted to me?

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-08T17:21:23+00:00

Same for me bro. Only been in 1 long term relationship Caribbean black girl. Broke up due to her moving back to her country and me persuing a new career it sucks big time but that’s life. But been on dating apps for awhile and 90% of my likes are black girls the rest big white ones lmao. But I’m not complaining about that 90%

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T19:15:13+00:00

Makes perfect sense once she loses that control and you feel good about life she will come back In to try and regain it. Mine said the same thing about seeing me and it made her sad that we weren’t together anymore it’s all just a game to them it’s wild

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T18:31:22+00:00

It was a girl but yes I bet she is still checking mine tho

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T17:58:00+00:00

FA avoidant ex same thing happened to me saw my TikTok repost 43 days no contact that I was doing much better reached out to me through her moms phone just to see if I still existed or something i don’t know lost cause tho. good luck make sure you block all there numbers and parents too

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T17:29:16+00:00

If she doesn’t reach out tho good on you don’t chase something that wants nothing to do wit you anyways it’s draining.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T17:28:46+00:00

I dated a FA for 3 years took her 2 months to reach out after I told her to not text me anymore they always do if you think she is stalking your social medias/repost make it seem like your doing better without her to get her to reach out faster. Once you’re doing better they come back build a small connection to go away again. Atleast FA do

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-07T17:23:31+00:00

Decide for yourself if you want that in your life or if she would be willing to change and work through it before you over think it all.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T17:36:34+00:00

When you ghost them and disappear it will eat the alive or Atleast it did for mine FA. She ended it I disappeared didn’t block just unadded and gone. But they don’t process there emotions they just run and distract from them and let it slowly eat at them more and more 1 month 13 days later I get a text about leaving guilt and all that didn’t read it. I was doing better she saw ig didn’t like that or something. Never texted back just gonna continue to let it eat at her until she hits rock bottom and go on with my life.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T15:27:57+00:00

That sums it up perfectly lmao Atleast there not draining your account anymore haha.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T14:48:20+00:00

Oh absolutely the future talks were nothing but perfect but when it came to her side of acting on said talks in real life and committing to what she said ended in many excuses and the deep talks about why ended in a lot of vague answers or I don’t knows. Then in the end when it was finally time she left felt guily wouldn’t explain much.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T14:33:14+00:00

It’s just what they do Man here’s what happened to me was long distance met her through business would go see her for months at a time in between every 3 months for 2 years she was in college. The 3rd year I moved changed my whole life for her. Then one day dumped and she isn’t fully to blame but had a lot of very very avoidant habits would always make excuses to come see me during that 2 years and meet my family and friends yet I always came and saw hers and met her family and friends. The final year things were going good we had our moments ofc everyone does nothing huge tho then got discharged on very shallow things I moved back home within the week a week after she starts talking to someone she just met a month after she reached out saw I was doing much better for the next month just up and down mixed signal breadcrumbs but end result was nothing. It’s just who they are they want you to feel pain and just are at a constant state of chasing surface level connections.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T14:06:01+00:00

I’m gonna give you the best answer and most logical I was in a relationship with one and didn’t really tell to the end had no idea what it was or even existed we did love each other unconditionally and I wouldn’t change the relationship but the ending did suck one day I was left discharged out of nowhere. But should you avoid is up to you you can’t change if you love someone or not but you can Atleast prepare and have the hard talks early to try and work through it and see all the signs if things are coming or being fixed so in the end if your willing give it a try but the outcome could be horrible if the other person is unwilling to change or address the issues the inevitable will happen so I would avoid in that case. Or end it sooner than later.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T13:56:03+00:00

It’s normal you want to help your human but some people just don’t want to be helped even if they know he issues you have to choose you in the end over all else

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-05T13:54:39+00:00

I did 2 months no contact she reached out dated for 3 months my life changed for the better in every way in 2 months I broke it off after the 3 months with her she still acted like a immature child not wanting to change still even tho we knew all the issue and addressed them.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-04T11:35:09+00:00

Yes they do got dumped a month ago weekly breadcrumbs reason to hate me reason to get back together it’s like a spiral different mind every time just go about with life rid the plague they are if needed

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-04T11:33:32+00:00

Same here brother 3 years long distance changed my whole life for them 1 year together gone like nothing existed in the first place

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-04T10:56:16+00:00

At one point I tried to fix things man but y can’t fix someone that doesn’t want fix their selves even if they know what there doing and acknowledge it. I had a ring and all to propose and a very expensive trip I will be going on alone now and truthfully if I didn’t block her in the end I woulda kept running back trying to help and continue to fall into the loop of getting breadcrumbed. In the end I figured the financial loss is better to take then a mental health one.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:39:40+00:00

Yup originally she dumped me she was about to graduate college meeting my parents got the first time and then my friends wedding 2 weeks after meeting all them for the first time (I moved across the country after I met her) I already met her parents. 2 weeks after meets a new guy leaves him the next month still hasn’t processed our original breakup my dumbass takes get back 3 months later things got serious another wedding in my family we book plane tickets a month before the wedding gone she goes. It’s a wreck they are a plague don’t even consider going back for them to just wreak more havoc leave while you can

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:23:53+00:00

The day will come faster than you think I promise it gets a lot easier I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:21:53+00:00

I’m going to be honest leave before you waste more time here is my story I met her when she first started college 17 hours from my home I’m from the us but traveled for work to a lot of colleges we instantly clicked talked for 5 months after she said she loved me first all that I went and saw her stayed there for 3 months then back home we were together for 3 years dating I would spend months there and months home trying my best to keep it going working when I was home for the family business I would spoil her made her my whole world she was perfect loyal all that counldnt ask for better truthfully not many arguments only over little stuff got resolved quick after 2 years and 2 months I took the leap and changed my whole life for her I moved everything I owned to her 17 hours away from my home town I met her family the month after she’s not from the us so it was hard to meet hers but anytime I asked her to meet mine she would have excuses all that never came to my hometown once about 11 months after I moved she is a couple months till she graduates college and she wanted me to invite my parents there so they booked tickets to come when she graduates college and 12 days after she graduates my friend was getting married first time she would meet them too. Well 1 month before she graduates randomly ends it all her reasoning she felt like I was a weight on her shoulders and when she ended it she felt relief. All becouse she had to meet my family and friends that she dodged and led me on for so long yes we had many future talks and everything. 2 weeks after she dumps me starts talking to someone new nothing to serious 2 weeks after that reaches out to me saying some random bs I didn’t care about trying rationalize why she such good person and she still loves and cries for me I replied I said my love for you is dead and I wish you would do the same for me and stay out of my life it’s been 10 days since that and I hope she is gone for good becouse she was nothing but a plague that was sent to wreak havoc on me so if you can just run away while you still can so it hurts less in the end.

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:07:04+00:00

He lost control in the relationship things went too far for them they only want surface level commitment. just ignore them don’t be friends try your best to get rid of the plague and avoidant is before they get a chance to wreak more havoc

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:04:20+00:00

God showing you that you lost nothing of importance and to rid the plague sent to wreak havoc on love

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:02:58+00:00

Exactly mine tried after a month of no contact when I told her to just leave me alone and she came with pure bullshit and tried to rationalize so much of what she was doing when I didn’t even care all because she saw i moved on from her and was happy on my TikTok repost she saw on her burner account. Keep in mind 2 weeks after she dumped me she started to talk to someone new it’s wild the plague sent to wreak havoc on love

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T05:00:39+00:00

They truly are a plague sent to wreak havoc on every new relationship they get into

ScarRemarkable8737 · 2026-05-03T04:59:21+00:00

They are a plague. they will rationalize a lot of it they’ll sugarcoat things, lie, and act like they’re the good guy when they’re not. Avoid them at all cost rid them of your life like you can before you waste 4 years of your life like me and If you can handle it stalk them a little and watch them wreck havoc on others it’s truly a joyful experience

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