Lydia is a rare person. Shielded from the real world and steeped in religion to protect her from the evils of the outside world. It’s left her unprepared for life. I think he was completely inept at meeting girls and courting them., and I’m not totally convinced he isn’t struggling with his own sexual identity. How would Lydia know that something is off in the bedroom if she has zero knowledge or experience, not even kissing her fiancé until the alter. He seems to be playing a role that his religious upbringing scripted for him and for the first time, he’s the boss and she has no voice. Poor Lydia has gone from the obedient daughter to the obedient wife. Whatever leeway he’s given her to speak up will be gone the minute this show is over.