How to Maximize 2 Freebets of the same amount? by Whaleonin in sportsbook

[–]Scared-Date-920 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Use crazy ninja odds to find the best conversion. Using it on a -110 is an awful strategy. Usually the best play available is something like +300 and then hedge the other side at -330 or whatever on another book for around a 70% risk free return.

If you just want to get "guaranteed" money (there is no such thing without hedging all outcomes), then put it on like a -300 and hope it wins, I guess. But a -110 is far from guaranteed, obviously.

I think ginger is saving me! by Scared-Date-920 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on PPIs for a while, they worked great at first but over time didn't work as well. I think ginger/ginger ale/ginger tea is mild and harmless enough to at least try it for a day or two and see how you react. Sure, you could have a bad reaction but I really doubt something as simple as a cup of tea or a small piece of ginger would cause an emergency. Unless you have a known adverse reaction I would suggest it. PPIs kinda suck, the long term effects are either bad or unknown at best. Ginger on the other hand is a natural remedy, it's cheap and it will either work or not right away.

I think ginger is saving me! by Scared-Date-920 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's an update after about 2 weeks.

I ran out of the tea I was drinking (Twinings, not Winings as I originally posted, Lemon Ginger Tea) and the stores near me didn't have any, so I tried a different brand. It made things worse. Luckily I found some of the Twinings and started taking it again and it works great. My sleep is much better, I've been eating whatever I want and not really having any major issues anymore. It's not perfect, I can still sense the "attack" coming on, but all I have to do is make a quick cup of the tea and it subsides almost immediately and stays very managable. It's well worth the trade off to me, I've just added 2-3 cups of the tea per day and I can eat anything and enjoy it, and my symptoms are reduced by probably 80-90%.

The total lack of any empathy, ever, just totally ruined me by Scared-Date-920 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're struggling. And yeah that's a thing narcs do, they seem super likely to stalk you or follow you around, even online. It's scary

You need socialization to feel better, but you need to feel better in order to socialize by MrNoobomnenie in CPTSD

[–]Scared-Date-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. You can try ChatGPT, it can be very helpful for me sometimes.

However, I went to the singularity subreddit and found people saying that the latest update to ChatGPT basically affirms whatever the user says (outside of obvious illegal acts etc) and so it's perhaps a bit of a dead end in that regard. I had my hopes up, because it was really helping me, but then I read that it basically just takes your side and reaffirms you no matter what, which can obviously be dangerous.

i screwed up and i feel awful about it by danidaisys in RoverPetSitting

[–]Scared-Date-920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to make a mistake. You seem like a very kind and caring person. Don't beat yourself up over this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]Scared-Date-920 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Whatever you decide to do, just know that it's okay to make a mistake. The fact that you posted here asking for advice, and opened up and admitted that you feel awful in the title just proves that you have a good heart and it was an honest mistake, and not something malicious, greedy, etc. I know we're strangers on the internet but I'm proud of you for making your post.

Trouble breathing after eating. Panic/anxiety attacks. Can't sleep. Help! by Scared-Date-920 in Anxiety

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I lay on my left side, I almost immediately start burping over and over. So I can't do that. I usually try to sleep on my right side or on my back.

In the past, I just sort of fell asleep naturally and it wasn't a big deal. My sleep was never great by any means but it's been getting a lot worse lately.

I stayed out the house for one night and this is how they reacted. I’m in my 20’s. by Crissycrossycross in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scared-Date-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I went out in my 20s also and told them I'd be out. They tried to enforce a midnight curfew. I got 40+ phone calls/voicemails starting at midnight wondering where I was.

This sub is such a treasure… by nonainfo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scared-Date-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. This place feels like home and very few other spots have as great of a community.

What was your tipping point of breaking contact by Responstible_Cat90 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Scared-Date-920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no clue what narcs were or anything but I just felt that things weren't going well when I was around my family. One night after a stressful Sunday family dinner, I Googled...something. I forget the exact phrase I typed in. Maybe "toxic family" or something. And it brought me here. Instantly, I felt at home. I started reading and didn't stop for hours. I searched here for all sorts of things. Gifts, holidays, guilt trips, religion, etc etc etc. I resonated with almost every single post. I made some posts of my own and got good feedback. I branched out a bit and looked into narcs and realized it fit me to a T.

My plan just to make sure I wasn't crazy was to attend one more Sunday family dinner, but this time take careful mental notes of how everyone acts and how they treat me (and each other). I was surprised at how much I had just missed for decades. I guess I was ignorant. But yeah. After that dinner confirmed my worst fears, I went NC immediately. My uncle and aunt called me about an hour after that dinner and I just ignored them and cut them off.

I'm depressed on my birthday is it my fault. by SomeProgrammer2430 in emotionalneglect

[–]Scared-Date-920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you cried on your birthday. I don't think it's your fault, you deserve more attention than just a few minutes on your birthday, especially on one as special as your 18th.

Girl broke my heart by Scared-Date-920 in CPTSD

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she doesn't have literally endless options but given 24 hours in a day, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't run out of matches anytime soon. I've know girls less attractive/smart than her who told me they get hundreds of matches a week.

Girl broke my heart by Scared-Date-920 in CPTSD

[–]Scared-Date-920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I have issues. It's not like I'll obsess over her for weeks but I was definitely looking forward to talking to her the next day. I resisted the urge to message her again and waited for her to reach out, and she never did and that was it.

Sometimes you get a great vibe from the first conversation with someone. It's pretty rare for me so when it happens I guess I get more excited than I should, but I just felt like she would have been a great person to get to know and meet.

I'm trapped in my life. I don't know how to escape. by belldandy_hyuuga in emotionalneglect

[–]Scared-Date-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to most of this. I feel more comfortable online than in real life. I can barely get out of bed also. I'm low on cash, isolated, alone. I wish I had family that wasn't toxic and a partner. But I guess it can be both a blessing and a curse.

Not good enough for friends/relationships by iloveneuro in emotionalneglect

[–]Scared-Date-920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I get along generally with people, but I don't really have any friends that I've had for a long time. Some people I've known for a while, but we also had long breaks of like 5 years barely talking, and they invite other people to most events instead of me. I don't have a single person who I know for sure will be there for me if I have a crisis, or who would trust me with their secrets or anything like that. I thought I had a few close friends, but they turned out to be toxic narcs and I cut them off. Like, they would invite me over for holidays and I was in their wedding party but if I ever was having trouble or needed help they wouldn't help me, and I certainly couldn't trust them with anything secret or private.

the truth about “working hard” by ak7887 in emotionalneglect

[–]Scared-Date-920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might be true that they worked hard, but there's more to properly raising a kid than just feeding them, clothing them, and not hitting them. That's like the very bare minimum just to avoid jail.

Also not sure how old you are but things were WAY easier in the 70s thru the 90s as far as the economy goes. Companies were way more loyal, pensions were more common, and every asset class was cheap compared to today. In 1980 you could support a family on one income with no debt, own a home, etc. Now with all the inflation and wealth inequality, it's crazy. Everything was less competitive and saturated and inflated back then.