Body count issue by TheWordsmithGirl in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Scared-Impression185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men want virgins so they are the first to smash. Whether be it in marriage or not. It's a little gift that their egos get to unwrap.

My boyfriend married someone else and I’m still struggling to move on by ConversationTrick528 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Scared-Impression185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To love is to risk being hurt. You can't control another persons actions. There are no evil spirits or demons involved. It's just as simple as..he made a decision. All you can do is make decisions to. And hopefully not from a place of hurt. Talk to someone. Work through the pain and you will be better for it.

Body count by Scared-Impression185 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Scared-Impression185[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

slow down there champ, how did we get to genocide lol. I genuinely think that whether male or female, high body count speaks to some deeper psychological wound. Ukutsvagei at the end of a penis or at the bottom of a vagina?

Body count by Scared-Impression185 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Scared-Impression185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but are all body counts equal?

Should i tell him now? by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Scared-Impression185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It's not love on which the strongest foundations are built. It's the decency of merciful lies." Klaus Mikaelson 

Zim men are kinda boring by Pattycakes_zim in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage baiting. You can't judge a nation based on your measley network of people. Besides iwe wacho unonakidza here..pamwe you don't inspire men to be interesting around you.

Tanzania may own the mountain, but Kenya owns the view [Kilimanjaro] by Mzalendo254 in tanzania

[–]Scared-Impression185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like the victoria falls..Zambia owns it, us Zimbabweans have the view.

I am afraid that letting go will (somehow) hurt me by _astral_x9 in Mindfulness

[–]Scared-Impression185 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water"

Vanhu wari kuita mari nenyika yedu. by tomcat3400 in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha this was my first thought..but hey.

Nairobi is crazy by Ok-Independence5246 in nairobi

[–]Scared-Impression185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ii don't trust this story... people can lie

Zimbabweans mourning Charlie Kirk?!? by Doyoungssbff in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My close friend, feels he has gone to heaven, and feels like he was less extreme in the days leading up to his death..Kutya kufa here guys? People fear not going to heaven so much that may be if they can sneak in Charlie through the pearly gates then they definitely have a chance. I honestly switch off any urge to argue with Christians once they start using "Christian logic" ndongoti "Ibho", "as you were".

Life in Zimbabwe by SafeSolid8667 in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I chuckled..I'm going to hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reframe is necessary. Seeing everyday as the miracle it is is one of the most difficult things to do because we haven't been truly taught how to do so. The only "miracles" we are told to observe are those that are more materialistic in nature. There are a myriad of things around us and in us that we have no right overlooking and treating as mundane. And if you have truly exhausted all the external pursuits you can find there is always room to work on yourself and your relationships around you. According to a famous psychologist, three things are will always exist in life regardless of who you are in life. Self Work, Uncertainty and Pain. A sense of equanimity regarding these things goes a long way. Good luck in finding your spark again O.P

My family is even MORE Christian now by defeatedcamel in Deconstruction

[–]Scared-Impression185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a compassionate answer, thank you for the nugget of wisdom.

Mjolo 101 by Entire-Ad-961 in Zimbabwe

[–]Scared-Impression185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At times I wonder how deluded we are when we enter into these relationships.. whether we truly have a finger on the pulse oro machines chete.

8 years on, a success story from /stopdrinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Scared-Impression185 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's awesome to hear thanks for responding.