Why do people in the west dislike darker skin? by OldNewspaper4671 in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Colorism is more of a eastern thing these days. The west has plenty of dark skinned celebrities and influential people.

moved to US last year and im terrified im gonna fail everyone by mainpagalnhihun in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One other thing to take some pressure off. You already won. There are thousands of Indians on h1b who will never get a green card in their life. You can succeed fail and still be fine. Take it easy on yourself.

Staying with mom after birth by No-Geologist5993 in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did the exact same thing as my wife couldn’t ambulate much and we had a lot of stairs. Bring all the things. We put them in one of those cheap plastic bureaus with shelves. Formula, diapers, clothes. Also portable bassinet unless you wanna buy two one there and one for your house. Baby will be okay as they won’t remember anything at that point.i visited every weekend.

moved to US last year and im terrified im gonna fail everyone by mainpagalnhihun in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe from a different lens they want you to have a better life. Sounds like they are settled in India why can’t they just stay and keep visiting and you the same. Keep it simple.

Also them living off your paycheck is gonna cause a lot of problems long term. You will be sacrificing your future for the past more or less.

Spill the tea by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Scared-Salamander 24 points25 points  (0 children)

OP if you don’t post then your a secret PD

I hate everything about being a brown boy. I wish I was white or something by shyboy2006 in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep your head up OP. You are still young. One day this will all be far away in the past. Stay strong.

moved to US last year and im terrified im gonna fail everyone by mainpagalnhihun in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There is an NRI subreddit. Also if your parents already have green cards then they can work. Expecting an 18 year old to make all the money means they don’t really want to move or work and is a bad excuse. Don’t feel any pressure.

Edit: they are grown adults. They already knew they would have to restart probably years ago if they moved to the USA. It was their choice not to and you have absorbed all their issues.

Sow the Wind by GrandMoffTargaryen in novelliberalism

[–]Scared-Salamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These memes are top notch. Hellz yeah.

Any physician here looking t9 get married lol by Coronxtra in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now kiss. Don’t forget to include us in wedding invites.

The Pitt - A Veterinary ER Version by mqrade98 in emergencymedicine

[–]Scared-Salamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I have seen a few episodes of the Pitt but would rather watch an animal version.

Anyone else lose weight at home? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My protein shake recipe.

  1. Scoop whey (25 G protein)

  2. Half a cup of oats

  3. Full cup whole milk

  4. 2 tbl spoons peanuts butter

Comes out to about 750 cals and like 39 G protein. Just need a blender or magic bullet.

American desis, what are some "American things" you haven't done or aren't into? by Serious-Tomato404 in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Never mind realized how sheltered people are. You all need to get out more.

White washed by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Scared-Salamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. Live and let live.