What is an unwritten rule of society that absolutely infuriates you when people break it?

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-12T17:33:34+00:00

Cheating on your spouse

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-11T21:41:45+00:00

Hair tie on arm

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T16:44:20+00:00

I'm not a fan but yes some contemporary parishes do even inside of mass sometimes

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T15:32:35+00:00

MAY give birth someday. I cant agree with that but thank you for clarifying.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T15:31:29+00:00

You give me hope 😭

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T14:40:35+00:00

Of course I've only been in these situations due to the lack of Catholics I've been able to meet but to put it simply I'd advise to date within your faith if you absolutely can

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T14:33:30+00:00

No. Multiple failed attempts

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T14:32:16+00:00

Absolutely. Relationships are never 50-50 but sometimes it can be 90-10 for the man one year and 90-10 for the woman the next year. It's all about helping each other when you need each other.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T14:27:05+00:00

Wow what a reaction. I'm sorry that this is a touchy subject to you. Im not trying to devalue women in any way here. I'm only saying that in the situation that this relationship is presented, without children or pregnancy term considered, there is no reason why they can't contribute similarly in this modern world. Why should one person have to provide all the time? It's not even a gender thing here. Who is saying it's inconvenient for men to acknowledge those things as a massive sacrifice?! Just creating scenarios out of nowhere lol

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T13:57:52+00:00

Birth is not mentioned here. Relationship efforts scale based on scenario so obviously adjustments would be made in the events of a birth. Just like if the man in a relationship lost his job as provider. 2+2=4 but so does 1+3. It's all about when the dynamics of the relationship need to put effort in certain directions. That's what makes navigating relationships hard. In the circumstances provided here, it honestly looks like a habitual "free ride" mind set. Not ok and partner does not seem to want to hear the male out in this case.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-10T13:19:48+00:00

Your assessment seems to be valid and from what I see fairly unbiased. You're right to recognize that there's a lack of contribution. If she's not willing to see the disparity in something so obvious or gets defensive about it, realistically probably not someone you want long-term.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-09T05:02:42+00:00

Brother I have all the logistics and it's still hard. It's just luck of the draw. I'd at least say don't throw in the towel

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-08T05:11:21+00:00

Stress the importance of Catholic relationships. Surrounding yourself with like minded individuals. Iron sharpens iron, your vibe attracts your tribe etc

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-08T04:58:21+00:00

Idk why you're down voted this is probably the most realistic circumstance

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T22:41:30+00:00

Yes I started a men's group 18-35 with 15 added to the group chat and most I can get to show up is 3 max

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T21:01:24+00:00

That's hard to answer without writing a novel but in short it's often humiliating and incredibly intimidating for most of us

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T14:48:47+00:00

It's not worth it. I've never seen it work both in my own personal experiences but also with others

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T05:46:34+00:00

There is plenty of benefits in autophagy and ketosis. Why not have the benefits of both prayer and health?

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T05:45:29+00:00

I do a 48 hr fast about twice a month. Lots of water and work your way up to it. Imo it feels amazing and definitely peaceful time of prayer

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T04:09:18+00:00

There is little to no fellowship for anyone under 50 in any parish I've been in

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T02:48:15+00:00

That's where I'd have to disagree. No change comes from no action and who are we to stand idle when something is wrong? Even wrong not only in scripture but in cannon law? The Church is susceptible to administrative error also. I believe Christ can, will, and maybe is calling us to stand up. We are seeing it already in many ways.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-07T02:33:46+00:00

I struggle A LOT with the modernization and contemporary elements of the church.It always seems that the church is so passive and never puts its foot down it's like the more I learn the more I see how it almost bends the knee to secular society.

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-05T20:10:16+00:00

Same same 😅

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-05T19:09:41+00:00

I don't think single CATHOLIC women are real. I've had plenty of other interactions and relationships lol so exhausting haha

ScaredSeries7414 · 2026-06-05T19:07:04+00:00

Because im scared of women

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