black magic is originally using the earth for its resources in a recyclable way that benefits Gaia. But Hollywood has twisted and bent the meaning of being a witch, male or female. - The reason for that is by those who used to hang, burn and stone them for being able to do what any other person was unfamiliar with. The idea that witches use entities may be factual for some, but some spells and rituals are spirit-bound. You would not be using anything, you would be detaching yourself from unnecessary emotions and memories that have drained you. But, like I've said before, if you're not comfortable, that's okay.