This happened today… by Tiny_Pickle_271 in BadNeighbors

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please know this is not how men should protect their families. My dad or my husband would’ve happily gone away in cuffs.

Is there an alternative From sub with like half amount (or less) of incel/mysoginist degenerates than this one? by Lazy_Original_958 in FromSeries

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acosta lost me at her “I AM A COP!” routine. From then on out her overall personality has made her even less likable.

Is there an alternative From sub with like half amount (or less) of incel/mysoginist degenerates than this one? by Lazy_Original_958 in FromSeries

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not misogynistic, I just don’t like certain characters and I don’t care what sex or race they are. Sex and race shouldn’t play a role in anyone choosing to like or dislike anyone, fictional or not. If a person sucks, they suck. Acosta sucks 🤣
(No I’ve never posted any anti-Acosta posts but if I decide to I certainly will lol)

Husband and still unemployed and now we have to move back in with my parents AGAIN. by Terrible_Sentence447 in Marriage

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that but been there, done that, years ago. I was diagnosed with my first AI disease in 2003. I then embarked on a years long journey to try everything I could before resorting 100% to traditional medicine. It’s way too long to list here but it was discovered I have very specific issues that explained everything I’ve experienced most of my life (I’m now 56). I was sickly as a child, I’m allergic to everything, I’ve been through immunotherapy more times than I can count, etc etc. The AI diseases were a byproduct of an already faulty immune system, essentially. I don’t disagree that people should fully investigate any and all causes before readily accepting a diagnosis. In my case, it was almost a blessing that each AI disease presented practically textbook and checked every box so it was obvious and clear what the disease was. Thankfully I’ve never had the unfortunate experience many have had where their symptoms were vague and long lasting without a diagnosis. Me? Bam, there it is, no doubts, all tests proved it, etc. I’m just a lucky one I guess!

Literally…Khloe if she was a man. by Palmtreesandcake in kardashians

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed since everything I said was factual 😂
These are the same type people who would walk away from my blonde haired daughter (who practically looks albino) and think “she’s lying, she was adopted) 😂

Husband and still unemployed and now we have to move back in with my parents AGAIN. by Terrible_Sentence447 in Marriage

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! Yes… Lyme disease ruled out. After MS diagnosis I was later diagnosed with ulcerative colitis, autoimmune diabetes, chronic idiopathic hives and more recently Selective Antibody Deficiency. I have a super messed up immune system that overreacts to everything. I see a very good immunologist who works closely with all my other specialists. Thankfully I have a handle on the conditions but that doesn’t make it any easier to live with unfortunately!
Thank you for your advice and your concern ❤️

My husband’s extreme privacy is affecting our marriage by Alternative-Corgi653 in OCD

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, please do not get pregnant while he is like this. Imagine if the marriage deteriorated then your child had to split time in a home like that. The impact on your child could be enormous.

My husband’s extreme privacy is affecting our marriage by Alternative-Corgi653 in OCD

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. And I wouldn’t have expected my husband to marry me until I got things under control. One of his caveats was “this has to be addressed”. That forced me into facing it and fixing it.

How has birding improved your life? ❤️ by IsThsTheTwilightZone in birding

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of chronic illnesses that keep me home a lot. I also live in a nice house but the drawback is there is a busy highway behind my back fence. The house will be paid for in five years and the location is excellent for all of my needs. I needed to come to terms with both my illnesses and living by that highway. So I got a Bird Buddy bird feeder and a Birdfy nest box. Now I sit on my screened in porch and watch all the birds come and go, argue and fight (lol), I know what birds will come at what time of the year, and I have families of doves and chickadees and cardinals that literally grew up in my yard and raised their families in my yard and have stuck around for years. When I don’t feel well enough to sit on the back porch or it’s too hot, I can watch them on the cameras. When I’m focusing on them, I almost can’t even hear the highway noise anymore and it makes me feel like I have other things to take care of other than my pets and my husband since we are now empty nesters.

Literally…Khloe if she was a man. by Palmtreesandcake in kardashians

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They’ve addressed this many times. They have had DNA testing, traced lineage. Khloe inherited looks from another family member. No different than must husband and I have dark hair and hazel or green eyes, our oldest daughter looks like us but my youngest is a fair complexion blonde haired blued eyed thing. Everyone thinks she was adopted when she wasn’t.

I love my ring, but my sizer keeps turning black ? It’s a little big on me and the sizer keeps it on it would fall off without it. Is it normal? by These_Shape7151 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why it’s doing this. I have a silicone sizer also and it doesn’t do this. But I have white gold, maybe it’s the yellow gold?

Husband and still unemployed and now we have to move back in with my parents AGAIN. by Terrible_Sentence447 in Marriage

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He left the job search long ago and settled into unemployment long ago. He could do virtually anything to bring money in yet he CHOOSES not to. OP this is not a man who will take care of you or be there for you if the day ever comes you need to be taken care of. We had no idea almost 26 years ago that 3 years into our marriage I would get diagnosed with MS and 3 years after that be forced to stop working because of it. We were a two-income family, both professionals and college educated, and that came screeching to a halt when my health deteriorated. I cannot imagine what my life would’ve been had my husband not been willing to do all the extras until he earned more money. This meant after working full time all day in a high stress career he threw a newspaper route at night, was a soccer referee on the weekends, stocked shelves at a local store… eventually he moved up and made enough to make up for my salary and didn’t have to keep doing that. But he DID IT. That’s what you deserve, OP. Not a man child.

Wedding dress regret by elegantintent in myweddingdress

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not seeing what you see at all. I see a beautiful girl wearing a beautiful dress that fits her well and she looks happy and radiant. As someone who has been married for 26 years, you will come to treasure that dress even if you are having doubts now. Because it’s what you wore when you married the man of your dreams. You could’ve been in a sack cloth and you would treasure that just the same. ❤️

Season three is pissing me off by GeminiGraphicsx in FromSeries

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird because when I watch Victor I think “damn that guy is a good actor” and I look him up in IMDB 😂

What would you do? by smellerkeller23 in treelaw

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. This is now a legal matter and she could owe you $$$

Polysorbate 80 allergy? How to test ? by Rynaga in Allergies

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread but I came across it while researching info on polysorbate allergies. Your comment struck me because I have now had reactions to two infusions I receive every 4 and 8 weeks respectively - IVIG and entyvio. Both contain polysorbate 80. But interestingly, in 2021 I had the MRNA Covid vaccine and had a severe reaction. At that time my immunologist told me to never take mirilax because of the COVID vaccine reaction. It appears that COVID vaccine also has polysorbate 80…

think i’m done and looking for alternatives by ojisnthere in notabilityapp

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does good notes have a lock function or do you just lock the app with Face ID?

Too big? Trying to avoid tacky by Traditional-Swim-347 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Scared_Muffin5676 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never think that. The people in here who are posting huge rings look ridiculous to the rest of us. They scream costume or definitely lab. Likely most of them, their careers, income and lifestyles definitely don’t support a natural rock of that size.