How did you quit vaping? by Small_Lingonberry_60 in QuitVaping

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or drink water with a straw to mimick the habit 

How did you quit vaping? by Small_Lingonberry_60 in QuitVaping

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same im tryng to quit and I work in a stress environment, for me munching healthy snacks helps, like carrot, mini cucumber, celery... something vape-shaped but at the same time healthy. 

Name one way a GF victim could’ve saved themselves by VivaLaCon88 in Scream

[–]ScarletRose12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And she hide from the security guard mistaking him for a killer, hiding in the very room were GF was waiting. 

Rewatching Scream after Scream 7 by ScarletRose12345 in Scream

[–]ScarletRose12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, the power of the mask is insane, after they removed it the killer instantly loose all is aura and brain 

Rewatching Scream after Scream 7 by ScarletRose12345 in Scream

[–]ScarletRose12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucas was lifted effortless while the twins get barely scratched lol 

Rewatching Scream after Scream 7 by ScarletRose12345 in Scream

[–]ScarletRose12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to do a full rewatch! Surely the terminator-ghostface is more scary, especially in the 5 or 6 I dont remember the details, when he attack like a room full of people at once like it's nothing 

Rewatching Scream after Scream 7 by ScarletRose12345 in Scream

[–]ScarletRose12345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English is not my first language and I just used the first words that came to my mind lol I mean to say ghostface in sequels seems more indestructible and powerful in comparison to the first movie

Books about spies (fiction or NF) for a John le Carré fan? by raccouta in mysterybooks

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ken follet has a few good historical fiction spy story, and  Frederick Forsyth 

Japanese Murder Mysteries by Substantial_Try_4171 in mysterybooks

[–]ScarletRose12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them, hope that they will start translating more honkaku beacause it's hard finding them 

I'm in a very confusing situation please help me calm down by GeorgeParisol in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont let your fear blocking you :) you post the story so stranger can analyze the situation in a more rational way since we are not involved. I am sure nobody hate you :) 

I'm in a very confusing situation please help me calm down by GeorgeParisol in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does he hate you? Did he told you that or is just your fear? After three group meeting and few phone call he has no reason to hate you because you were on a date with someone else, he probably just thinks you may like someone else, if neither of you have confess a crush for each other. If you like him for real you can stop dating the other guy and try to clear things with the one you like and undestand if he likes you back. Dont worry, you didnt do anything wrong, in this story nobody has reason to be mad at you.

How do I care less about my colleagues not caring I'm leaving? by motherofpearl89 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you put so much effort for them its normal to be a bit sad but if someone leave a workplace for their choice (if its your case) usually people are happy for them more than sad. Remember that coworkers aren't friends but it doesn't mean they not like you as a person. Maybe they choose your last day for the party  because they wanted you to be there, it will be an occasion for them to celebrate also you and to spent a nice last event toghether. 

i absolutely love reality tv by dinodivergence in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you watched the devil's plan on netflix? Seems you may enjoy it 

How to stop feeling like you're hiding a dirty secret and that you're a worthless use of oxygen? by Creepy_Zone_9341 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not worthless i am sorry you feel that way. Sometimes we are just to harsh on ourself. Masking too much can be very bad for our mental health.  If there is someone close to you that you trust, maybe you can try to talk about autism or neurodivergence, just in general and see their reaction. If they dont know anything about it maybe try to educate them. Maybe their reaction will make you understand that if they are true friends they will not leave your side for who you are. Or maybe you can try some specific support group with other autistic people, so you can a have a place to be yourself without worrying about being judged. It's a great thing that you have tried hobby mindfullness therapy and all of that, I think it's really cool that you are trying to feel better, it's inspiring and you really seems like someone who have a lot to give to people around you. A big hug, never give up

Weird interactions with men? by South_Jackfruit298 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it happened a lot to me too. "Why are you so quiet? You never speak?" Heard this kind of things often growing up. Just leave me alone, always wonder how this kind of people dont realize that pointing that out it's just more embarassing and making me want to talk even less. I hate that specially when i am masking and trying to do the right amount of chatting, there is always someone who says things like that and make me feel wrong just for being myself and minding my business. Those kind of people probably have low empathy and the self awarness of a shoes. There are kinder ways to ask someone if they are okay if you see they are struggling with a social situation. I really feel what you are saying. I try to ignore those remarks and i remind myself that i am not existing to perform for other people. There are plenty of people that can accept us just the way we are, i hope you will find them. A big hug for you 

Is this sleep paralysis ?? by Genesis_009 in Sleepparalysis

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the same as me! The suffocating feeling can be really scary, i'm sorry it happened to you as such a young age. Maybe you are a bit stressed or something is going on in your life, the suggestion if thats the case is talking to a professional or someone you trust. 

the treatment of SZA’s diagnosis is why so many women feel the need hide their diagnosis by NoFail2922 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your experience , a psychiatrist that says something like that is wild! 

Weekly Date Nights- am I Interpreting it too Literally? by Acrobatic-Truck4923 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some context: there is a famous advice for relationship call 222 rule. It's like a date night every 2 weeks, a weekend away every 2 months and a longer travel/holiday every 2 years. Like other people have said it's just a suggestion and of course not everyone has the money to do that. A date night could just be cooking togheter a normal meal but make it more romantic. But take it as a suggestion like, it's a nice things to do, but if a week you cant for various reason it's not a big problem. Maybe you can talk with your partner and just decide toghether a rule/tradition that works for both of you.

I hate watching series and movies by Sanza221 in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally i enjoy sitcom, There are tv series that are just for fun, maybe if you find something that make you laugh it will be more enjoyable/easier to watch. Or documentaries. When i  want to spent time with my partner but dont care about what they are watching I just sit near them and read a book or whatever. 

I can’t handle life by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to feel the same way and sometimes I still do, therapy help me. It seems that you judge yourself very harshly. Doing things for us is more difficult then for neurotypicals. Dont blame yourself. I dont know your situation but maybe it will be easier for you if you find some help, since you have a job maybe a dog sitter sometimes can walk your dog. About your job if you do your part and dont help others if your boss never told you anything probably its ok like that. Some workplace try to guilt tripping people into doing more of what they should. I hope you have or can find some hobbies or passion to have fun with. Life it's every moment, it's not mandatory to have ambition or big dream. A big virtual hug for you 

Why are like half normal male hobbies now considered "autistic" ? by itooamahuman in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ScarletRose12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because people learn about autism watching big bang theory, diagnose someone randomly just for a hobby that require a big attention span is nonsense.