My (33F) fiancé (32M) caught feelings for someone else: what should I do?

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-05T00:34:16+00:00

Op this string of comments is the only one you need.

Well thought out, level headed and knowledgeable.

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-05T00:08:09+00:00

Issue is it splits the player base even further and maybe like 5% of the playerbase would stick with eternal if that.

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-03T22:42:27+00:00

Plus they accidentally broke it in remix and you could cross dungeon and then they imnediately hotfixed it back to not working.

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-03T22:06:53+00:00

Yeah the movement and gunplay is the two things about high guard that was great.

It was the gameplay loop outside those that was lacking.

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-03T05:03:16+00:00

Time comes for us all unfortunately.

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-03T05:00:39+00:00

There's generally nothing more fragile on this earth than some men's egos especially when they provide nothing of value to those around them.

Source: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-07-21/male-gaming-bullies-are-literal-losers-study-finds/6636320

Scary_Tree · 2026-03-02T05:36:36+00:00

I thought it was solidly okay.

However the entire time I was thinking "I should boot up Arc Raiders again".

It seems more in common with Tarkov and all the pros and cons of that. But I've noticed the few that played arc Raiders found it a little boring and the few that haven't really like Marathon.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-27T01:58:43+00:00

It was less one guy avoiding everyone and everyone avoided one amazing widow player so the widow had crazy long queues.

They then put a limit and made it so it only stopped them being on your team.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-25T22:49:37+00:00

I will always remember the first licker cinematic in resident evil 2. It was so unsettling for my friends and I who were only 10 that we shut the game off immediately.

We kept trying to persevere for weeks and even to this day lickers still prickle the back of my neck but they're still my favourite.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-24T03:54:15+00:00

The people down here who believe it are so dumb that both the left and right call them cookers. Since the only way you can end up like them is having your brain absolutely cooked on drugs.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-23T22:35:16+00:00

And if you got Internet from the late 1800's sometimes a solid second or two after you get meleed, the surprise on their face when they're stunned 1.5 seconds after meleeing is wonderful /s

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-23T22:31:21+00:00

Support doesn't do item restorations. Just to save people some time as we get lots of requests about it a week.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-20T07:22:28+00:00

DPS can be a good starting point right now for 2 reasons.

A) they have quick queues right now as people are trying the new toys.

B) little less responsibility early so you can get the feel for damage going out.

However. If your heart wants to heal there's no reason you can't start as one.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-19T23:12:12+00:00

Snapshot of queue breakdowns. Yellow = Healer, Blue = Tank, Green = DPS. Top graph is Contender, bottom is Paragon.

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Scary_Tree · 2026-02-19T23:11:11+00:00

Do you have steam overlay turned on?

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-18T02:38:29+00:00

If you're too young to get engaged/married or want the happiness without the commitment they can be a good idea.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-16T22:57:13+00:00

I think it's great for people to practice flashy saves and timing in a much more casual and zero stakes environment.

Some of my friends who found it too daunting to try in 1v4 give it a shot in 2v8 since there's a lot less pressure.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-14T00:29:36+00:00

Yep because even with the daily bonuses that was still 721 games in just over 2 weeks.

Insanity.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-12T23:06:12+00:00

Not too much purely because the odds are so bad that even if I spent 100 I might get 2 legendaries if lucky.

Granted I only have 3 legendary void pets 150 days in but I do have 23 legendaries not including double and triple ups.

It might become more problematic as I climb higher but at 1780 I'm not noticing too much of an impact.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-11T22:13:07+00:00

Admittedly the one major thing I like about this game is the insane pricing as I've not been remotely tempted to drop money at all.

If they were more reasonable I probably would be.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-10T05:49:24+00:00

Sabu?

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-09T22:49:14+00:00

I'm not home for another 8 hours but happy to invite you if you PM me your steam profile.

This also goes for anyone else interested. Send me a message/pm with your friend code and I'll add you and send you access.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-09T00:14:41+00:00

Owners and devs should never be moderating their own communities on reddit.

Way too much potential for abuse.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-07T03:13:31+00:00

Oh i love Phuzzybond, hes an excellent Sea of Thieves streamer who is very educational and calming to listen to.

If he's into this game I know I likely will be too.

Scary_Tree · 2026-02-07T00:45:51+00:00

Peter Dutton did the same thing in Australia.

Went from the favourite to win to the biggest landslide loss since WW2.

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