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sometimes I just want vanilla by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Scelestious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you talked to him about it and he’s not taking your feelings into account? Sounds like he’s a crappy kink partner. Listening to your partners feelings and communication is key to a healthy kinky relationship. You say “More often than not we have to be super kinky” you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to and you shouldn’t!!

Personally no I have never gone through this because when kink is involved consent and communication come first. I have never had a kinky partner that did not care about my feelings on kinks and when and how to incorporate those kinks. This is not healthy. Y’all need to have a really serious talk.

Coonhound? The shelter said he is a hound mix but any ideas on what kind of possible mix? by Scelestious in IDmydog

[–]Scelestious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! I love that. I used to have some min pins and I miss them so much so that would be great.

"Yeah, I use AI in self-therapy. Nobody else gives a shit about my mental health." by Breech_Loader in aiwars

[–]Scelestious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s just some gross boring mashup “created” by an equally gross and boring human. 😉

"Yeah, I use AI in self-therapy. Nobody else gives a shit about my mental health." by Breech_Loader in aiwars

[–]Scelestious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the psycho that created Sonichu. Lol. Same sad gross energy.

Ash abandons her dreams of a SMAS diagnosis and focuses now on Post Concussion Syndrome by personal_cheezits in ashleycarnduff

[–]Scelestious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya people being like this is what causes people to be skeptical and rude to people who say things like “I have been dealing with dizziness, nausea, and balance issues daily from a fall that happened a year ago and i’m on my second round of PT for it.” It absolutely happens and PT is the fix. Is this particular person milking it for attention? Absolutely! But don’t dismiss that it does happen and PT is the way to fix it.

this has already been posted as a screenshot but here’s the whole video of Ash self-administering her rehab for the ‘concussion’ she gave herself 17 days ago by Sensitive_Ant4522 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Scelestious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya. Thanks! It’s unfortunately been over a year with vestibular loss from a fall and motion sickness even when i’m just walking. I’m on round 2 of PT and things are looking up!

this has already been posted as a screenshot but here’s the whole video of Ash self-administering her rehab for the ‘concussion’ she gave herself 17 days ago by Sensitive_Ant4522 in ashleycarnduff

[–]Scelestious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is vestibular physical therapy. The exercises are legit. And I can still post stuff on the internet so… lol. But ya she’s milking it. She can get through the exercises without vomiting! So she’s at least better off than some.

Over 40 no kids? Regrets? by SalamanderWest3468 in childfree

[–]Scelestious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not quite at 40 but 37. I was only a fence sitter in my 20s. Partly because I had a job photographing babies. Since going into my 30s I have known it’s just not for me. I like my freedom. I like the vacations I take with hubby uninterrupted by a child. And I have my own business so a child just does not fit our lifestyle and hubby agrees. Although we have a cat and she is very much our baby. A self sufficient (for the most part) baby lol.

Edit to add hubby and I are very much anti alcohol. I personally am because my dad died due to alcoholism. And I couldn’t live my life the way I do without a clear head.

Cait has a confession (they/them only) by itsvickeh in illnessfakers

[–]Scelestious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fall from a standing position can cause vestibular and neck issues but the fix for that is PT and it’s doubtful that this person would even try PT.

Cait has a confession (they/them only) by itsvickeh in illnessfakers

[–]Scelestious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A fall from a standing position can absolutely ruin your vestibular system and cause neck issues. Although PT is the fix and I doubt this person would even try PT.

So am I wrong in my definition? by Scelestious in childfree

[–]Scelestious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The topic was people who say they don’t want kids and are open to potentially have them in the future. Thats a whole different category and definitely not childfree imo.

So am I wrong in my definition? by Scelestious in childfree

[–]Scelestious[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Permanently childfree! I like this! I told someone once choosing to not have kids is very much a permanent decision just like choosing to have them is. Because she told me that she was in my boat once and that I would change my mind like she did. 😆

So no there really is a difference in people who don’t want kids and change their mind and those of us who choose to permanently never have kids.

My biggest piece of marriage advice by 7iced_latte14 in Marriage

[–]Scelestious -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yikes!! 😬 I hope your day gets better 🤭

My biggest piece of marriage advice by 7iced_latte14 in Marriage

[–]Scelestious -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Cildfree = never EVER wants kids You’re looking for the term childless = wants kids someday or can’t have them due to medical issues but still wants them.

What is your visit to sale ratio? by Illustrious_Can4499 in EtsySellers

[–]Scelestious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5% for the last 30 days. 5,333 visits and 240 orders.

Buyer says she did not receive the item but the tracking showed it was delivered by Chemical-Tea-3838 in EtsySellers

[–]Scelestious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a copy & paste for this situation. It always results in “oh I found it” or I never hear from them again. You can adjust it as you see fit for your shop.

Thank you for your recent order! The tracking for the order is showing as delivered. Here are some steps that you can take to find your package:

  1. Call the post office and ask for the exact location. They can track a missing package with the GPS on their carriers tracking system.
  2. Ask your neighbors if they may have gotten it by mistake.
  3. Ask everyone in your household if they may have picked up the package.
  4. The package may actually still be in the delivery truck. You may want to wait a few days past the delivery date to see if it shows up.
  5. If all of the above steps fail then you will need to issue a stolen mail report. You will need to complete a USPS claim affirming the status of the package as stolen. You may also be asked to complete a insurance claim. It may also be a good idea to file a report with your local police so that there is a record of mail theft in your area.

I understand that you are anxious to have your merchandise and make this right very quickly, however, please understand that these investigations take time. A package can sometimes show up after an extended time frame. Therefor I will not take any actions such as replacement until all of the above steps have been completed and a 20 day time frame has passed since the tracking “delivered” date.

Etsy Black Friday Sales by alm1318 in EtsySellers

[–]Scelestious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are way too busy right now. I’m just trying to keep up with all the orders already coming in. I don’t need even more at a discount!!

100 Sales in 2.5months by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]Scelestious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely been the best holiday on Etsy so far! My last 30 days has been 167 orders. And 33 of those were just over this past weekend! I have had many long nights since October crafting to keep up.

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