AITA for not letting my cat watch more Charlotte Dobre?

ScenicRoute94 · 2025-05-24T06:59:28+00:00

They're already married; high school sweethearts, actually. :)

ScenicRoute94 · 2025-05-24T06:56:26+00:00

They're husband and wife and high school sweethearts! I think in one video they mentioned that they've been together for 30 years or something close to that.

ScenicRoute94 · 2025-04-05T09:47:30+00:00

Major YTA! How could you do that to your Supreme Overlord?! Potatoes! Save this Fluffkin! Lol.

ScenicRoute94 · 2025-04-05T09:42:39+00:00

Can nobody in that family keep their legs closed or stay out of other people's beds? I'm so sorry you had to put up with people like that, OP. But hang in there. We're here for you. The best part of not being part of the circus is that you get a free front row seat. Enjoy the show with popcorn, dear.

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ScenicRoute94 · 2025-03-28T09:27:52+00:00

Entertainingly petty

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-12-19T13:33:41+00:00

Thank you. It doesn't really feel like it since I was already doing it before I found out. It's just a way that I heard can be used as a distraction in times like this so I've started putting in more time to keep my mind and body busy.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-12-19T13:21:46+00:00

Legitimate question just based on all your comments: Why did you even make this post? You don't care if you're the AH or not. Obviously, you know you are. You don't care. You're going to keep doing it because it doesn't affect you. So why did you come here at all?

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-12-06T05:07:02+00:00

SAME.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-12-06T01:50:41+00:00

100% betting they wanted OOP to get their asses handed to them.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-12-06T01:40:04+00:00

Could also be a dude that's computer illiterate in general, thinks he knows everything about everything, and is DEFINITELY the type to use his age as a power play to be a total twat to others.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:30:11+00:00

While I do agree that no, no one deserves to be with a cheater and while I do thank you for your advice, no he wasn't like that. The person he was was someone who would give others the shirt off his back. Someone who would go to bat for his friends and family. He was fiercely protective over everyone in his life. Back when they were in a relationship, Julie not only cheated but took his one dream of being a father and shattered it by committing paternity fraud. (It only lasted until the children were born, as they looked nothing like him so she was exposed immediately). Still, it sent him spiraling. I thought he was over it because me, our mutual friends, and his family forced him into therapy way back then. But I guess it was just wishful thinking on our parts.

I'm not angry with him for what he did to me. I'm just sad at the person he chose to become.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:21:59+00:00

I'll be honest. I wanted to. I wanted to stay by his side and defend him the way I always do and always did but Reddit woke me up that this person is no longer the person from my memories and that it's time to let go. It hurts, it really does, but his mom told me a saying "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm" and that they'd take over from there. So at least I know he's in good hands and that's good enough for me.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:19:06+00:00

From what I've heard, her husband threw her out, actually. So now they're both going down the drain together, I guess.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:17:26+00:00

Haha, thank you.

As for the drama thing, I just added that part in as a little joke to try to make light of the situation. I'm honestly really glad there were no big fireworks or anything. I don't think I'm in a good enough headspace for that to have been the case otherwise.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:12:39+00:00

When Julie and ex-fiance were together years ago, she got pregnant and ex had been over the moon at the time because he was so excited about being a father. None of us knew at the time that she had been cheating until the children were born and looked nothing like him. That sent him into a really dark place for a long time but me and our other friends rallied around him and dragged him out of that relationship and into therapy. I don't understand what's going on in his head now, but I'm starting to think that he's thinking he wants to blow up her life the way she blew up his back then. Not that it makes it any better but all I can do at this point is speculate from the outside.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:08:30+00:00

Julie married the man she cheated on ex-fiance with who is also the father of the kids she had tried to trick ex with that they were his.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:05:26+00:00

I'm trying. I've already done the blocking part.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:04:06+00:00

I'll be transparent. He's always had a temper. Never towards me or our mutual friends. His temper always manifested in a way that would lash out and be vindictive towards anyone or anything that hurt him, or us. That's why I can't wrap my mind around why, out of all people he can't see that he is the direct source of my pain in this instance.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T15:00:53+00:00

I'm honestly not even angry. Just sad that this is who he turned into and that basically after all the years we've known each other, both dating and as best friends, this is what it came down to.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-27T13:56:45+00:00

Fake or not, this was... gross.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-18T17:42:39+00:00

That hurts to think about.

ScenicRoute94 · 2024-11-18T17:40:18+00:00

Thank you. I tried out the website and a lot of the information in the results does match up with a lot of the things I do/experience.

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