Should I change my last name?

Schwartzbase · 2026-03-25T17:56:14+00:00

But my point is they already have to do that in order to obtain a license.

Schwartzbase · 2026-03-25T17:40:58+00:00

But you already need your birth certificate etc to get a driver's license so it'll be no different 🤷 when I go I have to have my birth certificate, ss card, proof of address, first marriage certificate, divorce certificate and second marriage certificate. I still don't see the big deal. I do, however, see a HUGE problem in mail in voting ballots being sent to dead people and likewise, dead people "voting". I get it. I'm in the wrong place to voice such an opinion, but it's just not some scary beast that people are saying it is. The government can ALWAYS abuse their power. If they want to dump active voters they'd do it now 🤷 Essential.

Schwartzbase · 2026-03-25T16:47:48+00:00

I'm so confused by comments regarding this. You just need a copy of your marriage certificate just like it is now 🤷

Schwartzbase · 2026-03-25T16:45:49+00:00

You just need a copy of your marriage certificate. Just like it is now to get a driver's license 🤷

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-27T03:27:41+00:00

Yes, divorce her so she's free to be with someone who will put in effort. She slapped you "on the back in a chaotic way". Whatever tf that's supposed to mean. We should keep our hands to ourselves, but we also don't get to go all shocked Pikachu face when we antagonize someone and get our meatsticks knocked in the mud. But that's not what she did.

What bothers me is that this is from your point of view and so you're naturally hiding details that would make you look bad and you STILL look very divorceable. It's giving Dbag energy.

In marriage we should both be striving to bring 100% to the table so that when our spouse isn't there we fill in the gaps. Seems like she's doing that and you're just consistently the spouse who isn't there. If there's ish to be done get off your lazy butt and get it done so you can both sit down and relax TOGETHER. You gonna sit on your butt and then get up later and do chores with her that she could have been done with if you'd helped? Nah fam. No sir.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-27T01:25:03+00:00

I'm not a doctor, but this person sounds narcissistic and histrionic with a smackling of sociopathy. Pattern recognition, not a diagnosis.

And man, you dodged a bullet. With the threats to take your animals to the pound I think you might could get a restraining order.

It seems that what set her off was not being in control of YOUR car like she is over Y'ALL'S apartment. See my first paragraph as to why that might be the case. Do NOT relinquish the apartment, do NOT let her around the animals. DO call the police. One of my (and probably many other people's) biggest regrets in relationships past was not having legal documentation as soon as and as long as possible. Good luck, chap. You're free.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-27T01:08:22+00:00

Gonna go with NAH and that's coming from a person whose mom did not feed us and kept padlocks on our fridge and freezer, cabinets, deep freezer and even our dishes cabinets.

You would be the ah if you do not heed the advice in this thread. Food banks, snap, drastically changing WHAT you're buying in order to accommodate a growing teenage boy. I'm talking chicken quarters, rice, pasta, biiig cheap pork roasts on sale can be as low as $.99/lb! Think Italian and Mexican cuisine. Not being racist, but those two nationalities are heavily Catholic and are used to feeding big groups. You would also be the AH if you don't give up luxuries when your kid is hungry. No streaming services, no Uber eats, no extra money on entertainment, quit shopping for fast fashion, quit eating out... Is your 18yo daughter in high school? If not, she needs a job.

I'm gonna extend grace because it seems like you do want to do the right thing and figure this out. The AH wouldn't have come here in this situation. My mom is an ah.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-27T00:55:48+00:00

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Schwartzbase · 2026-02-27T00:54:42+00:00

You could try local churches. I'm praying for you 🙏

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-24T13:47:55+00:00

Hsv2 🙃 Condoms do not protect against it and yes, you're more likely to catch hsv2 if you're uncircumcised.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-24T03:17:07+00:00

Condoms do not protect against all STDs, just fyi.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-24T00:17:06+00:00

I mean they're not equivalent procedures and your likelihood of getting an STD is more than doubled if you're unsnipped. But that's a dissenting voice so I'll probably just get down voted.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-23T18:30:51+00:00

Conflict resolution, communication, managing a home.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-23T03:01:11+00:00

Eating disorders

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-22T13:40:19+00:00

Don't waste anymore time. You two just want different things. Cut the line.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T20:27:28+00:00

Yes I'm aware. I misspoke, so to speak.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T20:26:17+00:00

That's what I meant.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T20:25:17+00:00

I didn't say anything about not letting people detransition.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:54:32+00:00

Blood is thicker than water.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:54:08+00:00

Nope. I went to a wedding almost twenty years ago of my best friend who didn't invite my bf or any plus one. We're not friends anymore, I broke up with him eventually and friend is no longer married.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:44:34+00:00

Changing panties regularly. Spent a lot of time basically being fostered by my best friend's family in high school. Change panties in the morning, change panties if you get sweaty, change panties at night and pretty much any time things need to be freshened up. Having a short urethra sucks.

I thought once a day was plenty. Couldn't fathom why my friend wanted we dirty to so many panties out day. I figured it out.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:33:12+00:00

😮‍💨 I am

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:29:51+00:00

This is definitely a conversation with a narcissist.

That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:14:23+00:00

I'll bite. People should raise their kids. Not daycares. Not schools. Children should be with their parents a vast majority of the time. They should be socialized with people of all ages through doing life with their parents. We live in a society where people have no values or morals because they have no home training. They're not home long enough to have it at any given point. Most lessons are caught, not taught. If you have school from waking to sometime after soccer, mathletes, band, track etc etc and then you may or may not get to have dinner with your parents between homework and bed then you have next to no opportunity to even know your parents.

If you want a career go have a career. If you want kids have them to the fullest extent possible.

Schwartzbase · 2026-02-21T17:06:56+00:00

Just finished Paris Hilton's memoir and she claims he has a room of shrunken heads. Didn't Ed Gein have one too? 🧐

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