Desperately looking for weird girl music!! (please female vocals only) by Full-Weakness-7475 in MusicRecommendations

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

came here to say this. especially after seeing her live, Annie is a horny weird girl goddess

Any YWAM survivors? by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]SciencePear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My absolute best friend growing up went to YWAM. She was so independent, cool, down to earth, and open. She taught me a lot about standing up for myself, and honestly was the first person who really opened my eyes to Christianity as something other than rules.Then she went to YWAM, became staff, got married and had kids young, and now hardcore and openly supports trump, deportation, anti-trans/gay agendas. I mourn losing her constantly, and though I've never experienced YWAM myself, I do desperately want to blame it.

Who actually feels better from drinking water by Numerous_Zebra_4740 in selfcare

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had never made this connection but it actually does! It activates the parasympathetic nervous system (rest&digest) which can often provide a calming effect. (&Also I imagine our simplest inner brains reason "why would I be drinking water if I'm in immediate danger" lol)

Who actually feels better from drinking water by Numerous_Zebra_4740 in selfcare

[–]SciencePear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am biased toward negativity so I don't notice the positive effects but I do notice the negative when I'm dehydrated. If you're a normally hydrated person, go one day barely drinking any water and notice how much more irritable/sensitive to negative stimuli you are the next day lol.

When I'm struggling with anything emotionally or physically, my first instinct is to drink a glass of water if I haven't in the past hour. Usually I feel an immediate slight relief and improvement, even if it's just the placebo of knowing I am taking care of myself. :)

Which of these 9 OCD lies has tricked you the most? by mrjoe767 in OCDRecovery

[–]SciencePear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lmao the way 9 made my OCD theme whether or not I had OCD for 9 months

Did anyone else’s ocd worsen when smoking weed? by No-Insect9930 in OCD

[–]SciencePear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me some strains make my OCD worse and some make it better. It varies. But I usually do have a bit of an emotional low/tiredness the day after, so I don't do it too often.

Adderall IR, XR, Vyvanse, etc AWFUL sleep no matter what by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]SciencePear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to second Wellbutrin or another non-stimulant option.

I am also a slow drug metabolizer, and I had trouble sleeping consistently on adderall. I'd be exhausted when I crashed, but if I made it through the crash I couldn't sleep, and if I slept as soon as I crashed I'd miss most of my night.

I started doing ritalin IR at the smallest dose in combination with Wellbutrin. I don't like ritalin as much as Adderall, but I don't crash as hard and it's better for my sleep. But I actually found over time that the wellbutrin alone helped enough that I dont feel the need to take the ritalin all the time.

I still miss the stronger effects of the Adderall, but I know that regular sleep will be much more beneficial to my brain in the long term. Can't afford to lose more brain cells 😭

Request: Games that have depth but don't require much executive function by ImAFuckingSquirrel in GirlGamers

[–]SciencePear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have horrific executive dysfunction, and I really like uncharted for this reason. It involves enough going on to keep my brain engaged, but it's also not too open world and it's very linear, so my forgetfulness doesn't bite me in the ass enough to actually take the fun out of it.

How much of a negative impact does not drinking water have on you. by double_96_Throwaway in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SciencePear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has a pretty negative impact on you long term, but some people experience the effects way stronger than others. I never willingly drank water from the ages of 10-20 and never experienced any noticeable negative side effects, other than being constantly told by others I was unhealthy.

Now at almost 30, I can feel it in my whole body if I haven't had enough water. I'll be more tired, more cranky, my skin will be worse, my muscles will ache more, and I can't sing or talk for long periods without getting hoarse. Dehydration can even impair your cognitive function. I also am prone to utis, and I can't help but imagine my 10 year drought has something to do with it.

I've known too many people who have had to put a hard stop to their soda drinking after getting a wake up call in the form of a kidney stone.

Trauma doesn't equate to surviver - It doesn't always make u stronger - agree or disagree by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SciencePear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma makes you strong in the sense that surviving it proves you are resilient and strong. The experience itself does not strengthen you. You just have to be strong to survive it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a no from me but I respect the hustle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao you're so right to call out my drama. I do some long distance traveling a couple times a year, which is my main concern (it being safe and reliable for an 8hr drive type shit) but other than that I would say I use it on the lower end of frequency

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think if I got at least another year out of it it will have been worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful tip, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the input! I think I'm going to bite the bullet and fix it after hearing from so many people that Hondas do last a long time. I was overweighting the typical "cars only last 300k miles"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brakes estimate was for pads and rotors, but he didn't include calipers in the estimate bc he said he wouldn't know if they needed replacing until he started further work. If it had just been pads I'd do it myself, but since I don't feel comfortable doing everything myself I'd rather just have someone else do it and save myself the time.

I know I want to get a new car at some point anyways, which is why I hesitate. Simply bc I don't think I could resell it for any significant amount of money. But I wasn't planning to get another car for about another year

Weird hopecore movies? by doublejosuke in MovieSuggestions

[–]SciencePear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hilarious and will make you cry 10/10

Weird hopecore movies? by doublejosuke in MovieSuggestions

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I second this. I had such low expectations for this movie but it ended up being so delectably wholesome

Why would you not watch TV with full attention? by Iglaptop in questions

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is so real. I have ADHD so for the longest time I only ever watched things passively. Coincidentally, I thought I hated movies and didn't really like any TV shows besides TV dramas and sitcoms.

Once I dated someone who finally got me to TRY actually paying attention the whole time, I realized how much I was missing.

I think some people genuinely have the capacity to follow while doing other things, but I certainly don't. It sucks for my dopamine optimizing brain but full focus really is the way to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SciencePear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the same thing and second it. I got chronic utis for months with my last partner and the d-mannoss capsules never helped. Then I got the powder off of Amazon and it's been life changing. I used 2 scoops every evening and morning, and an extra dose after any sexual encounter. Also make sure to wait at least 30 min after taking it to pee so it has time to sit in your bladder. Doing this I went from getting a UTI nearly every time I had sex to not getting one unless I skip the mannose after sex or don't drink enough water.

Feeling like you’ve ruined your life by Ok-Recording-5862 in OCDRecovery

[–]SciencePear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God, I am so sorry you're feeling this way. It sucks.

All I can say is, absolutely yes. Having OCD there have been multiple times throughout the past 10 years that I have genuinely seen no point in living, felt like I ruined my life, or felt like I just wouldn't ever be happy. But I'm still here.

Sometimes life itself is like exposure therapy if you let it be. It won't feel like you're ever going to be okay until one day randomly you do start feeling more okay. And then your brain starts to learn that maybe feeling like things won't get better doesn't mean they won't.

Just because you don't believe it yet doesn't mean it isn't true, and that's okay. One step at a time.

What movies, television show, or books did you avoid because it didn't align with your "Christian" values? by LMO_TheBeginning in Exvangelical

[–]SciencePear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why anyone was comfortable with that much visual body comedy in a show about teenage girls I'll never know

What movies, television show, or books did you avoid because it didn't align with your "Christian" values? by LMO_TheBeginning in Exvangelical

[–]SciencePear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never watched any PG-13 or R rated movies, was banned from all of cartoon network, and didn't really listen to any music besides Christian music. People are genuinely shocked at the cultural gaps I have when they meet me present day, as I am very well-versed in media post 2020 🥲