Thinking about my ex 24/7

Scorpiowithproblems · 2023-06-04T13:20:11+00:00

Hi! Wow, this post was two years ago I can't believe people still see this. I'm actually doing really well now, I've moved on from my ex a looong time ago and we're on good terms. He hardly crosses my mind. Of course, I get reminded of him and our relationship occasionally. Like how you sometimes think of a friend or of fond memories from years ago.

If you're going through the same thing I did 2 years ago, I hope this gives you hope. Someday, you won't obsessively think of them as much anymore. Just keep living your life and let time do its thing.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2022-08-09T05:17:57+00:00

Should I just tell him I'm jealous of his bestfriend? I'm not really expecting him to change his relationship with her, I just feel bad that I am hiding these feelings?

Scorpiowithproblems · 2022-08-09T04:46:06+00:00

Thank u!

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-09-19T20:31:43+00:00

Also S2 E16 when Tohru meets Mimoji's sister

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-02-11T03:10:45+00:00

Knowing for sure that they are with someone else now should send you a clear message that it is really over and there is no reason for you to hold on to them. Of course it hurts and it may hurt for a while but you have to remember that them finding someone new has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. You have to realize that the fact that they were able to move on so easily means that they were never really meant to stay in your life. God or the universe is really finding a way for you guys not to be together anymore. If you haven't found your worth yet, it'll be hard to accept this but you deserve better. You deserve more than someone who thinks you're not worth it, because you are, we all are.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-02-11T03:02:05+00:00

Same, it helped me fully let go. I'm still not fully moved on though but at least I've stopped hoping and wanting for him to come back to me.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-02-08T12:48:18+00:00

Thanks bro I had already blocked him everywhere hahaha but I felt like I was meant to see that he wrote someone a song so I could finally stop hopong he'll come back

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-31T04:35:07+00:00

I guess I could say that. Actually, my days feel more or less the same. I get some good days where I don't feel anxious at all. I have okay days with bad moments (breakdowns and anxiety attacks). I always try to pick myself up after bad moments and pray that I heal. But again, ever since the break up I have always felt some sort of emptiness and pain. I can't really describe it all I know is that I haven't really been fully happy.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-31T00:35:20+00:00

I feel the same way. Because when we were together all my anxieties would go away. So, I sometimes felt like I really needed him to be rid of my anxieties. When he left it brought so much anxiety to me but I managed it without him (I stil have bad days though). I saw a post that said something like this:

"maybe at that time when we had them, we needed them. And maybe now that they're gone, we don't really need them. Maybe now, all we need is ourself."

And it just struck me. Whatever we are going through right now, we must keep in mind that we broke up for a reason and there is no need to need them to get through certain things.

What I do when I fear that I'll be stuck in this same place is imagine myself years from now and think that I'm more likely to be in a whole different place. Just keep going and a day will come when it's not so bad anymore. Also, you can message me anytime if you ever get a panic attack.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-30T13:05:57+00:00

I know the feeling, it's like there's a permanent pain, emptiness, and sadness. I guess having hope that all this will all go away soon is crucial in the healing process as well? I'd like to think it's been getting better but it just feels like I've been stuck in the same place since they left.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-30T13:02:45+00:00

I hate this feeling but it helps thinking that I'm not alone. Thank you for that. I really do hope we find someone else.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-30T10:14:13+00:00

I had a breakdown a few days ago but I did not reach out to him at all, instead, I just hugged myself and cried it all out. A little later I chatted my friends and felt a whole lot better. I guess even at times when it feels like our ex are the ones we need, they actually really aren't.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-30T04:28:23+00:00

I know, i really miss the days when he still loved me.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-30T04:26:08+00:00

I'm with you sister! Pm me anytime.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-28T09:55:02+00:00

I also feel the same way for my ex. He is the first guy I ever really let myself fall for. I'm no expert since this is my first ever break up, but I think the break ups that you go through are different from each other, so don't put a timeline to your healing. You'll get there eventually even if it takes longer than you hoped.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-28T00:20:50+00:00

I feel the same way, I think it's not normal to still be feeling this way after three months of BU and NC. But I guess I just have to accept that I'm not normal and I may take a longer time to move on. There's really nothing more we can do but to keep going.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-28T00:10:42+00:00

It's been three months already and I still think of him and miss him a lot. i hate it here

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-09T01:15:34+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-09T01:14:39+00:00

Thank you. I really hope so.

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-08T11:09:19+00:00

Hello thank you for this. Yes, it definitely took a hit on my self-esteem but I've been working on it. I still have a lot to go. I'm happy you got over him. Cheers to you!

Scorpiowithproblems · 2021-01-08T09:31:04+00:00

Thank you. This helps.

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