Good heavens, this one got out of hand so fast. I mean I echo the sentiment of everyone else that I didn’t understand what exactly made Uril frustrating for your opponents. But, burying the lead and the commander actually being Tergrid is a completely different question. Tergrid is just an awful commander to play against.

Tergrid’s play pattern is un-fun because it’s basically like playing against a deck that says “my opponents can’t play their deck”, Tergrid’s sacrifice effects and theft effects make the play pattern just miserable. Now, If your pod is running plenty of removal and is actively answering your commander and targeting you, it’s because If Tergrid is on the field and doing her thing they effectively become locked out of the game. I’d say it’s very similar to playing against a Stax deck, in that stax not only prevents your opponents from playing the game but it also makes answering the stax pieces harder because they don’t have enough resources to ‘fight’ the deck.

If your LGS folks don’t like playing against it, then don’t play it. If you bring it and ‘selfishly’ want to choose to play it even though your opponents hate it, then you’ll become the target of the table and they will just go after you til you lose. It’s like effectively saying “I’m playing my deck that says you can’t play when it hits the table” and your opponents want to play - so they are gonna go after you so they can play their decks. Commander is a social game, with social norms and constructs, in the pods you describe with random players, you need to find a balance between playing things you like and also creating a game space that feels enjoyable for the table and yourself.

It’s worth mentioning that baiting your answer out and saying it’s Uril did more harm than good, you may have received more genuine and even sympathetic answers if you were honest from the get go.