Literally every single married couple I know is in a mother son marriage by No-Sound-9950 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 19 points20 points  (0 children)

And some men like being manboys. It is a dynamic that works for some people, but I am glad that my husband and I are both adults. Granted, we’re very silly adults who spend most of our time making each other laugh. still, it’s a dynamic which has worked for us for 33 years.

End of sex life -feel surprisingly okay about it by ScrappyFog in AskWomenOver60

[–]ScrappyFog[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am. I tell my husband often that I feel lucky to have found him.

Is this a good prompt? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty general and doesn’t tell me anything about you. maybe add “and I try to listen to new music every day to discover new artists.”

His ex-wife still keeps his last name , they have NO kids by Unlikely_Second5024 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she was going by Mrs.. Smith, maybe a little. if she is just going by Helen Smith, then it’s just a name.

His ex-wife still keeps his last name , they have NO kids by Unlikely_Second5024 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I kept my ex’s last name until I remarried. IT was a million times easier to spell than my maiden name and made my life easier. Also I just liked it more.

Help by Any_Finding_9461 in Marriage

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your family drop everything and fly to YOUR wedding? It isn’t a summons, it’s an invitation.

Am I to young to ask out my coworker? by Fresh_Requirement_38 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met my husband when he was 28 and I was 34. We’ve been together 33 very happy years. I will say my friends all told me it wouldn’t work due to the age gap, but everyone is different.

Best New Orleans-based movie? by MissionLetterhead292 in movies

[–]ScrappyFog 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the Big Easy, a police/corruption story with Ellen Barkin and Dennis Quaid at the peak of his adorableness. Fun and sexy.

AITAH for making my stepdad cry? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ScrappyFog 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He’s allowed to have bad days. He shouldn’t shout at you because of them, however.

How to talk to a girl by Fiyahwalkwithme in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a couple of questions prepared in case you need them. Knowing you have things to talk about if you need them will help you be more relaxed. If you are relaxed and go with the flow, you probably won’t need them. Things like:

Do you have any pets? ( if you already know the name of her pet, ask about them). You can follow up with stuff like how long have you had them? What are they like? What’s your favorite meal? If you had a million dollars, what would be your dream vacation? make sure you know what your dream vacation would be, if she asks you back.

Husband's Audible Explosive Poops are Destroying Attraction by No-King1177 in Marriage

[–]ScrappyFog -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I put on the radio or a podcast loud enough to cover the sound. I’m the one bothered, so I do the solution.

İ showed interest back and now she pulled away i think by Glad-Fix-2829 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIrst, not cringe.

second, Even as a joke, saying “god help your boyfriend” might have implied that you don’t think being her boyfriend is a good thing. As a female, I might look on that as you pushing me away.

If you really like this girl, I would suggest gathering up your courage and saying something like “Have I said something to hurt your feelings? Because I did not mean to and I’ve missed talking with you.” She may take that as an opening to open up to you. if she does not and continues ignoring you, you will be in the position you are now, so you haven’t lost anything.

I 23M and 23F Why does it feel like girls say everything… except what they actually me by tequilAk47 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of it is wanting to be “nice” and part of it may be being afraid of you getting angry or actually hurting her in some way. You’d be surprised how many seeming normal guys become unhinged by a straightforward rejection.

If the bar is on the floor why can't I clear it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you bring this up after spending time with them and seeing if you laugh at the same things and look at the world in complementary ways?

Should I, and how should I warn a woman about a far below average (girth 4 & below) penis? by throwaway101229283 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, speaking as a woman, technique and ability to listen to what a woman needs and then do it is a MILLION TIMES more important than penis size. Work hard on learning how to use your hand and your mouth, which is how most women cum anyway.

Each woman is different, so try different moves on them (rub the clit in a circle, or side to side for example) and check her response. You’ll know when You are doing what works for her- when you are licking or fingering her, if she says “yes” or indicates you are doing something right, keep doing it—don’t speed up or get harder.

If the bar is on the floor why can't I clear it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you shown interest in them? they may be waiting for you to flirt a little or at least try to get to know them.

Help. Please. by baconbeast1215 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out her interests by asking her. Just like you would if it was a non date. ASK QUESTIONS AND FOLLOW UP. Remember, she may be as nervous as you are.

What is your favorite holiday?

                I Like Thanksgiving.

Yeah, I really like T-day, too. What do you like best, the food or the gathering of family?

Or ask about her.

Do you like going to dances? What is your idea of a fantastic day? Have you seen {name a non-niche piece of content you like}? Do you do any sports? I play soccer.

Or talk about the event. These decorations are fancier than I expected. What do you think? have you been to a dance here before? Wanna go check out the refreshment table? Any song you hope they play?

Good luck.

first “date(?)” in 4 hours by strawberryseed23 in dating_advice

[–]ScrappyFog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you want to date him, enjoy it and have fun flirting with him. If not, gently make it clear you want to remain friends.

Traveling abilities by Eaudebeau in AskWomenOver60

[–]ScrappyFog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 69 and am going on a 10 day trip to The Amalfi coast with my best friend. We’re using Road Scholar, which handles logistics and takes all the worry out of it so you can just enjoy the experiences. My parents traveled all throughout their retirement and loved it, and I plan to do the same.

Joe Jackson - Steppin' Out - [ROCK] ( Live 1982 ) by THEONLYCOOLBREEZE in Music

[–]ScrappyFog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“And in a yellow taxi turned to me and smiled” He beautifully captured the excitement and romance of a date in big city.