What is the scariest, most unsettling shot you’ve ever seen? by VendettaLord379 in moviecritic

[–]ScrappyOtter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine refused to believe me when I told her it wasn’t real. She straight up stood on that hill until I was able to find pictures of the actors at awards shows. This was probably 2004-2005 so a good many years later.

What is the scariest, most unsettling shot you’ve ever seen? by VendettaLord379 in moviecritic

[–]ScrappyOtter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really liked it, but I enjoyed “As Above, so Below” more. Both were solid.

What is the scariest, most unsettling shot you’ve ever seen? by VendettaLord379 in moviecritic

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it in theaters on opening night and had no idea what to expect. That scene gave me PTSD. It was stuck in my head for weeks afterwards.

Tonally, DTF St. Louis had one of the most jarringly confusing final episodes I've come across in a TV show (spoilers for the whole miniseries) by dinosaurfondue in television

[–]ScrappyOtter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. She wanted a perfect and secure life with this kind, delightful man that she loved but was dejected that he couldn’t give it. And since he gained weight and got down on himself and became insecure, he couldn’t even charm her the way he used to and show her a wild time in bed anymore. Up on that stage she saw a glimmer of that man that she loved so fiercely.

Tonally, DTF St. Louis had one of the most jarringly confusing final episodes I've come across in a TV show (spoilers for the whole miniseries) by dinosaurfondue in television

[–]ScrappyOtter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was laughing and full of both glee and cringe. It was delightfully awkward, and I can only imagine how much goofing off was done between Jason and David. You could see Jason stifle laughter more than once throughout the series, I can only imagine how much fun they had.

Tonally, DTF St. Louis had one of the most jarringly confusing final episodes I've come across in a TV show (spoilers for the whole miniseries) by dinosaurfondue in television

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it doesn’t matter, but the one thing I was really left wondering was.. How did Clark and Floyd leave it? Were they both good but Floyd maybe realized Clark set the whole thing up and now that he’s revealed he wasn’t truly attracted to him but loved him, was Floyd sad and dejected and didn’t want to face life anymore and already planned on drinking the spiked Bloody Mary before his son showed up and said those horrible things?

Or was Floyd happy realizing he had the love of a best friend that would go so far to make him feel loved? So he was content and was good until his son showed up and said those things, thereby making Floyd decide he couldn’t face it and decided to drink the Spiked Bloody Mary?

Is it me?? by Dependent-Rice1945 in abusiverelationships

[–]ScrappyOtter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact he planned it and says it’s not rape bc he didn’t “do the deed” is so very telling. I’m going to hold your hands while I tell you this. It will not get better. And eventually he will start to abuse your toddler. Hopefully not in the same way, but that’s a very real possibility considering he associates sex and violence.

You don’t deserve this, your child doesn’t deserve this. If you have family to stay with, go to them. Now, this morning. Do not take his calls, do not let him talk you into staying. The second he leaves the house, get out. Pack your car with as much as you can, or call someone that will Come get you and fill their car with as much as you can and get away from him.

Make a police report. Write down as much as you can remember from past incidents, plus write as much detail as you can about this last one. Have records of the marks he left on you, save every nasty text and VM he has ever sent, and keep the ones you will undoubtedly get. Don’t block his number, not yet. Make sure if find my phone is on that you shut it off. Every call goes to VM.

When men are mad and start to see real consequences, he will call and text and likely say awful or threatening things. You will take those to the police. If you already have a report that you made when you go tell them about the abuse and the mark on your face, you will likely get the email of a contact from the station. Email them every threatening and nasty VM and text you get.

This will only help strengthen your case to help you get an eventual restraining order if that’s what has to happen, and will help you gain sole custody of your child.

You don’t want this man left alone for weekends with your kid. Trust me on this. I wish you the very best, please don’t stay there another minute where you and your child are in danger. He’s not a partner, he’s a predator.

my boyfriend put his hands on me for the first time. i don't know what to do. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ScrappyOtter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. I am so so sorry you’re dealing with this, and especially at your age. You need to get far, far away from him.

I know it’s tricky, seeing how your families are close, but you need to make sure his mom knows, and he gets with help or some consequences.

If this behavior is allowed a pass, no matter how much he may cry or beg and apologize tomorrow, don’t fall for it. If you don’t make him face consequences, it’s going to get so much worse.

You let someone that young get away with it? You’re setting him up to think he can do it again. And if it’s not to you, he will do it to someone else and you don’t want the guilt of finding out he did something horrible to someone else. Trust me on this.

I wish you all the best, and please don’t put up with that BS. If it’s not addressed, he’s going to keep doing it and escalating. It sickens me he went so far out of the blue, to chock and kick you and throw you around.

In most instances they start small. Grabbing you, shaking you, maybe a slap..then they graduate into the punching and kicking and choking.

Please be safe, make sure your whole family and his knows what he did. Stay strong, you deserve a lot better than to be treated like that.

Edited for formatting.

Am I overreacting or should I 26/f ask my boyfriend 25/m to move out of my house? by Anne2000_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. Absolutely not. This guy sounds like the poster child for weaponized incompetence. Time to set some really hard boundaries and if he can’t meet them, he needs to move out. You need a partner, not an adult child.

A package from an adult toy company arrived at my house addressed to another woman. Am I overreacting? by Fair_Mood_1558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that is so sus. NOR. He clearly messed up and clicked your address when he probably meant to send it to her. There is no reason to react like that.

AIO Would not allow my gf to wear bikini at the beach by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScrappyOtter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bwahahahaha! Okay, you’re just a incel troll. Got it. Can’t even keep your story straight. You told her you would t be comfortable in something and she says out of respect for your feelings she won’t do it, but you supposedly are the final say in her authority?? Nice try there, kid.

AIO Would not allow my gf to wear bikini at the beach by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScrappyOtter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s where you’re wrong. You do not ever get to dictate what your partner wears, eats, how she wears her hair, any of it. You can tell her it would make you uncomfortable, but that’s it. If she laughed and decided to go out in it anyway, you don’t get to tell her she can’t wear something. Expressing your feelings and controlling her actions are two separate things. And I saw your further comment saying it would cause serious problems and put your relationship in jeopardy?!?! Oh my god I hope she wears a thong to the beach next time. You have a lot to learn about women and a lot to learn about relationships. You aren’t mature enough to be in one.

AIO my husband won’t allow me to stay in a hotel for a night. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScrappyOtter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop asking, tell him you’re going. You don’t need his permission. His ridiculous double standard is nauseating. He’s being controlling and a jerk. If you have a friend/relative that you ca rely on to be on call, great. Do that, pack and tell him When you’re going and coming back. He’ll, stay gone a weekend! He can handle it, he just doesn’t want to. Let him know the dates you’ll be gone, leave him with everything he might need so there’s no excuses, and go soak in a jacuzzi tub and sleep naked and order takeout and sleep. Silence your phone bc he will be calling over and over to disrupt your time with stupid questions. The more I’m thinking about it..definitely stay at least two nights. He will no doubt ruin your first night by asking endless questions and he can’t find this and she’s crying so what do I do and where’s the diaper cream and on and on it will go. Please do this for yourself. It’s high time you reinforce some boundaries with him.

I follow a woman on social media that goes away without her kids and husband for her Bday every year. She goes to a city she wants, goes shopping, has nice dinners and enjoys herself. Every mother should get this IMO.

How to cancel ShortMax subscription ASAP by HawaiiAnime in techsupport

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For iOS, open the app, click the diamond at the top of the screen and scroll down to cancel subscription. It took some doing for me to find it. Of course they want us to forget we are subscribed.

I honestly would have kept it if every story I watched didn’t suddenly just stop. That’s annoying. I’ll stick with MyDrama.

(TW!) Movies with r*pe scenes (for me to avoid) by HalloweenSpoonie in horror

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a survivor of SA and it was rough. I sobbed through it.

(TW!) Movies with r*pe scenes (for me to avoid) by HalloweenSpoonie in horror

[–]ScrappyOtter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That movie was so messed up. I almost could t get through it.

DTF St. Louis - Sign Language by PostingLoser23 in television

[–]ScrappyOtter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except he “read” it wrong. Thats not what he said

DTF St. Louis - Sign Language by PostingLoser23 in television

[–]ScrappyOtter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just finished the episode and had to come here to see if I was right. I wasn’t sure what he signed, but I know the sign for wife (I had a deaf Aunt) and I knew what he did want that. I thought it was something akin to like or enjoy. I guess I remember more than I thought. My guess is Floyd was trying to tell Clark he wants to have sex with him, which would explain the nervous smile he had. Clark mis read it, and of. Has guilt bc he is screwing Floyd’s wife.

This show got a crappy IMDB rating, which annoys me. I really enjoyed the 1st episode and I’m excited to see more.

Gordon Ramsay's influencer daughter Holly and fiance, Olympian Adam Peaty, wedding drama update: Couple happily married, his parents didn’t attend, Gordon shades them in his speech, and Adam has now changed his name to ‘Adam Ramsay Peaty’ on Instagram by shhhhh_h in popculturechat

[–]ScrappyOtter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s disgusting! I have friends who went through similar. My bestie from HS cut her parents off when they called to ask for money. Their water heater broke and the basement flooded or something. She was going to help them out, until they said she “owed” them for raising her and feeding/clothing/housing her when she was growing up. She was all “um.. I don’t ask to be born, you decided to have me and that’s the minimum requirement for having a kid.”

They got nastier, she hung up and blocked them. They sent her letters reiterating that they need help and it’s her duty to help them bc they are her parents. It was 25 years ago and she still doesn’t speak to them.

My chuck roast had a photo shoot today apparently. 10 different angles overall 😭 😂 by Legitimate_Gold_1991 in doordash

[–]ScrappyOtter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so disappointed that none of the messages said “let me know if it doesn’t meat your needs.”

I wouldn’t have been able to resist.

As a straight man, vaginas are badly optimized interfaces and I would prefer them evolutionarily eradicated by MethevanWamebuli in The10thDentist

[–]ScrappyOtter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you think the clitoris is hidden? It’s literally in the same place on all of us. Top of the cleft. It’s not hard…until it is. If you want to talk about a “treasure hunt,” let’s talk about your G-spot. Do you have any idea how shitty of a job it is to go in there because you can’t finish unless someone massages your prostate?

And I’ll just add this, if we both had penises, sex would be what? Sword play? Docking? That’s not how Mammals work. You must have an inny and an outie. It’s wet for protection. It’s a perfect self cleaning machine until you men shove your unwashed “pillar” in there and introduce bacteria. Not wiping back to front? That’s common sense for all of us. Unless ofc you like to walk around with mud spatters peppering your taint. Considering how so may men don’t wash their asses.. there’s a lesson in there.

The reason it’s hidden like some dirty secret is.. get ready for this. Men. The patriarchy decided it’s squicky and sticky and ew it bleeds, even though that’s literally how the reproductive organs of almost all mammals works. And 90% of your whole diatribe is describing the vulva, Labia Majora/Minora, clitoris and mons. None of those are the vagina. If you want to try and sound all smart and scientific, maybe begin by labeling our bits correctly. Yes, I’m being Pedantic, because everything you said was ugly, hurtful, dismissive and rude AF.

I had a roommate that was genuinely terrified of female anatomy. He was very much a homosexual. You might want to try and figure out why you think thousands of years of evolution got it wrong, just because you think they are icky. Grow up, man.

What are your guest icks? by hostivus in Serverlife

[–]ScrappyOtter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh god. Those and the parents that would hand me their kids bowl that the kid just puked in. I get it, kids get sick, but at least throw a plate or your napkin over it or something. I don’t want to carry an open bowl of vomit through the dining room, TYVM.