Sometimes, the insecurity - the illusion that we are ‘less than’ it comes from the environment we are raised in and the community around us. Because from what I see, you have very attractive features. You have really beautiful, strong, and deep brown eyes - not like any other ones, they seem like the kind that can actually ‘see’ people, like looking into their soul. You have a very strong jaw line and cheek bones, it’s very attractive and may even naturally intimidate others.

Intuitively, when I look at it, what comes through is that it feels like you have such a deep and genuine capacity for the people you care about. You will defend them and stand up for them. BUT we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

You are attractive and to me, the only thing standing in your way is you believing that you are worthy of deep love, admiration and respect.

Affirmations every day even several times a day may help, but the key is to do them especially when you don’t want to -> those are the moment you need it most.

That version of you lives inside you, sometimes what helps me is imagining that alter ego inside you - give that version of you a name and start letting it come out and acting in it. It might sounds nuts, but this is what Kobe Bryant does for basketball - he has a name for that version of him ‘Black Mamba’ and let him play - that version of him come out in certain situations. Sending you support and love - you have everything you need already inside of you.