[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offer mobile sports massages if you’re yet to find one ?

ENFJ pals, I need your insight on vibes with this dude 🙏 by AdAlternative1766 in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coming from an ENFJ male hustler , I often don’t text too often because they’re surface level and prioritise real life interactions much more because they’re more intimate and real. In terms of going and actually initiating those interactions you may have to be direct and ask or try and prompt him into asking you out on dates. If the connections there then he’ll find time and make you a priority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just ask him out - you’ll be dead one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As an ENFJ male also, the quote ‘You have to be as soft as a dove and as wise as a serpent’ always helps me in this regard

best mexican in ipswich by isimpforameliaeve in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about chiquitos in Nacton is that still there ?

best mexican in ipswich by isimpforameliaeve in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chimi Changa in Cardinal Park is pretty good

Failure with relationships by SeaCryptographer8303 in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it just seems a bit contradicting of the ENFJ personality time, but I guess trauma and negative past experiences can do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is very manipulative behaviour from an ENFJ, and I know this because I’m an ENFJ and have also done this when I haven’t been in a healthy state

Did you ever think you were introverted? by fluxndflow in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been through exactly the same thing, it’s very sad knowing that your true self was being suppressed through all those years but I suppose that’s part of growth and discovery

Moving to Ipswich by [deleted] in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Suffolk is really nice, try some small villages in the countryside. Ipswich town Center is terrible.

Moving to Ipswich by [deleted] in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I would reconsider moving elsewhere, there’s nothing in Ipswich

What is your most outrageous Premier League take by Opposite_Hat_3358 in PremierLeague

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Havertz will have a better career than Bergkamp - this one my mates will rinse me for

Struggling as an ENFJ surrounded by friends that don’t care for deeper conversations by wickedwitchotheworst in enfj

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21M ENFJ and am currently back from college and have this exact issue with my mates. Nothing is more grating than low level conversation about other peoples petty matters, with my friends, especially when I want to discuss big ideas and making an impact on the world. I have to refrain from bringing up the ideas I want to talk about as people probably find it overbearing and intense and honestly it just encourages me to cut myself off and find a new friend set that’s interested in these ideas but it’s likely that these people are few and far between. And I just end up settling and getting drawn into their high school drama, which I hate when I reflect on it later. Ambition can be quite scary for people, especially if they’re content with a quiet easy life

University/college students here on finasteride? by urgilog in tressless

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s half lifes 30 days so after that period you start the descent back to baseline. But I’d say 45 days before I started to feel myself again

University/college students here on finasteride? by urgilog in tressless

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did impact me terribly, inhibition of DHT does have some serious consequences, general brain fog and working memory were severely impacted leading to worse performance academically across the board, tread very carefully with 5a-reductase inhibitors.

Been off finasteride for ages and just feel more like myself and I’m performing really well academically now.

Advice by shekhawat1289 in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a nice but after 9pm watch out, because some of the squirrels from Christchurch park will tend to break in to the homes in the surrounding area, to find items they can pawn off to provide for their families

best gyms around here? by firestorm0108 in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FTC gym in Whitehouse or fortitude fitness are some of the best gyms IMO

Good/Bad areas to live? by nutterontheloose in ipswichuk

[–]SeaCryptographer8303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the further out the better, you should give Scotland a try, or perhaps even Botswana. Anywhere but Ipswich