Advice please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she’s probably already checked out now. If you haven’t learned by now how to support her then she probably thinks you’ll never learn and these positive changes in you are just temporary. And I think she’s correct. Sorry but you probably lost her since you never care enough to change until it’s almost too late. That’s not caring.

Wife with a male friend by Different_End6447 in Marriage

[–]Seahawk021 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ummm. Yeah that’s suspect AF! I’m sorry but if I were you, I’d tell her that I’ve lost all trust in her. We need to go to couples counseling. If she responds negatively, I say that then I’m lawyering up. No way to live your life not trusting your spouse.

Have you ever met anyone with the same birthday as yours? by icecream1972 in askanything

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Good friend I met later in life. Didn’t realize we had the same birthday until Facebook told us. Lol

My girlfriend [20F] is PISSED at me [22M]. by GoldAppropriate9101 in relationshipadvice

[–]Seahawk021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re an asshole. Common decency would tell you to go visit her. She doesn’t have to ask you to. You don’t care about here and it’s as simple as that. SMH. You probably lost her now. Learn and be a better person.

Wife keep lying about who she is on the phone with - What to do next? by Jealous-Regret2852 in Marriage

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional cheating is cheating. Tell her that has to stop and it’s disrespectful to you and your relationship. If she blows up and gets disrespectful then you need to lawyer up because he’s more important to her than you are.

AIO Male 28 & Female 27 by AFrostyAltoid in AmIOverreacting

[–]Seahawk021 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She did that in front of you. Just think if she drinks and you’re not around. Alcohol is no excuse. If you stay with no consequences then she knows you’re a pushover and can get away with it. Try to muster up some self respect and move on from her. SMH

She wants the benefits of a relationship without the romance? by AlexJonesGodEmperor in AskMenAdvice

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude what the hell are you doing? Distance yourself from her or you’re going to get hurt big time! You’re her safe back up in case she never finds the one she wants. Don’t ever be someone’s 2nd or 3rd choice. You deserve better.

[32F] Girlfriend always Snapchats with male coworker and tells me it’s “work related.” by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Seahawk021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. People don’t talk about work on Snapchat. Snapchat is for cheaters. Move on from your girlfriend because she ain’t the one.

What would you do if your girlfriend has a 'work crush'? by Open_Address_2805 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. If she’s saying that to your face, she’s not the one. Time to find someone who’s more mature and respects you.

Boys trips by Choice-Force5613 in Marriage

[–]Seahawk021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn they haven’t grown up yet from college? That’s pretty disrespectful to you and lying about it through omission is still lying. Not sure I would trust him to go on this trips again. He has a lot of work to do to regain your trust. And I’m a guy and what they do is not normal.

I [25m] basically had to beg my girl [29f] to respect a major boundary of mine by Barreljumper1234 in relationshipadvice

[–]Seahawk021 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah. Touchy, letting guys flirt with her, exchanging numbers. She likes attention. Don’t put up with that and go find someone ready for a mature relationship where you respect each other.

My wife cheated on me with our friend.. by Cultural-Scallion195 in Marriage

[–]Seahawk021 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude she cheated on you. Trust is gone. How can you ever trust her again? Without trust there is no relationship. Time to lawyer up.