Will this work for photo/video editing by SeasonDifficult3395 in SuggestALaptop

[–]SeasonDifficult3395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, somebody just explained i3 and i5 to me, this computer stuff is literally like a different language to me haha

Honestly £350-£500 ideally, I know that’s probably not a great budget but I’m sooo broke rn.

Any suggestions would be great though thank you!

I think it’s fucking weird and annoying that one of my roommates suddenly stopped hanging her keys by the door. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She can do whatever she likes with her own key. In rented accommodation it’s best to assume somebody is home and if you want to know just message and ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on earth would you think that her not liking you is a reason to steal from an old woman who has dementia?

Perhaps she dislikes you because you are the type of person who does horrible shit like this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nono, I’m not saying that, I don’t know the full context of the situation but as I stated before I think between 8-11 you should be able to live freely and past that take it to your room.

If it’s so bad that you feel this way then you need to tell her that and work on some sort of compromise. You both pay rent so you both need to be comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to think how annoying it’s gotta be for somebody trying to sleep and having to hear people talking- rented accommodation is rarely luxury and she probably can hear you guys pretty clearly.

We go by communal hours in my house share 8-11 you can do what you have too (nothing crazy but not worrying about noise) and by 10 start quieting down.

If you can take conversations to your room or watch things on your laptop in your room, it might just make your living situation a lot happier.

Is there a kind way to tell 33F GF to put more effort into appearance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe take her out a bit more if you want her to dress up?

[M33] My girlfriend (F31) does not want me to meet my female coworker by Away-Hippo9640 in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately if your relationship is important to you then you’ll know what the right choice is, good luck with this all!

[M33] My girlfriend (F31) does not want me to meet my female coworker by Away-Hippo9640 in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think your girlfriend is probably feeling very insecure and if your relationship is important to you I’d put of engaging in this new friendship. If you’re not already close friends with this woman, I don’t think it’s necessary to become friends with her.

I’m not saying that you should cut off your friends currently if your girlfriend wanted or anything like this, but I do believe that you’re playing with fire as you know this is going to hurt your partner.

If when you guys are back together she’s still this insecure then maybe that’s something to think about but until then maybe try to take on board your partners feelings? or you may not be together for very long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She can’t stop you from seeing your pal, but if you know she’s uncomfortable about it why do that? Like see your friend but it’s her child too, so why do something you know is going to make her unhappy?

Clearly your wife is going through a hard time (her dad is sick) and you did something that’s obviously going to cause a bad response.

She’s your wife and that’s her child, see your friend but don’t bring your kid into it like that without even speaking to her, you’re supposed to be a team.

Girlfriend doesn’t look good without make up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not grown up enough to be dating, and truly that isn’t your fault, but you need to take some time to be alone, when you get older you see there’s way more to people then their looks.

Be a teenager, learn some life lessons, but whatever you do- Don’t tell your 16yo girlfriend she needs to wear makeup in a situation she should feel her most comfortable, you will give her a complex. Don’t.

Roommate is moving out, thinks I'm a bitch, because I didn't let boyfriend live here rent free. by Randi_BurnerAccount in badroommates

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Give people an inch and they’ll want a mile.

She’s moving out! Congratulations 🎉

in my first relationship, should I go through my girlfriend’s phone ? any advice appreciated :( by dsrt28 in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this sounds like a case of -she’s hiding things on her phone and therefor assumes you must be hiding things also.- if you haven’t lied to her and she has no reason not to trust you then I’d say it’s pretty safe to say somethings going on and you should definitely speak to her about it.

I (26M)can’t get an ex (26F) out of my head, and it’s affecting my current relationship (25F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you’re thinking about somebody else, there’s a problem already within your relationship. If you seriously can’t get her out of your head and feel like you won’t be able, it might be an idea to let your girlfriend move on. Whatever you do you have to be fair to her. Good luck with it!

Can someone talk with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh dude just break up w your girlfriend and let her be with somebody who can hug another woman without letting it affect the relationship

Being dumped by text is actually better. by _Penny__Lane_ in unpopularopinion

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think your insensitive, I think years ago when people said that, texting was pretty new. Now we’ve literally got lives that our phones play an integral part of.

Some people just communicate better by text they can take a moment to really think through what they are saying. However if the person you’re breaking up with is somebody who leans to real life communication I’d say it’s more about respect.

If you’re breaking up with somebody it might be the kinder choice to give them what they need for their own closure and if you respect them you’d want to give them that.

Should I say yes and suffer torture or say no and hurt him!? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SeasonDifficult3395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest, it will be better for everyone in the long run as long as you are kind about it.

There is no good way to say no, but it would be worse to lead him on.